Question Posted Wednesday October 16 2013, 8:39 pm
There is this guy I like and I think he likes me too but I have doubts sometimes. He started talking to me first. He always comes around me and talks to me. He asks me lots of questions about myself like where I work or what I'm doing on the weekends etc. Sometimes we joke and tease each other. He touches me a lot like on my arms or my shoulder or my back which I heard was a sign that a guy could like you. He calls me doll all the time which I think is a compliment. Sometimes he will even come sit next to me really close and talk to me. He told when is birthday was and then on the day of I said happy birthday he got all happy and said you remembered! So I think he likes me. But he hasnt asked me out yet or for my number. I'm not sure what to do. Should I wait or is there anything I could do to show I'm interested. I dont want to do anything to scare him off or mess things up. Could you please help?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? lightoftruth answered Thursday October 17 2013, 10:25 pm: Well he's definitely showing signs that he's interested in you. Either that or he's just a really friendly guy.
He does sound like a genuinely nice guy though and seems to care about you.
I think you should start making even more of an effort to talk to him. Even a little bit more flirty. If he seems to be reciprocating and still interested, that's good. You could even make plans with friends, guys and girls, and invite him along. Maybe go bowling or something and see if he'd like to go. If he does, then he's most likely interested. [ lightoftruth's advice column | Ask lightoftruth A Question ]
savitar1612 answered Thursday October 17 2013, 5:35 pm: Never settle for less and make no mistake when most men are trying to get with a girl they are lying..I've lived for 50 years and been married for over 28 years..Never,ever buy into any man or young man intentions until you have know him and his family for sometime..Find out everything about him and listen to your first instincts but remember what my grand mom used to say..Michael if a boys lips are moving their mostly lying! Stay Safe & Don't date until your over 17-21 [ savitar1612's advice column | Ask savitar1612 A Question ]
Natalka16 answered Thursday October 17 2013, 9:14 am: It is clear that this guy is your friend as he spends a lot of time with you. If he likes spending time with you than he definitely likes you because let's be honest guys don't like to waste their time. He sounds genuinely nice from your description and I have no doubt that he's a great guy. You didn't say how long you know each other for so it is hard to say why he hasn't given you his phone number yet. Maybe he has the same doubts that you have, maybe he isn't sure if you like him. If I was you I would talk to him openly about you're feelings. I know that you might be scared but trust me if he's a real friend and most importantly a real man he'll understand. Remember there's nothing better than a good talk. [ Natalka16's advice column | Ask Natalka16 A Question ]
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