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Boyfriend got a Ticket?!
Posted Tuesday January 21 2014, 11:35 am
My boyfriend and i have beeen together for 1 and a half years now. And we broke up for about 2-3 months and got back together for one month. Well he told me thatbhe got into a fight with his parents but he didnt tell me what it was about. And then on his business instagram i saw that he was selling some stuff to pay for his speeding ticket. Why didnt he tell me about this? Like do you guys have any ideas? Because frankly im concern about why he didnt just tell me this.
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my crush likes my friend
Posted Monday January 20 2014, 10:09 pm
So I have known this guy since we were thirteen. He's 22 and I'm 21 now. We've always had a thing for each other but we were never vocal about it. We spent new years together and ended up having a moment. He tried to kiss me, and as much as I wanted to I couldn't agree because he had a long distance girlfriend. A week later he was talking to my best friend explaining to her how much he liked me and how he wasn't sure if I liked him back and how he had broken up with his long distance girlfriend. So anyway. This past weekend we got together with a ton of friends and decided to go bowling. It was horrible because He and one of my other friends that he had never met before kept starring at each other and giving each other the "eyes"....
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Messed up
Posted Monday January 20 2014, 9:58 pm
K so basically been talking to this guy for a few months now and we've hung out a few times. Today he asked me to come over to just cuddle and watch a movie so I said sure. Everything was going well we cuddled and watched a movie and then started making out and that's when things went downhill. While he was making out with me he was touching me in spots I wasn't comfortable with him touching me so I asked if he could please just stop because I wasn't comfortable and he did for a little bit and then the kissing got a little more intense and he started the awkward touching so again I asked him to stop and jokingly said otherwise and he said otherwise what and I said I'll leave that's when he said k bye now he was laughing when he said this bu...
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Is he using me?
Posted Monday January 20 2014, 9:05 pm
It's far to early but you know how girls are, we all obsess over nothing. A boy who I'm friends with has asked me to start to hang out. When we see each other on night out we both openly flirt with each other but lately he's made his intentions clear that he wants us to have more than a flirtatious friendship. I want more too but he told me to keep it on the down low and not tell anyone if I come to his house. I'd this because he dosnt want people knowing our business or thinks it's too early to let everyone know were hanging out or is he ashamed of people knowing were more than friends? This guys a real gentle man but he's good looking too and I'm sure he could get any other girl so this could just be an act I don't know? Help!
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vacation with bf
Posted Monday January 20 2014, 12:30 pm
21/f
My boyfriend and his friends keep talking about going somewhere for spring break. His friend (who I am very close to) said "you can't come unless you bring two girls for me & (the other friend)" I don't know if he was joking or not?! & then my boyfriend made a comment about how he doesn't think he'll have enough money for both of us to go.. & i said of course i'll pay for myself. & he said no (he pays for everything)
I wouldn't care about going somewhere with them on spring break. But, its me and my boyfriends 2 year anniversary like that same week.
don't you think we should spend that time together?
i don't care about him going on vacations with o...
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Complicated
Posted Monday January 20 2014, 9:36 am
And that is why I pose the question. Trust me when I say all of these thoughts have entered my mind, Honestly, I don't think much can come from this. You see I work a lot, and I mean up to 20 hours a day on a regular basis, she is someone that passes the time and someone that is pleasant to speak with. I myself am just trying to figure out the rest of what she is saying and why.
I don't imagine that she cut off an engagement but I'm not in the position to just call her out because the exact reason you point out about me not knowing anything besides what she tells me,
Trust me when I say that this thing I am in is just a thing, and someone to talk with because oddly enough her life hours actually fit mine and ...
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I miss him
Posted Monday January 20 2014, 3:09 am
I went out with my boyfriend for 7 months we broke up before and he left me for his ex he then he begged for me back and ended up leaving me again he use to go to different schools now he goes to mine and I have him in a class I love him so much I fell in love with him I have begged for him but it doesn't work I'm trying to make his gf mad do she can dump him buy she doesn't what can I do he needs to be mine again I live him so much I'm 17 btw
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Friends.. maybe more? Its complicated
Posted Monday January 20 2014, 1:43 am
So, in a nutshell. I met a girl online and we have been talking for over a month. First day we talked on PS3 we exchanged phone numbers and had a very lengthy conversation, and honestly since then that is the case. We have fun conversations, now she was engaged when we first met.
Out of no where she explained that they are no longer a couple, to be honest I am not sure if I believe that; however, she has been spending more time talking and texting me recently. And my confusion lies in the fact that she insists on talking with me every night and we end up falling asleep. She actually even text me asking if i will fall sleep with her on the phone. She states she lives at home with her parents, which I assume is true.
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boyfriends ex.
Posted Sunday January 19 2014, 2:06 am
I've been dating my boyfriend for 2 months. We've been on and off for a while and one time when we were broken up he started dating a girl he knew I hated. They broke up and we got back together then broke up and he left me for her again. We got back together but she doesn't leave him alone. He says he only won out with her and got back with her because she gave him money for his drugs but she claims shr never has. They both are liars about tons of stuff so I don't believe them. Anyway yesterday he said he talked to her. I was beyond pissed because he said he wouldn't but he did. He claims she kept bugging and crying and he felt like a dick for supposeably saying something rude to her. He said that's the only reason why he talked to.her. se...
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What's the next best step in our relationship?
Posted Saturday January 18 2014, 5:46 pm
My S.O. and I have been together about a year. It was one of those things that was love at first sight and we fell hard and fast for each other. He's the only man I've ever trusted and the only man I've ever had sex with. We wound up getting a beautiful home together in a luxury neighborhood after being together 4 months. We were great together for the longest time but now I feel we're growing individually but not together.
Since we've gotten together we both moved out of our parent's homes.I started financing my first car. He got a full time job for the first time and now he's being promoted to Assistant Manager where he works. Though I already had a full time job (which I continued working until this week) I'm starting a ne...
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i got ur comment
Posted Friday January 17 2014, 10:33 pm
I got your comment on my post about my husband watching porn.. my main problem is that he lies to me about it and hides it from me.. when in the past I have told him numerous times that if he gonna watch just tell me.. and don't hide it from me.. and the fact that he continues to hide it from me and lie to me is whats makes me extremely mad!! for example just the other day I was not going threw his phone I went on it to look something up because mine was dead and we were at a friends house and as soon as I pulled up his google app it popped up his history where he was looking up porn.. a little while later he could tell that something was bothering me and he asked me what was wrong and as soon as we were alone I mentioned it to him calmly.....
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I cheated on my boyfriend :( What do I do?
Posted Friday January 17 2014, 6:44 pm
We are in a long distance relationship. We met when he was visiting my city 5 months ago.
I was extremely drunk last night at a bar with some friends. We were all dancing and the entire evening I made sure that no guys would try to grind up on me, etc. I got more and more intoxicated as the night went on, and towards the end of the night, some dude grabbed me to dance with me and I didn't resist. We made out briefly, pulling away maybe two or three times, before my friends found me.
I was extremely torn up. I began to sob immediately after I realized what I'd done and I told my boyfriend the next morning. He was upset but said that he forgives me; however, he doesn't know if we will be able to get through the i...
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My crush asking me to be friends and now he is ignoring me!!
Posted Friday January 17 2014, 12:15 pm
Alright so i live in Pakistan and i am 15 years old. I like a guy in my academy in my class it's been since 3 months i guess...
He always used to you know stare me and tease me....and help me in any way he can. He is like this only with me...(he liked me but didnt made it obvious) the point is that because of asian culture we cannot be friends..my parents dont mind that i will be friends with boys but they dont know him and they dont trust him (so you can see it is hard for me to explain them everything)
Okay so the main point comes here one day i was going he stopped me near the staircase ALONE !!
And asked me that can we be friends ??? Alright he is my crush i wanted to be his frnd but i was queit and shocked...he we...
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I still love my ex and care about him? :(
Posted Thursday January 16 2014, 10:21 pm
Me and my ex were dating for a year and everything seemed almost perfect. Of course we would argue quite a bit but it was small stuff that every couple goes through. We both loved each other very much and never lied to each other or anything like that. Sadly my dad passed away from brain cancer and it took a toll on our relationship. I wasn't able to be there for him and
I became depressed. We had a small argument on December 19th and he told me he was done with me. I told him I was so sorry for everything and that I would try harder but he didn't want me anymore. He said he was doing it for me and that he wasn't able to be there for me, he aslo said he wanted to fix himself. I told him multiple times how sorry I was and that I real...
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I miss my ex
Posted Thursday January 16 2014, 8:15 pm
I miss my ex. I honesty don't even consider him to my ex because we dated half a day, not even. But we talked for like 4 weeks before.
Okay so me and this boy talked. Our friends hooked us up. He actually started liking me first, so I figured, why not get to know him? And I never told my family members we were talking or that we even 'dated'. Well I actually really started liking him. We started to meet up and he would walk me to my bus and we would hold hands and hug. And the day we 'dated' was the first day we ever hung out. And we kissed. I thought I wasn't ready.. And broke up with him right after I got home over text messaging. I felt like such a jerk. But I'm pretty sure he took it hard because he kept posting...
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Mind vs. Heart; Security or Love?
Posted Thursday January 16 2014, 1:13 pm
Where do I begin..
When I was 16 I started dating Levi. I was a high school drop out, he was a 4.0 student. We fell in love, hard. I was head over heels for this kid. Things were pretty good, aside from his cliche over protective and hateful Mother. (Ah the classic evil mother in law situation). And the only real complaints I had about Levi was that he wasn't super cuddly or emotional with me, whereas I'm a very cuddly, almost clingy type. lol. And that he had an interest in experimenting with drugs in college(weed, molly, alcohol). I didn't like the idea at all, but he was more adventurous than I.
When Levi and I turned 18, he was applying to Universities around the state. He ended up getting into one that was about 6 hours a...
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Do you think ok to cheat if your spouse doesn't want to have sex?
Posted Thursday January 16 2014, 12:04 pm
One of my male friends said that if his wife does not want to satisfy him sexually then he has a right to cheat on her with another woman. Or if she denies him sex then he should cheat. He says that women should always please their husbands. A lot of people agreed with him on this. I don't its okay to cheat just because your wife doesn't feel like having sex. What if your wife can't have sex because of medical conditions? What do you think?
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Getting back together
Posted Tuesday January 14 2014, 4:22 pm
Hi I'm 15 and I recently just broke up with my boyfriend. Well he broke up with me. I know a lot of people will say I'm too young to be going out with someone but what I had with this guy was really special and we were so close, I knew everything about him and I had helped him through so much. Anyway.. I noticed that he was being really distant with me recently and I thought I had done something wrong. So, I texted him and asked if I had done anything wrong and he told me no that it was to do with certain personal problems I know are a touchy subject and affect him a lot. I tried to help him but he kept pushing me away saying there was nothing I could do to help. I started to get upset about something that had been bothering me for a whole...
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Long Distance Relationship
Posted Tuesday January 14 2014, 2:31 pm
Does long distance relationship can be conquered?
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Best friend interfering with my relationship
Posted Tuesday January 14 2014, 3:42 am
I am an 18 year old female, I have been very close to my best friend for years. We have been like sisters and we know everything about each other. I have not for seen this as a problem until recently when I started dating a guy who is a mutual friend of ours we will call sam. Soon after my best friend started dating sam's best friend we will call matt. This didn't seem to be much of a problem until she started to interfere in mine and sam's relationship and getting upset with me when I was spending time with him or when I couldn't talk to her because sam and i were on the phone. She has recently told me that sam and I are getting to close and need to back off, while her and matt are allowed to do whatever and on the rare occasions I say any...
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