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My crush asking me to be friends and now he is ignoring me!!
Alright so i live in Pakistan and i am 15 years old. I like a guy in my academy in my class it's been since 3 months i guess...
He always used to you know stare me and tease me....and help me in any way he can. He is like this only with me...(he liked me but didnt made it obvious) the point is that because of asian culture we cannot be friends..my parents dont mind that i will be friends with boys but they dont know him and they dont trust him (so you can see it is hard for me to explain them everything)
Okay so the main point comes here one day i was going he stopped me near the staircase ALONE !!
And asked me that can we be friends ??? Alright he is my crush i wanted to be his frnd but i was queit and shocked...he went from there without saying anything.
I told my sis about it and she told my mom -.-
She was angry but didnt said anything.. Then what hppnd is my mom went to my teachers and told them all the situation (she didnt tell them his name) so you see everything got worse....
He knew his compalin came etc but he was normal with me like before.....and now since 3 days he is totally IGNORING me out...(he told everyone his father is coming to the academy to check his progress so he was little tense about it too though he didnt came maybe he is like his father is coming so my teachers wont complain about him) he stares me but he ignores me and it really kills me...shud i talk to him that we can be good class fellows and sorry for what happened the past whole week or i should just let him ignore me :(.....(keep in mind we both are under observation by everyone)
I dont know he was normal after what all happened and i was too we both were going fine but idk what happaned with him...so what shud i do ?? Write him a letter talk to him and explain things or just let it go (but i feel sorry for him)
P.S his cousin who is in my class was staring me today and helped me twice with my work (he never did that before) and was smiling like an idiott.....is it connected something with my crush ??? :/ because today my crush was ignoring me but his cousin was staring me and smiling at me and helping me with my work.......but before my crush used to do this...(my crush was staring me today but as i mentioned above IGNORED me)
Kindly tell me what to say to my crush..shud i explain things to him or not ? ( i feel sad for him and miss theway he used to rease me and all :( )
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I don't know about Asian culture and not being friends with boys but.... nah. In this day and age, its perfectly acceptable (at least in the west) for a girl your age to be friends with a guy! Esspecially if you like him.
Explain to him everything you've explained here and ask him if its alright and then maybe you can start a friendship. It'll be okay. Perhaps try to explain the situation to your mom and that being friends with a boy doesn't equate to... well... more than that!
(maaaaybe leave out the bit about how he's your crush)
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