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I miss my ex
I miss my ex. I honesty don't even consider him to my ex because we dated half a day, not even. But we talked for like 4 weeks before.
Okay so me and this boy talked. Our friends hooked us up. He actually started liking me first, so I figured, why not get to know him? And I never told my family members we were talking or that we even 'dated'. Well I actually really started liking him. We started to meet up and he would walk me to my bus and we would hold hands and hug. And the day we 'dated' was the first day we ever hung out. And we kissed. I thought I wasn't ready.. And broke up with him right after I got home over text messaging. I felt like such a jerk. But I'm pretty sure he took it hard because he kept posting on twitter how he missed me.
A couple months go by, and its summer. Well I wanted to talk to him again.. So I snapchatted him. And we did start talkin again. But that time, he ended us. Idk if he was talking to another chick or what but I was tired of this. So I just kinda quit bothering him. Now we're back in school and we sit at the same lunch table. Well at the beginning of the year, he wouldn't even look at me. But lately, he has been looking at me and smiling and what not. O yeah I forgot to mention; he has a current girlfriend. Which could explain the happiness. I've been tweeting about him too, hoping that he's been reading them.
Idk I just kinda feel like he was everything I looking for even when I wasn't looking. Ya know? I can honestly see me spending the rest of my life with him. That's why I'm asking what to do about it. I can be myself around him and does the same. I want him back. But the fear of rejection kicks in. Help please
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Well I'd tell you to tell him how you feel, but since he's in a relationship, I'd advise against that. You don't want to ruin a happy relationship.
So for the time being, I'm going to tell you to do your best to move on. It'll probably be really difficult since you see him often but it's the best thing to do for the both of you. Keep your distance, don't tweet about him, don't contact him.
If the relationship between he and his girlfriend don't work out, go ahead and pursue him, but don't do it while he's in a relationship, it's just disrespectful.
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I know its hard right now but the truth is hes moved on and he's happy and you need to accept that I know its not what you want to hear but its the truth. If its truly meant to be then somehow you guys will end up together but let things be for now and just be happy for him and try moving on yourself. It seems impossible to get over an ex until you actually try so make an effort and hopefully things will work out for you.
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