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Last Update: January 27, 2014
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Haye.. i,m bit confused in choosing to buy phone... so i want ur suggestion for it.. as u all know that the iphone 5 price ..so basically i just want to figure it out rather i spent Rs45000.0 on i5 or i choose another cheap option...??
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In my personal opinion I think the s3 or s4 is not only a cheaper option but also a better option. I have the iphone 5 but I just feel with all the upgrades and new stuff they add its just not that great I myself am switching over to the s4.
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Ok, well I had this friend for years and now in high school but I kinda left him alone for 2 years to hang out with other friends but now he met someone else and now they hang out all the time. Now I have taken enough of this I have feelings for him like deep feelings for him. Every time they hang out I have hate feelings towards her. Does it seem that I'm jealous??? (link)
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If you feel angry that he's hanging out with someone else then ya your jealous. It seems like you have feelings for him and the fact that hes hanging out with another girl irritates you because you wish it was you hanging out with him. I suggest asking him to hang out with you and rekindling that friendship again.
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Hi I have been dating a great (m20) guy for a year and a half I don't know how to explain this very well, but Iv always wanted to have a boyfriend and now i realized its hard. I always have a strange feeling of wanting to text him but I feel like he's too busy even though he says it doesn't bother him plus he just plays video games and goes to work but it gets me kind of mad that he doesn't text back I guess its my fault I never text him back fast sometimes because I want to keep my mind busy instead of just waiting for his text. My boyfriend and I are always so close and clingy with each other we almost act like kids in love and I feel like that slows us down from spending time doing something cause it gets us too distracted and I feel like thats part of the reason he get me really attached to him. Don't get me wrong I love it but I don't want him to be in my head that deep in keeping me away from doing everything I have to get done. I just don't know,but I also think about it a lot and I don't like how To control the fact that he's that way. I guess I expect to much from him and I would explain small things he's done oh and he never tried to hurt me of any that sort he's just well kind of slow in common sense and it worries me he's like any other person but it takes a while for him to get something as it happens to me but less. his history with life at home has him thinking he can't be a smart person he over sleeps, takes anti depressing pills forced by parents, goes to the bathroom every 30 to 40mins when hanging out, works at a job I helped him get, he doesn't have a future in mind except with me,I don't know I love him but I don know why I feel like breaking up the last time I did was when I actually did because we were distant cause I was going to through stuff and his mom called me to ask why I wasn't with him and got back together with him even though I did miss him but at the same time I didn't but this was a day break up thing we didn't last broken up (link)
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It doesnt seem like your too happy in this relationship and if thats true then you should end it. You two are still young and this is expected but you shouldnt feel super attached and dependent on each other either. Personally I feel that if your not completely satisfied in this relationship that you end it.
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I need some advice here, so I like this guy named Drake. We're both 16, we have no classes together, I only see him in the hallway a couple times a day and we've never talked. He knows I exist b/c long story short, my friend told Drake's friend who told Drake that I think he's cute. I really want to talk to him, I don't know how though. Should I message him on Facebook? What do I say? I saw him today and he kind of smiled at me :) Also he's super shy and I've heard he's kind of awkward (link)
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Ask your friend to arrange for Drake and his friend to meet up with you guys and and arrange an intro that way you guys can get to talking or Facebook I guess would be a good way to start a conversation and then that way if you see him around you can actually say Hi and have a conversation with him in person.
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Where do I begin..
When I was 16 I started dating Levi. I was a high school drop out, he was a 4.0 student. We fell in love, hard. I was head over heels for this kid. Things were pretty good, aside from his cliche over protective and hateful Mother. (Ah the classic evil mother in law situation). And the only real complaints I had about Levi was that he wasn't super cuddly or emotional with me, whereas I'm a very cuddly, almost clingy type. lol. And that he had an interest in experimenting with drugs in college(weed, molly, alcohol). I didn't like the idea at all, but he was more adventurous than I.
When Levi and I turned 18, he was applying to Universities around the state. He ended up getting into one that was about 6 hours away. This sparked some thought on his part as to whether continuing our relationship would be best. At the time I felt that a long distance relationship would be worth it to me, I was very in love. Long story short, he thought it would be best to break it off. So he did, and let me just say it was the worst time of my life. I have never experienced heart break like I did at that point. Levi then moved 6 hours away.
This next part, I'm not too proud of. Within 2-3 weeks of this break up, I fell for someone else; a definite rebound. This new guy, David, was not my type, he just showed up when I was heart broken and in need of a hug. He was 7 years older than me, and was very charming. I was hooked pretty quickly, only to find that he was emotionally, physically and sexually abusive.
About 3 months after meeting him, David decided he wanted to run back to an ex and see if there was anything left between them. At this same time he and I were on a 'break', Levi and I began talking and he explained to me that breaking up with me was a huge mistake; he wanted me back. He wanted that long distance relationship with me. But I was stuck. David already had me in his claws and I was battered, he had isolated me from my family and friends and he had made me believe that he was the best I would ever have. I can't explain why at the time I couldn't just leave him. I still wish I could go back in time and shake myself for that one. Anyway, David and I were on a break, and while he was out hanging out with his ex, Levi was in town for Christmas, visiting his family. Long story short, we hung out, and ended up having sex. I was very conflicted at this point and ended up shutting Levi out and going back to David.
3 years later....
David still had me under his thumb, but I was extremely tired of being pushed around, hit, yelled at, and made to feel inadequate. I left him in december of 2011. It wasn't easy, but I did it. David was of course devastated and he began stalking me (at one point finding out I was dating around, breaking into my house with a baseball bat, shattering windows, kicking down doors, etc.). He was arrested 3 times in the 3.5 years I was with him, mostly for domestic violence.
After I left him, I felt so free. During those 3 years, Levi and I still occasionally talked through text, phone or skype. Usually a catch-up type conversation. We always remained friends with a soft spot for one another.
Levi was still away at college, I was 22 by this point. In November of 2012 I met Chester (yes that's his real name, lol.) Sparks flew, he was perfect, we fell for each other very quickly. I thought I had found 'the one'. Then at that tell-tale point in the relationship (roughly 6 months in) Chester started sort of backing off, not trying as hard, etc. He had kind of put on a facade and acted the way he thought I wanted him to. Then once I was hooked and in love, he stopped being as sweet. Chester lives about 45 minutes away from me, and he drives to see me on the weekends. We're both in college, but we go to different colleges. Now I am 23 years old, in a relationship with Chester, and not super happy. We've been together 1 year and 2 months. Chester is hoping to get a job once he graduates in June, and wherever that job is, he is going to move and he hopes I'll move with him. The problem is that I'm an emotional, needy person and I would hate to move away from my family and friends and my hometown for someone that I'm not sure will be sweet enough, supportive enough, or compassionate enough to take care of my feelings, especially if I move with him and he's the only person I have.
SO!
Here comes the predicament..
Levi graduated college and moved back home. He and I caught up and we have yet to kick those residual feelings for one another. He told me that all these years, he couldn't date anyone else, and every time he heard I was with someone else it made his stomach churn. He was been in love with me since we were 16 and that hasn't changed. He said it hurts less and less over the years (5 and a half years since we broke up) but the pain never went away, and he went through some pretty deep depression because he felt he had made a huge mistake.
I on the other hand have dated other people which helped cover the feelings I had for Levi. I tried to get over him by connecting with other people. It worked for the most part, but I've been conflicted still and always left with a 'what if' feeling.
So comes the question of whether security is worth it... I am in love with Chester, though our relationship is missing his emotional support and affection. He makes me feel secure, I know if I lost the roof over my head he would be there, if I needed emergency money, he would be there to help. Hell, I'm driving his car or truck at any given point because he stored my car because it is unreliable and he wanted me to be able to get around reliably.
I feel like Chester could provide for me financially, if I stick with him I won't have to worry about money or being homeless. But often times I feel sort of lonely with him.
Then there's Levi, who is staying with his grandparents until he can find a job. He doesn't have a car and doesn't have an income. There's no security there. But I feel myself drawn to him romantically. I'm the type of woman who wants to marry, have a kid, adopt a kid, and be a house wife/mother. Security is huge for me, yet so is love. So I guess my question is... What would you do? This seems to be a timeless predicament, doesn't it?
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Its a hard decision but you always want to go with you gut I know a lot of people will say mind over heart but i disagree I think Heart over mind is better you want to be happy with whatever you have whether that be little or lots. If you love someone you should be with that person eventually things will work out and youll find a way to survive. Even if Levi doesnt have a job now doesnt mean he wont ever if you dont love Chester then you shouldnt be with him its not fair on him or you. Sit down clear your mind, close your eyes and the face you see is the person your suppose to be with.
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I miss my ex. I honesty don't even consider him to my ex because we dated half a day, not even. But we talked for like 4 weeks before.
Okay so me and this boy talked. Our friends hooked us up. He actually started liking me first, so I figured, why not get to know him? And I never told my family members we were talking or that we even 'dated'. Well I actually really started liking him. We started to meet up and he would walk me to my bus and we would hold hands and hug. And the day we 'dated' was the first day we ever hung out. And we kissed. I thought I wasn't ready.. And broke up with him right after I got home over text messaging. I felt like such a jerk. But I'm pretty sure he took it hard because he kept posting on twitter how he missed me.
A couple months go by, and its summer. Well I wanted to talk to him again.. So I snapchatted him. And we did start talkin again. But that time, he ended us. Idk if he was talking to another chick or what but I was tired of this. So I just kinda quit bothering him. Now we're back in school and we sit at the same lunch table. Well at the beginning of the year, he wouldn't even look at me. But lately, he has been looking at me and smiling and what not. O yeah I forgot to mention; he has a current girlfriend. Which could explain the happiness. I've been tweeting about him too, hoping that he's been reading them.
Idk I just kinda feel like he was everything I looking for even when I wasn't looking. Ya know? I can honestly see me spending the rest of my life with him. That's why I'm asking what to do about it. I can be myself around him and does the same. I want him back. But the fear of rejection kicks in. Help please (link)
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I know its hard right now but the truth is hes moved on and he's happy and you need to accept that I know its not what you want to hear but its the truth. If its truly meant to be then somehow you guys will end up together but let things be for now and just be happy for him and try moving on yourself. It seems impossible to get over an ex until you actually try so make an effort and hopefully things will work out for you.
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Hello I live in the UK where pitbulls are a banned Breed and I rescued a dog from a man who was beating Him he is pitbull cross staffordshire bull terrier he is lovley and has a good nature as I let him near my children and he plays in the garden with my rabbits and doesnt try to bite them he has such a good caring nature, im just wondering if the police see him will they take him to be put down as you can clearly see he is a pitbullhe has a pink snout and the size of a pit I always put a mussle on him when he goes out and he has been desexed and is 3 years old I dont want anything bad to happen as hes had a hard life before and he shouldnt be put down just because of his breed ive had him for about a year now and hes never done anything to hurt me or my family all he ever does is protect us. Will he be put down if hes cross breed? I think all dogs should have a chance of life regardless of thier breed.... (link)
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They will most likely try taking the dog away unfortunately and probably give you a fine of some sort if possible maybe try not taking your dog to public places maybe a nearby park on a leash for a walk or if you have a backyard then let him run around for exercise its not legal but it will help you save him.
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I have a serious problem with my face make up.i use bb cream from garnier,its for light skin,and i put moisturizer before but awlays when i put the bb cream(imuse a sponge) it looks caked,i use really small amounts but it doesnt look blended and i tried,i used a brush after,nothing.i dont know if its important but i have shity oily skin and acne.should i use a different product or? Please help me (link)
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Instead of using moisturizer use a makeup primer it will give your skin the moisture it needs but will also give you a matte finish however if you do continue to use your moisturizer underneath use a translucent power on top and that will help give you the matte finish as well. Another tip is to use products made specifically for oily skin that will help reduce the caky look. :)
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I know this is an interesting question, but I was wondering.. should I get up at nighttime to wee? I'm only fourteen and every time I do get up to use the toilet, I end up staying up! So should I go to the toilet, or should I just stay in bed. I don't drink water before bed and.. I just don't know what to do. Help?? (link)
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You should never hold it in it can cause infections and such so definitely go when you have to but try not to drink any liquids about 2-3 hours before bed that should help you sleep through the night without having to get up. Some people just have smaller bladders its not a huge deal eventually it will get better. :)
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I made friends with a handicapped student(wheelchair-bound) and often at times I have dreams about him being healthy and the both of us having fun together(spending time together etc...). I care a lot about him, but do these dreams mean anything? (link)
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Not necessarily it just means you would like to see him health and not wheelchair bound. Its a common thing when you get close to someone who isnt exactly like you, you wish they were and its nothing to feel bad about either its just how life is and you have to remember that despite his physical restrictions hes still a great person and you two can still have fun. :)
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Hi. I'm a fourteen year old girl and I have terrible social skills. It comes to my attention that I only have two friends and I can't carry conversations very well(they end quickly.) I can make friends online, just like that, but that's different. The other night, my parents had friends over&& they started asking me questions and when I answered..they looked at me like what the he-y? It got really awkward, I wanna be able to make friends and know what to say/how to say. Advice is much appreciated. (link)
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Talk about common interests and hobbies maybe even movies and sports if your into it. Basically put yourself out there and dont think about it so much. Talk to your classmates,peers and friends more and when people see your confidence they will want to talk to you more plus talking to people you normally wouldnt helps you improve your social skills as well. :)
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So in my flat theres a lot of us, and I've noticed that I'm becoming more and more withdrawn.
Like its partly due to assignments, but I just am finding it real hard to go out of my door and speak to my housemates atm.
Don't get me wrong, we all get on, but I'm just super shy. I feel vulnerable in the kitchen and am desperate to retreat back to my room again.
Also I feel the need to impress and stuff. Plus some of them go off in their own cliques and the first time this happened it made me feel left out.
So that's when this all kicked off as I felt like my company wasn't wanted, and never will be.
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It's easy to feel left out and vulnerable but you have to remember that in order to make friends you have to make an effort. Talk to your housemates on occasion, ask if they would like to go out for a meal. You need to step outside your comfort zone and socialize with people it may be uncomfortable at first but when your housemates see you making an effort they will reciprocate and you will feel a lot better and this also works outside of your home in a school setting or work etc. Making friends is really not that hard you just have to put yourself out there.
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What are the best shoes in fashion for women these days? (link)
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Heels are always in as well as wedged boots or just boots in general. There's a thousand sites online that will give you fashion advice, I recommend shoedazzle or any fashion magazines. :)
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I can't tell you how many times I read questions about people who are asking about their self harming. I don't get why people would this. And the worst part is they ask it in a very matter of fact way. Honestly, it makes me really upset when I read these things. I almost tear up (link)
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Self harm is a way for people to feel in control of themselves and there emotions. Pain makes them feel alive when they feel completely dead inside. Deep down they know its wrong and they should stop but they cant because its almost an addiction.
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