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How would you tell if someone is making eye contact with you? Like ive heard that sometimes when you look someone in the eye, you might think that they are looking at you but in fact, they aren't.
Does this scenario seem like we made eye contact?
So I was on the 2nd level and he was on the 3rd level and I looked down and he looked up and so I looked away and when I looked back, he was looking but then he turned away and then I turned away and looked back and he looked again. Well, it seemed to me he was looking at things near me :/
Sorry this is a bit confusing! (link)
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If you think there is someone that is looking at you then quickly jerk your head to a clock in the room (or something else) and if they turn or jerk their head too, then they were making eye contact with you.
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So here is a very short over-view of it: Katy and her friends are a close knit-group including seven different people with different ages (all 18+) and gifts such as one person can get anything (legal or illegal) another always has money etc. They all met because of one girl, Claire. The books plot and problem is having to reconnect with all of their pasts leading up to how they became who they are today and having to face their problems. (It's more interesting than it sounds.)
So far I have nothing much but barely a first chapter and an overview. It's an R rated book that inludes a lot of drugs and violence, its inspired by the show: Skins. I'm hoping to make a series out of it, but I absolutely love the simple yet daring name skins. It doesn't reveal much about the tv series, but it gives off the right vibe when you are knowledgeable of the shows plot.
Each book will include their adventures of being in the popular battle of peer-pressure, societys rules and morals. I'm looking for a very simple and memorable name, something that you see in the book store and just pick it up due to the title, you know? Thanks in advanced (link)
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Idea-
Past
Today
Skins
Friends
Me and My friends
Who I am
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I'm 14 f. My boyfriend is 17. We met 4 years ago. He moved in and we started dating. We've been on and off. I know it's not healthy. But last year in march he said he cheated on me and we broke up and 2 days later he got with some girl he knew I hated. They lasted 6 months and I tried to move on. I talked to so many guys and none of them could keep me from not being sad. It worked for a while but nothing, nobody could stop my heart break when I was alone or when It was night time. He was my first love. My first everything. In September we got back together but we only lasted 2 weeks then he left me again for the same girl I hate. I was furious. Him knowing what struggles I was going through and how I gave myself to him twice and he just does that I was like nah son. I promised I wouldn't get back with him but in November I had a message on Facebook from him. He was saying he was so unhappy and couldn't stop thinking about me and he was suicidal cause he lost the best thing in his life. I didn't feel sorry for him at all to be honest. That's nothing compared to what he put me through! But as my self the dumb self I am, ended up taking him back again. I know I'm young and there's plenty of fishies in the sea but he's my drug and I'm addicted. I love the feeling he gives me but he's ruining my life. I can't get unhooked though. I recently saw his ex (the girl I hate) posting statuses on Facebook saying they hung out and that he doesn'thave a gf, blah blah. I was so pissed cause he blocked her supposesably but he could of unblocked her or used his other account. I questioned him but he denied it. She said shed back off but I don't trust him or her. She's going to try to talk to him at school and I don't know what tO do. I still don't believe him, she's crazy and makes up lies but i don't know who to believe. I feel like hes the boy who cried werewolf. Lies lies lies then when it's true nobody believes him. What should I do? (link)
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You should leave. Walking back into a love like this is just like reading a book over and over again when you already know how it ends.
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Ok so I moved from ny to This new school in Pennsylvania and this is my second year in this school and I don't really have any friends in this school everyone hates me and idk why there is 2 or 3 people I talk to my I don't have an actual friend why??? (link)
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You will make friends soon, I promise. Just try to be more outgoing and nice but not fake. Compliment people, strike up a conversation about anything. Have some of your friends right now introduce you to other people at the school. It will take sometime to make friends at a new school. Be patient. But maybe your too shy? Be more outgoing and don't wait for them to talk to you, YOU talk to them!
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I have extreamly random dreams sometimes. And there are rarely similarities between them.
But everytime I dream of being in a situation where I yell or scream, my throat closes and very little sound comes our I can't speak at all. Its strange, because I can even feel my thoat closing up and/or the hoarseness of my voice. Even when I was little it's been like that.
I am very curious about if this means something specific or means nothing at all. (link)
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No, it doesn't mean anything at all. It just means that your dream is really vivid and you think it is real while your sleeping. Its normal for that to happen. You probably didn't even feel your throat closing up, you just think you have because of the vividness of the dream. Its completely normal to have random dreams/repeat dreams over again. Don't worry! Good Luck!
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I am 13 years old and I am applying to high schools currently. It can be really overwhelming, if any of you know what I mean. The high school process can be quite harsh. I have been stressing so much lately, its actually affecting my health. Could anyone help me with dealing with high school stress. Getting in applications on time, tests, high school visits, tours etc.?? Btw I've got a test tomorrow and I barely studied for it, any advice on that? Should I cram it all in or just rest and go with the flow? HELP! (link)
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I think you should stop worrying and just distract yourself. Worrying won't solve any problems, it will just make you more stressed. About the tours, you will for sure get a tour on your first day there. All the teachers will be there to help point out where your classes are. Don't worry!
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I think you should read your notes or a chapter in the textbook about it but, don't cram all of it because you will get really stressed and with everything else going on you will most likely forget. Study a little during classes. Good Luck!
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My hair has never been much longer than shoulder length...till now. It recently started to grow and is now just starting to go past my chest. I really want to grow it out long.
The only problem is that the bottom inch or so is really dead. Its the longest it's ever been and I really don't want to cut it.
It's not thin but not thick either, I rarely use heat on it and its always up.
Should I cut it or is there someway to bring it back to life without spending much money? If I do cut it, how short? (link)
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If you do cut it then get a trim for less then an inch, maybe just the dead ends. I have the same problem and I don't want to cut it so I just put hair oil on the ends. It really does work and shows major differences. You can put hair oil and leave it in your hair till the next time you wash your hair OR you can wash it off after you put the hair oil (leave the oil in for an hour or 2 and then wash it) It will make your hair softer and healthier if you do this. Good Luck!
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13, girl.
so I like this guy, and he said he liked me back. I was oblivious to the fact that he has liked a lot of girls in the last year. but I told my bestfriend (who is close with him, too) to ask him who he likes. he said he liked her. then I asked a different friend (she isn't as close with him) and he said he likes 4 girls. he was a really close friend of mine and knows that I've been through a different break up recently. but he totally tried to play me and I don't know what to do. I told him that he shouldn't do that to me. he said "ik what I did is wrong. I'm sorry I do actually do like you" and then posted some stupid thing on twitter about it. so idk if this is a player move, or if he is for real. it's hard to trust him now. (sorry this is kinda long) (link)
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I understand what you are going through.. and I'm going to say that he is probably playing you. He likes a lot of different girls, as you said, so he will probably date you and then break up with you quickly and then quickly move on. Its good that he said sorry, but I think you should still wait for a while. He might quickly move on again. Don't walk into any relationship quickly. If he still seems like he likes you and ONLY you (ask friends to ask him etc.) then he is for real. GOOD LUCK
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Signs that I am falling in love? I'm in 7th grade.. I'm a girl. (link)
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Signs-
You can't stop thinking about that person.
You always smile at them.
You imagine scenes in your head about him.
You feel like you are falling in love.
You like him for his looks and personality.
You get butterflies in your stomach when your with him.
You know him for 7-12 months.
GOOD LUCK
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I am a 15 year old girl and I am sexually active with my 17 year old boyfriend. I got my last period November 12. It lasted a week and after me and my boyfriend almost had sex. I decided not to because he didn't have a condom. But he did rub his penis on my vagina for a bit. I'm pretty sure his penis had pre cum on it. I read that you can still get pregnant even if you're a virgin (I'm a virgin btw) because you have a tiny hole in your hymen that allows your period to come out and sperm can also enter through there. I'm not sure if it's true, I just read it. From there I haven't had my period. I'm irregular and if I'm stressing it can be even more late. I'm not sure if I am pregnant or it's cause I'm stressing? Can I be pregnant? I'm way too scared to get a test or see a doctor but is it possible for me to be pregnant? Yes I know I'm young but I felt ready & I at least didn't do it all the way. Thanks! (link)
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Yes, you can get pregnant. As long as sperm gets close to your private part then you can get pregnant. Be aware of your period cycle. If it doesn't come next time then you are probably pregnant. Another sign is if you get cramps or if you start to throw up.
GOOD LUCK
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OK well here goes i have been thinking. i know other peoples life are worse which by the way you never tell some one they will just kill them self for being weak trust me. So i am only 13 and i already hate my life actually it started a long time ago as late as 5th grade. Then a lot of shit happened and i bottle everything up i self harm and have thought of suicide my mom found out about the scratches on my arm and started acting like a bitch telling me i was a freak and she doesnt know Y I do it she didn't even ask. And others dont see it i am in sports i have some of the highest grades in my class i just have given up hope for any change and i see a future of nothing does it get better?? At all?? (link)
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Yes, your life will get better! You have to go through the storm to get the rainbow! Be patient and one day you will be so happy that you will regret even thinking and asking this question. Things will not always be good and things will not always be bad. Learn from your experiences. Don't regret anything that happens to you. You must be patient. Talk to someone. A friend, family member. teacher etc. GOOD LUCK!
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