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boyfriends ex.
I've been dating my boyfriend for 2 months. We've been on and off for a while and one time when we were broken up he started dating a girl he knew I hated. They broke up and we got back together then broke up and he left me for her again. We got back together but she doesn't leave him alone. He says he only won out with her and got back with her because she gave him money for his drugs but she claims shr never has. They both are liars about tons of stuff so I don't believe them. Anyway yesterday he said he talked to her. I was beyond pissed because he said he wouldn't but he did. He claims she kept bugging and crying and he felt like a dick for supposeably saying something rude to her. He said that's the only reason why he talked to.her. seems fishy because he shouldn't be talking or caring for her. But she just doesn't stop! I've told her plenty times and my boyfriend claims he has too but she doesn't stop. What can I do?
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You're wasting your time in this relationship. It's been only two months of being with him and you already have this much drama? That's ridiculous.
He's jumping back and forth between the two of you and he hasn't been stern enough with her to let her know he's not interested in her, when he's probably still talking to her.
You said you don't believe either of them. Why are you dating a guy you don't even trust? Trust is one of the biggest things in a relationship and if you don't have it, the relationship just isn't going to work.
You need to break up with him and find a guy who isn't this much drama and find a guy who actually cares about you enough to not keep running back to his ex.
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You are falling for his bullshit and wasting your time.
He cheated, He is still hung up on his ex and he isn't willing to be a man to tell her that he is with you. You just called the both of them liars, Why the hell are you in a relationship with someone if you can't trust him and he can't be faithful to you? He isn't over her, This is exactly why he keeps talking to her.
The guy left you, Then you went and took him back and he did it again. You are a fall back, You are allowing him to use you. YOU need to put your foot down and learn that he is still hung up on old baggage and find someone who is into you. This isn't a relationship, It's a pity party.
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