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practically all my friends are sexually active and im not, ive never had sex. but i dont feel like i really fit in, unless i change my mind set to their perverted minds. like i have to act and talk like them to fit in. but im against that kind of stuff with my beliefs and stuff. so what do i do, continue being friends with those kind of people or make friends who are a little more pg? but its only adultry that im against and almost everyone in highschool talks about who they did, and im just a virgin :/

friends and sex,
well I would have to say. Try going your own way for a while, you shouldn't always be worrying whats going to happen either. I have a belief in God.
And so do a lot of people out there, but others chose to hide, and fuck around fitting in, sometimes you think its worth it, but in 5 years when all your friends leave you, or get killed. it's really not.

Just don't listen to what other people say, keep contact with your friends, just branch out and find some friends who aren't into sex until after marriage or whatever! :]

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i dont know if this is weird but i love talking to random people. not like, aol chat rooms where you talk for 2 seconds and then someone ims you wanting sex from you but just casual conversation. are there any websites that are safe and let you talk to people your age (16-18years old)??

p.s. i really love talking to foreign people. like from england, ireland or france (i speak some french)

You can go to all kinds of Pen Pal sites.
Or you could go to the usual myspace or facebook.
the question is about being safe? whatever information you give out, is the call. if you give random information out, that lets people know where you are from, and how old you are and where you live? or your cell phone number? thats the question. just don't tell anybody who you are unless, you know them...

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ok sorry in advance if this takes a while...
f/13

ok so i was best friend with this girl all thru 7th grade (now im in 8th)...like really really close. long story short, we spent a little 2 much time together over the summer, started getting in a lot of fites, and basicly 1 day she decided she didnt want to be as close ne more. we never stopped completely being friends cause A. we go to the same camp and skool and B. we are in the same "group" of friends. obviously, we got in a big fite about it at first, and some aftershocks for the next month or so, but after a while we calmed down into like just ok-friends mode. well a few weeks ago she told me she missed me and i told her i missd her 2 so now we stuck on the label "best friends" for a few days. but it felt like it was just a label cuz nuthin rele changed so we kinda demoted ourselves bak down. now lately, neither of us has said n e thing, and maybe im just over-reacting, but it feels like we mite b getting closer. we (plus her boyfriend and another of her close friends) went to the movies yesterday, and today i called her and we talked about nuthin for the first time in gosh knows how long. i mean it was only for like 10 minutes, and it was a little strained at times, but it still happened.
now i really miss her, and have for the past few weeks. i dont want to like talk to her about it (as u can see our relationship is complicated enough as it is) so what do i do?

any help appreciated! thanks!

hey there hun,
okay listen these sort of things happen all the time. and i guarentee that somebody else is going through the same thing. if you guys got into a huge fight. and you guys can't work it out than thats when you should be asking stuff like this. but i see that you don't know what to do. what i think is that you shoudl talk to her , because you telling us is like talking behind her back. and if she found out she'd be even more pissed off.


i would say that you shoudl definetely talk to her about this.


♥ MandaLEe.
-hope i helped.

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15/f okay this is gonna be sorta long, so im sorry... but me and my bff (or exbff) are not talking anymore... the guy i like (he likes me to, just hasnt gotten around to askin me out...) decided to talk to her and get her to stop botherin me... she decided she wanted to talk to me last night and called my house... and my phone curfew is at 10, she called at 12...adn i was still on the phone w/the guy i like... now my mom is really pissed and said that i dont need to be talkin to him anymore!! is this fair?? and if you dont think it is (because i shure as heck dont think so!!) what should i tell her... im the oldest child... and i know i want to tell her to stop treatin me like im only an expiriment... which is exactly how she treats me... umm but what else should i say!! please help!!

will rate high for no dumbass remarks! thanks!!

Dear miss what to say,
what your saying is you were on the phone with this hot guy you like? , that likes you? ,, and your friend called, and you were on so you ddin;t get the call? and then she went and ratted on you??

is that rite/ is that is,your friend that use to be your friend? you should take her outa yur cell phone because shes not worth your luck hunony!

~MiSs MAnda

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See, my friend has been going out with this girl since october, I'm very good friends with her, and liked her a couple months before my friend and her started going out. Me and the girl have known eachother for atleast 4 years, I'm friends with her brother, whos younger than me, Lately my friend has become annoyed with The girl (whos also my friend) avoiding her phone calls, stuff like that. Lately the girl has been flirting with me on IM, sending me kissy faces, saying I'm her best bud, always trying to be beside me in public places when (my friend, her BF is not around) hugging on me in a playful non shalont way, etc. But then she'll say something like i wish My boyfriend was here, or something like that. Which is kool, because i would never go behind my friends back, shes just a friend. But she asks if i could do stuff with her would I? If my friend wouldn't find out. I tell her no, not unless she broke up with my friend, and still probably wouldn't cuz he might be hurt. Whats goin on with this chick? Is she liken me? or my friend...or both of us? HaHa, shes acten weird, never has been like this before.

well` i would have to say i think shes a great friend to hang around with but don't get to attached because most likely she`ll play you.

xD_MWah

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I was best friends with Kelly since 7th grade. We're in 9th now and we're still pretty good friends, not best friends but close. Well, she tells me all of her secrets and I never tell them. She says all the time to me and everybody else that I'm her most trustworthy friend, and she tells me that Brittany is very dishonest and lies to her alot. Anyways, Kelly did something really bad and she told me and Brittany and acouple of other people about it and made us promise not to tell. Her secret got out (one that everybody gossips about) and one girl, Julie, (who doesnt like me) tells Kelly that I told everybody the secret. I honestly didn't tell anybody. Now Kelly won't even talk to me, she won't even let me explain to her that I didn't tell anybody. She won't talk to me about it at all. Do you think that she's just not a good enough friend to even try to hold onto, or should I keep trying to tell her the truth? Ill rate if you ask :o) thanks

hmm. if your friend kelly hasn't gotten over the fact that she'll believe people that she isn't really friends with. then i would say you lost your friend ship along time ago if she'll believe them instead of you. if you honestly didn't tell her secrets then dont wory about it. because its whats inside that counts and if she gives up and says hey listen bitch im sorry for everything. then say aright.. but if she doesn't caugh up. id try to let it slide and see how she makes out wiht out u.. and if she cant make out with out you.. she'll run to you.
and if u run to her if shes ur friend shell let you in!

-- x A Ma nda *

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im 14/female. i used to have this really good friend. we could talk about anything. he was like my big brother. well lately (in the past few months) we've grown apart so much. we can't talk to each other about anything and i get mad at him over little things. i don't know why our relationship is changing so much. i miss how things used to be. any ideas why things are happening like this? any advice on what i should do?

i think that he may have been starting to like you, and you like him. cuz you get mad about little things that is what always happens to meh and guys i like.. i get soo pissed off..but then they just say sorry and hug meh. try talking to him. and see if big brother can come back . lol

xox manda hope i helped

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I'm very overshadowed by my best friend. She's a very flirtatious, outgoing, redheaded vixen and everyone wants to be friends with her. Now, I don't mind it so much, I'm happy that she is well liked by people, but it's the fact that I seem to be getting less and less attention from her every time she meets somebody new. Especially guys. Every guy she meets has had a crush on her. (Except, thankfully, my CURRENT boyfriend...note that I said CURRENT..ex-boyfriends are another story) And often times she has crushes on them, but she still has to complain about them liking her. She seems to treat me like a child and she's the "All-knowing-one", especially when it comes to relationships, and it's really starting to piss me off! She steals my jokes and claims them as her own OFTEN and she says that I'm a bad friend because I once decided to stay with my boyfriend instead of going to hang out with her, while she has ditched me many a time to hang out with guys. (I can think of two instances from just last week.) I'm really bothered by her, yet I remain her friend and most of the time I really don't know why. And I want to talk to her about this, but I've tried before and she always apologizes and then forgets about it two days later.

And when it's just her and I things are fine! We have a great time and everyone's happy and once again I've become the comedian between the two of us, (material she later steals from me to use in front of her flirting victims), but when it comes to boys I'm completly ignored and she's off in the corner creating some sort of drama. It's weird for me, because before I befriended her I was always the center of attention among the group. I was the loud, funny, loving one who everyone wanted to give hugs because I would gladly dish them out. And now it seems like nobody has any time for me because they all want to be with her. Like she's taken all of my friends, but still claims that I'm her best one.

What should I do? I know the most logical thing would be to stop being friends with her, but we've been together for so long and we have most of our friends in common with each other, so there really would be no way to avoid hanging out with her.

well i would say that you have a choice to make..
from richer to poorer guys you meet,
who will drop you off your feet..
still one thing girlies come first.
unless they are a bitch.

there i hope you got it

xox manda hope i helped!

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I have some friends that I used to know really well that I would talk to all the time, and we could talk about almost anything with each other; well not so anymore. And it seemed like all of a sudden we didnt talk. What happened and why? Is there anything I can do to reverse this?

well one thing that could of happend is they could have gotten in to drugs.. that happens sometimes when you get in to drugs and trouble. i had a friend once who did that and i only talk to him once a month now. by phone i dont even see him. so wow try and get them in to rehab if its the case.and if it's not the case then maybe you should try and talk to them even if they don't wanna talk to you. well i hope you know what to do.
hope i helped xox manda

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Well here's the thing, my best friend(23) has just recently gotten engaged. She has asked me(19) to be her maid of honor and I have said yes. But come to find out she has been lying to this guy(20) the whole time they've been together. I didn't realize what she's been doing until all of us started to hang out with each other. He's really nice and really loves her. But I don't believe she feels the same about him. She is what you would call a user. If you have something that she could benefit from she attaches to you and try's to get you for all you have. She has cancer and is getting a divorce from her present husband now, there goes her medical, this new guy is in the airforce and is form a family with money, (lots of benefits and can take care of her). My question is, should I tell him about all of her lies, cheating and sneaky ways or just leave the whole thing alone and let him find out for himself.

woah.. maybe you should tell him about it all.
he deserves to know she has cancer.. i have been there with family and close relitives if he doesn't find out now he will be more broken when she has an attack.... you should make the right decision. you don't need my help.

xox manda hope i helped

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Ok I got dumped by my boyfriend and he started being nasty to me then we made friends and we're both over eachother now he's going out with his other ex and It didn't bother me at first but on friday we were swimming at school and they were really flirting with eachother and holding hands I felt a jelious but I thought I was over him so now I'm really confused because I don't know if I still like him but whenever I see him I just keep looking at him and thinking why did he dump me because he never told me why and I still wonder why if you can help me then please tell me what to do?

well i dont really have a brilliant answer but what i would say is maybe to talk to him maybe he dumped u cuz he was cheating on you with out you knowing.. and then he wanted to make sure you didnt get hurt more so he dumped you i have no idea.. but talk to him ok..

xox manda hope i helped

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I am 13/f
I have a friend. We'll call her "N". Well N is very moody sometimes. And, yes, I do know about PMS but its everyday. It seems like shes nice to me on and off or when she wants to be. I don't know if she is using me or anything but she just sometimes have this attitude when I talk to her. She doesn't listen or look like she is. And thats one of my BIGGEST pet peeves. But then she talks to me about her day and everything. And I listen and set the example. I think my friend is personally full of herself in ways cuz she thinks she can have any guy she wants and can be conceeded at times. And then calls herself the ugliest thing or not that pretty. (and she is absolutly soooo pretty) It bothers me cause she brings me down. I can never talk to her about my problems. But I have to listen to her?
Please help me
What should I say or do? Because she is very nice but the thing I just typed above..I want to stay her friend.
xo0x :)

well u have to take chances.. and you have to risk ur friend ship with her to be her friend.. then its not worth it. cuz you should be able to talk to her but ,,, if shes nice. then she will let u be and understnad. . okay

xxmanda hope i helped

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i have a friend shes one year younger than me and shes realy mean! shes my neighboor and i don't know what to do i can't just say i don't want to be friends with you anymore it would break her heart what do i do?

-- well i dont know maybe you should let her down easily or just not be friends with her once u get in h.s or w.e idont know well im ganna be in h.s nxt year and i know im ganna miss those annoying little bobbing heads as friends.lol..
--Manda lee

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ok, i have a boyfriend....lets call him..alex*. I really really like him and all... but my friend..(lets call her..mandy*)is mad at him. She said i don't spend enough time with her or anything because she is always with alex. She got mad about sumthin, and said i had to choose between her or alex. I don't know what to do. I'm really confused. I don't really wanna have to choose. Is there a way i can make them both happy or sumthin? I seem to find time to hang out with two of my friends and alex.. but for some reason i cant find time to talk to mandy a lot lately... please help!!!

welll miss pick,
i would have to say that you should spend time with eachother. like make plans for the trio. instead of just one or another. cuz she might really wanna be friends with alex and you. cuz i understand what ur going through. okay?

i hope i helped.
--xmandax---

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Ook lately my friends havent asked to do like anything with me. They barely do. And i know theyre all good people and they dont particularly not like me but i invite people placez plenty of times and the invites i get back? Slim and few. Plus my best friends being.. well obviously not herself. My schools too small and I wouldnt leave them anyway... talking to them has proved impossible. so wat do i do.

well bf,
i would have to say. talk to them. i have been going through the same thing u have. my friends jus plain dont wannabe friends wid me no more. but i still have me 3 best friends. n thas al i need.

hope i helped.
-xMandax

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Hello, im 17 years old and i grew up with 3 friends since pre-school. We are soo close. But 2 out of the 3 are racists. I never really cared because they didnt say anything around me. Then i started dating an African-American. And they are saying things about me and my boyfriend. I love them and i have grown up with them but i love my boyfriend ALOT too.. he means alot to me. Now im stuck in the middle between my bestfriends and my boyfriend. What i am i going to do? Thank You.
Sincerely,
stuck so deeply

wow stuck soo deeply,
i would have to say. IF your best friends love you. they will understand that you need your space. and you love your boyfriend too. well i would say that they can trust you. n stuff. so why are they making a big deal out of it. if they doo. then thats reallly rude crude and socially unexceptable for them. they should appreciate you and your man for who you are not color.

hope i helped! just ask me anything! lol.
xox Manda xox.

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Hi see I found this really cute guy on the net but he lives far away, and he said he likes me and that we should meet sometime. but see he asked if we could date online, but I don't know bc he might be cheating on me
What do i do , Answer fast so I could give him the answer!!!

miss onlineloVe,
heres something easy. i learnd from experiance. you should never date online. you can be close friends. but dont date. cuz it could lead to other things. n stuff. n he might be lieing. n could have a gf. n shit. soo i would say dont.

xox manda xox

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hOw cOme When yOur Besfriends Are SuppOsed tO Be yOUr BestFriend They Turn On yOu..??...And When yOur BestFriends Are pOpular In The ScHoOl..Once One dOnt Like yOu The Rest dOnt???..And Katy..gOod Luck On The Site I Beliven yOu..All My Luck gOes tO yOu Girl

weLl miSs ReAL FriEnDZ,,,
i WOUlD haVe TO sAy,,, if they dont wanna be friends with your. obviously yOur nOT mIssIN oUT oN mUch... mY friENDZ r liKe thaT toOo! lol.
xox Manda xox

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Ok- I usually am the one giving out advice... but I am stumped on my own problem. Well here is what happened:

I used to have a best friend named Justine. We hit it off great from the start. After the first month we'd known eachother, we spent the night at each other's houses almost every weekend. We had only known eachother for a year when the inevitable happened- but we'd shared so much together. I had told her all of my deep dark secrets, and she had told me some of her own.
Well- this summer, I had been at my cousin Ashley's house- and we had been chatting with boys on AIM. I told Justine about it when I saw her- and for some reason, she FLIPPED. She wouldn't talk to me, and she ignored all my e-mails to her.
This year, I went back to middle school, and Justine had changed completely over the summer. She had all these cheerleader friends, and she was acting like she was better than everyone else. She even sits in front of me in my English class.
This is where the problem comes in. I don't want to be Justine's friend anymore- she is such a brat- but I do want her to act civil towards me (in English she is always sighing, like she hated being around me- and she tells people, when I can hear- that she hates me). What can I do to make her stop acting so immature???

hey Miss.AIM changes.,
hey i am just like you lol. what i would do is. tell her that " hey i wanted to be your friend. i was nice to you. but then hey you started acting like a total stuck up Biatch! n now i am gettin sick of it! soo if your not ganna be my friend. i wont be yours*" say it calmer though if you do. lol. i have friends jus like that. lol.

xox manda xox

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what do you do when your best freind almost always has her bf over when you are around and yet wont do anythign with you and your man? and she almost always has him come over when you are over, knowing that you arent too fond of him, but you are giving him a chance for her sake. but everytime i mention hanging out the four of us, she says no, i gotta do this or that and she wont even hang out, but she even brings him over to my house and thigns like that. what am i supposed to do?

miss. you dont know yet...
hey if your friend keeps bringing him over with out you wanting him over. jus make up a lie like. i gatta baby sitt n i need my best friends help and not yours. or somethin. or jus say my mom doesnt want guys over when shes not him. or sumthin. n then jus carefully tell your friend off. tell her how u feel bout her bf. thats what i would do but hey what do i know im 13.

xox Manda xox

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