15/f okay this is gonna be sorta long, so im sorry... but me and my bff (or exbff) are not talking anymore... the guy i like (he likes me to, just hasnt gotten around to askin me out...) decided to talk to her and get her to stop botherin me... she decided she wanted to talk to me last night and called my house... and my phone curfew is at 10, she called at 12...adn i was still on the phone w/the guy i like... now my mom is really pissed and said that i dont need to be talkin to him anymore!! is this fair?? and if you dont think it is (because i shure as heck dont think so!!) what should i tell her... im the oldest child... and i know i want to tell her to stop treatin me like im only an expiriment... which is exactly how she treats me... umm but what else should i say!! please help!!
sunnyville answered Thursday August 18 2005, 1:19 pm: You have to say you are a responsible person ,you're doing nothing wrong but talking to a friend,and that she should trust you if not how is there good communication.Some parents could be so overprotective like the song of Britney Spears goes.How do they expect for you to be able to know what you should do if they will always be making decisions for you that it's not the way also mention that to her.You should have your own phone line so she won't bother you for sure.Maybe you should tell the guy not to call you but email you or see each other where you could talk without you're mother there.Be careful so she could not catch you well only do this if you don't convince your mom about this problem. [ sunnyville's advice column | Ask sunnyville A Question ]
xomegaroni answered Thursday August 18 2005, 12:12 pm: talk to your mom about it. it's not fair that she said you can't talk to him anymore, but maybe you should juss try to respect your curfew so that you can still talk to him, but not after 10. maybe you guys can make a deal with eachother er something so that you and your mom both get what you guys want. ask her if you can stick with the curfew, but still talk to him. i mean talking to him until 10 is better then not at all right? tell her how you feel. maybe she doesn't realize she's treating you that way. juss talk to her and things will fix.
star-crossed answered Thursday August 18 2005, 10:55 am: dont rate me down for this but as a 15yr old guy i think that it is fair. and your being childish and naive. Your going to end up with a lack of respect for yourself and just be another whore out there. and btw you have a lack of sense of humor. [ star-crossed's advice column | Ask star-crossed A Question ]
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