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Hey. I'm so close...so close to killing myself. Everyday I have to FIGHT not to, its the hardest thing i've ever done. My mom knows... im seeing 3 colnsulars.. but nothing helps. Nothing at all makes me want to live anymore. It hurts to talk, it hurts to smile... I've stopped doing everything i used to love. Nothing can make me happy. I don't want to hurt my friends though, their the only ones keeping me from..ehh. If you cant help me, please do..
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Sometimes I feel the same way. But I always think of my friends before I do anything. If you need someone to talk to, I'm here. Don't be afraid to talk to me, cause I'll do all i can to help ya out!
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ive had a feeling like that before,
the feeling that you have nothing to live for, no friends or family you want to live for.
i was tired of pretending..
so dont pretend. be who you are.
there are ways to express yourself
besides killing yourself.
you can undo, or fix everything in your life,exept death.
dont let the last decisoion you ever make be, i dont want to live any more, so i'm not gonna.
you might could go back on everything you ever do, exept dieing.
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please dont kill yourself...every 25 seconds someone dies from suicide. there are lots of people who love you and dont want anything to happen to you. try doing something you like...get a vanilla and chocolate swirl ice cream with rainbow sprinkles on top..and look at each color..each color represents a good quality about you..name those qualities and then eat the ice cream before it melts because if it melts then time is running out to believe in yourself..
x0 dani--trust me
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hey, i know i cant say much to stop u , but ive felt the same way b-4, just keep living and try to make the best of things for now, eventually things will get better , hope my advice helped ttyl bye
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you have to figure out what made you this way and how to correct it ... the counsliers cant help unless you figure that out ... you couldnt always have been like this ... figure it out
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zoloft.
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hun, don't kill yourself. its not going to help anything. you might think it will make all your problems go away but think about all the other people in your life who you'll be hurting. since your friends are the only ones keeping you from killing yourself then hang out with them a lot more. like...more than twice a day! your mom might let you if you just tell her that their the only ones keeping you alive. if you like a certain animal such as a cat or dog, maybe you could get one if not already. it might make you feel happier. when im sad and lonely, i just turn over to my cat who rubs against me because he knows im sad. a pet would help a little. why have you stopped doing everything you love? if you have a favorite sport, go out and do the sport! if you have a favorite place to go then go! go to the movies with some friends. there has to be something you like doing that you can do. well im running low on ideas but if you ever feel down and you have AIM, my screen name is PunkRockGurl848 if not, just leave a message in my inbox. i'll help you whenever you need. Stay Safe! and good luck.
Love Always,
PunkPie
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I read your problem. Let me ask you this. What is making you want to kill your self? What is depressing you. What has happened in the past few months that is making you want to die? I know that life can be hard, hard as hell. I have been in situations like this before. Actually, when I was in middle school, every one used to make fun of me.. And call me fat, and sit there every day and make fun of me. I cried and cried and cried... I felt like I had nothing to live for. I would go home every day, wanting to die, just because I had no friends. Now I went to 2 different high schools and made more friends than ever. Friends can help you a long way. You may not have 30 true "real" friends, but you do have 3 or 4 that will stick by your side. I think that you should really get out and do something, instead of sitting around, if that's what you do. You can be happy, you just have to let your self go there. There are SO many things in this world that are out there for every one, and you just have to search until you find something you truely love to do. I really hope that you don't kill your self, even though I don't know you, that is not the right way to go about things. Just know that your friends and family care about you, and keep your head up.
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Hey,
Just think about how many people you would hurt if you did go through with killing yourself. Im sure there are plenty of people who love and care for you and they would feel horrible if you died.
You need to tell your mom that going to counselors is not making a difference in the way you feel about killing yourself. Stay strong...
<33 kayla
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Hi hon,
I recently went through something like this. I was so close to just ending it. You're definitely not alone. However, think about this: Suicide is permanent. Sleep is temporary. Do things that keep your mind off suicide. Lay down, and watch TV until you fall asleep. Also: if one of your friends calls, would you rather have your mom say "Oh, (s)he is asleep" or -cry- "(s)He committed suicide last night."
Also, try visiting a psychiatrist. I've been to one of those. Millions of people visit them each year, it's something that is not to be ashamed of. There's nothing wrong with medication for illnesses, and a mental problem is just as much an illness as say, the flu.
Good luck hon, and stay strong!
-Katie
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Why is that you fight when you don't want to?Killing yourself is not the way you even said it you have people who care so you have to be strong,it's good that your letting things in your mind out to express yourself look around nobody wants to be sad even times I felt depressed that's why I decided to do something about it like head the gym.I have a brother who's like a best friend who I could talk to since I don't have a sister.Continue with your life it's one big journey hope is still there but if you let yourself down then how do you expect to succeed in life.I know for sure there is someone out there for you someone special because you seem like a nice person who is desperate for help and that's okay everyone will need help with something but you have to tell yourself I could do even though it's hard I told myself that when I was going through tuff situations in need for help.
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you shouldn't kill yourself. look, things can take a turn for the better, because you never know how life works. i'm not sure if you have a religion er not, but things can change day in and day out. i mean you can kill yourself, and then who knows, maybe a week after would've been the best for you. you need someone there to help you. try finding things you enjoy. stay strong!
good luck!♥
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I really know exactly how you are feeling, I've really been feeling quite terrible this past day, feeling like not going on. All I'm doing is I'm thinking about my friends, and thinking of what their reactions would be if I did. I'm also thinking of my parents, and how awful it would be for them.
But, the main thing which I'm doing is laying out each problem that is causing me to feel this way, and trying to find a solution or a comfort in each. If you contact me at sbloemeke2@yahoo.com, I'd love to help you which each problem that is making you feel this way. Heck, I'll mentor you as long as you want, even... One girl and I are going on our 5th month mentoring.
What I want to advise you to do first is to just not do it. It's not worth it, as you still have an entire life to live, and it just gets better past the teenage years.
Just contact me, and we'll talk.
-Steven
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If you still feel this way (and it sounds very much like clinical depression to me, although I'm not a psychiatric professional), then your treatment is not helping you enough.
That means it's time to talk to your mother and your counselors, about making some changes in your treatment. If you haven't seen a psychiatrist, you should; medication isn't a cure for everything, but it can REALLY help some conditions. I've seen people regain their will to live after getting the proper combination of medication and talk therapy.
You need to be clear with your parent(s) and therapists, and let them know that you NEED MORE HELP. Help is available; most psychiatric problems can be treated effectively, although it can take time to work out the precise combination of therapy and medication that's right for you. But the help, and the hope, IS THERE. You need to ask for it, and keep asking for it until you get it.
Life will get better. Hang on, and try to fight for it. I wish you the best of luck.
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sweetie! please dont! there are other ways... instead of talking to counselors, talk to your friends! tell them just how you feel and they are keeping you from doing it! please dont just try to do other things! maybe that will help you realize there are other options!
hope i helped!!!!!
emmii`*
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if the only reason you live is for your friends, then talk to them about it. im sure thety would love to help you. if you dont feel comfy talking to people you know for the fear they will judge you, talk to me. i will try to help you even though im not sure i know how. please dont do what you're thinking of doing!
~Maegan~
my e-mail is baby_girl3895@yahoo.com
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