Okay, my brother moved to North Carolina with his gf and his friend [for school] And I met his friend's brother. He's a couple of years older than me. He was visiting them in North Carolina the same time I was and we slept on the couch together and watched tv almost everynight. I think i like him, but I wanna know if he likes me too. He's kinda shy though, so I don't know how to exactly like bring it up and talk about it. It kinda gets me nervous. I have his screen name though, and next year we're going to go to the same school. What should I do to approach him with this?
Guys ARE shy sometimes. If the guy you are talking to is shy around you, you have to be outgoing with him. This helps him know that you are confortable with talking to him and he should be comfortable talking with you. Try that...
Also, about you aproaching him about liking him, you should IM him, call him, write him a note/letter, ANYTHING, and say, "I like to be your friend but I think I'm staring to have feelings for you..." This might seems weird and stupid but you have to be straight up and honest with him.He won't do anything, trust me. From the way you make it sound, he really likes you too. I mean, come ON! You guys slept on the couch together! That's sweet! I don't he would've just done that to any other girl! NO! Out of ALL the girls in the world, he picked YOU and you should feel special. I think he likes you. I think you can trust him with your true feelings. If you keep this in, it's going to EXPLODE and TRUST ME, that is NOT pretty! You need to tell him. You'll feel better and you MIGHT JUST GET A BOYFRIEND! YAY~! :-P
You have the potential. You are obviously very pretty, sweet, and a GUY MAGNET so you should have no problem with this.
Don't worry! You'll do fine...
I believe in you and if you do the same thing, you can do anything, even asking a guy to be your boyfriend!
I really hope I helped!
I'm sorry if I didn't. I tried my best to answer your question and I HAVE been in this situation before. This "strategy" helped me get a boyfriend! I just told him I liked him and he said he liked me too.
Don't be scared to do this...
Best of luck!
Hope I helped!
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elmzer214 answered Thursday August 18 2005, 3:38 pm: ask him when your both online and he will probably get the answer you want and make sure you start the conversation normal! [ elmzer214's advice column | Ask elmzer214 A Question ]
CallMeQt97 answered Thursday August 18 2005, 1:41 pm: i would tell him how you feel and just be honest i know that this seems hard but if your friends he'll understand and give you an honest answer back. Its not as hard as you think life is full of risks and youll never know his true feelings if you never ask him. he might be your soul-mate so dont be afraid to take a chance. [ CallMeQt97's advice column | Ask CallMeQt97 A Question ]
sunnyville answered Thursday August 18 2005, 12:39 pm: Basically make a friend, if you see him again,get your friend to talk to him for you.Tell her to tell him that you would want to be able to get to know him a lot better about him.Or try talking to him when he is alone about why is he quiet then I'm sure he'll respond back and if you're shy too then tell him and you will both have something in common which is good for a start!Give him a compliment to him, he will thank you and even give you a compliment too! [ sunnyville's advice column | Ask sunnyville A Question ]
xomegaroni answered Thursday August 18 2005, 12:07 pm: try to hang out with him once school starts. talk to him online er phone, w/e you want, and maybe you guys will be more comfortable with eachother. if your friendship grows with one another, then hint it you like him. if that doesn't work then you gotta tell him and ask him how he feels about you as well. i'm sure if you guys become closer friends though it'll be easier for you. hang out, go to movies, dinner, minature golfing/putt putt, bowling, etc.
emmii answered Thursday August 18 2005, 11:49 am: either way if he is shy or not, you should tell him! just let him know that you arent sure if you like him or not... maybe before school starts you can go out with him as friends to decide if you like him or not!
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