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i have a friend shes one year younger than me and shes realy mean! shes my neighboor and i don't know what to do i can't just say i don't want to be friends with you anymore it would break her heart what do i do?
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If you don't want to be upfront about it, you can always be subtle. Detach yourself from her and as time passes by, she'll begin to notice the disconnected bond between you two.
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-- well i dont know maybe you should let her down easily or just not be friends with her once u get in h.s or w.e idont know well im ganna be in h.s nxt year and i know im ganna miss those annoying little bobbing heads as friends.lol..
--Manda lee
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just start not talking to her, and ignore and make excuses not to go over her house and blow her off telling her she is being rlly mean.
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I think you should just like tell her that you feel shes being mean and tell her that you will let her know as soon as shes being mean. After a while she will get used to it and she will become nicer. Hope this helps.
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This might sound mean but just tell her to be nicer... and if she doesnt then whenever she talks to u just ignore her.. if she asks you to go outside and play just say u have homework or somthing like that. - christina =)
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Ask her why she's so mean to you. Next time she's mean to you joke and be like " hey im older im suposed to be the mean one" Maybe she doesnt even know shes being mean to you? If it doesnt stop then just get made and stop hanging out with her tell she apoligizes.
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Hey..you should talk to her and tell her she's mean...you don't just stay someones friend out of pity or thinking you'll break their heart...that's kinda wrong..you should confront it and then try to see if the problem stop..but if it continues..I would just forget about her...you naw mean? Well there's ma insight..I'm out peace
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this is like wat happend to me one.well i think u should tell her why u think she is being mean.i had a friend that used to always hit me. finally one day i just couldn't take it.u so y don't you just tell her wats bothering you and if she starts to be mean well stand up to her and say well i need to tell u some thing in kind of and loud but not mean voice. then she'll listen to you and if she is a real friend like mine she'll stop and you both be friends.
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if shes that mean then trust me. that wont break her heart but like you said, lets not be mean so just be nice and try to stear clear of her and if she asks if your ignoring her just say your just really busy she'll understand and go in a seperate way and before you know it she wont be hanging around you and you wont feel so bad.
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