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I am getting really annoyed with my friends. They are all telling secrets and they always leave me out. My two friends hid behind the slide and left us out now they r always together and I never get to talk to them anymore. There are millions of rumors going around our group and I am getting blamed for some of them that are not true. WHAT SHOULD I DO?????
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lEfT oUt (link)
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Livie,
Your friends are not telling secret about you they are simpply telling secrets that they wish everyone would not know about. Every set of friends has a secret between the two that nobody else knows about. If you are really NOSY and just have to find out that so called secret the kindly ask your friends. explain to your friends and be honest. Instead of just ignoring them and leaving them clueless just say, " I feel you guys are leaving us out and we are starting to get upset because we want to hang out with you too !" then your friends can say they are sorry and they will stop leaving you out. As for the rumors. Be TOTALLY HONEST with them and tell them what rumors are true and what are not. And dont take it out on your friends for listening to another friend of theirs not knowing it was a rumor. Because one day something you say might be a rumor and you wont know it. Good Luck
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I want to know if my mom would let me wear a thong i already have 3! There cool nd all but supoose my mom says no or if she says no then should I wait a week later and say i got the at the mall for a good deal? NEED HELP BADLY!
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i REALLY dont want my mom to tell my dad!
katie*~*~* (link)
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I dont know what the big deal is. Just ask your mom if you can talk to her for a second ask her if you can wear them and if she says no then oh well. I mean they are just underwear. I dont know what the big deal is. I would be able to give you a better answer if I knew how old you were. I mean if you are older than 12 or 13 its not a big deal. If you are 9,10,11,12 or younger its not gonna be as easy to get the idea approved.
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my mom and i had gotten into a huge fight and i havent talked to her in 3 days i really dont care but i justwanted to know what you think i should do its not like i dint say sorry or anything its just that i dont know.....
signed: madatmom (link)
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Hey, I think you should sit down with your mom and try to work things out with her. You dont want to stay mad at her because there might come a time that you will need her or her advice and it will be harder to talk to her if it was so awkward. Goodluck !
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heyy Jess,
well anyways, i love all my friends so much, but for some of them it seems like were slipping apart and I don't want that to happen. We're in different classes and I see them but then at recess they sorta split up and I can't be with all of them at once and 2 of my bf's left last year, and i miss them so much, and there's never any time to really see them, but I still talk to them online. What can I do so i don't lose closeness with my friends? signed, WoRRiEdAboUtFrIeNdShIp (link)
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Hi worried,
I think you should just try to spend as much time as possible and let them know that you dont want them to slip away. Let them know that you want to be friends with them even if you dont spend as much time with each other. Good Luck- Hope my advice helps.
Jessica
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how do u get rid of someone you haten who is a stupid hollering fool who kicks people out of things how can u make them just go away like pooof (link)
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thats easy-- you cant really`````sry
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Me and my friend were best friends last year and we were in different classes but this year were in the same class and she acts like were not friends anymore. Like i'll say want to sit with me at computers and she'll say be right back and she'll come back and say sorry someone else asked. What should I do it's like were not friends anymore. Please help me! (link)
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Well, I kinda know where your coming from writer. This person is acting this way mabey because shes around you so much more than last year and you just spend too much time together or because mabey there are people in your class that she was real close with last year. It is most likely the second scenario. I think you should tell her how you feel and that you feel she is ignoring you and leaving you out. If this dosn't work please let me know and I will try to find another possible solution. Good Luck with your problem. But remember dont do or say anything you'l regret !!
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Dear Jessi,
I have a problem. This year i am in a class with a lot of my friends and i luv them all to death!!!!!!!!!!!!! But my friends that aren't in my class, it just seems like were growing further apart. I miss them and now it seems when we see each other in the hallways were just nodding not talking............I also have good friends of mine that left the school i go to:( i miss them soooooooo much and i want to see them more, but it seems like they have less time for me, they have new friends at their school.I still hang out with them but it feels so different when i don't see them everyday.Please help me* sighned, Problem Paranoied (link)
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This is a really hard thing to deal with because I am going through it too. Really I would just have to say that at recess or when you see them in the hallways just say something encouraging even a simple " Hi ! How you doing ? " is all it takes. At recess be sure to get in on everything you missed throughout the day. Its a tough spot to be in. Im not sure my advice will help much but there reei isnt much else to say. Hope this Helps !!
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well u see i have this friend and we always get into fights about the stupidist things ever and one time we got in a fight and she asked me a pastense question and when i tried to anwser she got really mad and was sayind things like why do u always bring suff up form the past were talking about this fight noy ones that have happened in the past when i tried telling her the i was only anwsering her question she would not listin! what do i do? (link)
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I think your friend needs to see herself and the way shes acting from your view. Since that is pretty impossible this is a very tough situation. I think you should say that you dont want to fight anymore and you would really like to sit down and talk this out. This does help bcuz I have a friend exactly like that- I think sometime in your life everyone eventually does. Hope this helps !!
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Hey, I was going to have a sleepover party for my friends on Halloween after we go trick-or-treating with each other. My one friend that I invited is allergic to dogs, cats, and guinea pigs -- which are all of the pets I have. She can't even go in my house because of it. I was considering sleeping out in a tent in the backyard, because it's really big, but it might be too cold by October 31st for that. I don't want to just uninvite her because that might screw up our friendship and that's pretty rude. :\ What should I do? (link)
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I think you should tell her that you're sorry that she is allergic to the same animals that you have and that its not your fault and you cannot change your party just because of her allergies. Tell her that she is more than welcome to come trick or treating but it might not be good to sleep over. It is not right of her to get mad at you because of her allergies. Even though she is taking it out on you, i dont think shes mad at you. I think shes mad at her luck with allergies. Hope this helps !!
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my bestfriend doesnt like my one other friend and she's always trying to find a way to get to her but i just dont know what to do! its like she really hates her but shes my bestfriend PLEASE HELP! (link)
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Well, thats a tough situation your in- but ill try. You should tell your friends that you dont appreciate being in between there fighting. You are friends with whoever you want. Its not your fault that they are fighting so let them know that. Tell them that if they want to fight dont do it around you and that you dont want to be a prt of it and you really wish that they werent fighting so you can all have fun together. Hope this helps !!
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Hi Jess!
My friend is annoying the crap out of me and she won't leave me alone but I don't want to say anything to her what should I do?? (link)
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Well i think you should just tell her how you feel, let her know when something is bothering you ( but say it in a nice way ) If that dosn't work then try not to spend as much time with her and she might not seem soooo annoying if you arent around her as much. Hope this helps !!
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Ok I am a 13 year old girl and I like this boy at school, and he likes me to but only as a friend. He thinks he's to young to be my boyfriend but I realy realy like him and I want him to be my boyfriend, what should I do?? (link)
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Well just let him know how you feel. If he dosnt feel that way or just dosn't want to admit it, then just give him time mabey hes not readi for a girlfriend--or mabey hes just too shy to ask for one. If you do the first move he might warm up alittle. Hope this helps.
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i have a friend shes one year younger than me and shes realy mean! shes my neighboor and i don't know what to do i can't just say i don't want to be friends with you anymore it would break her heart what do i do? (link)
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I think you should just like tell her that you feel shes being mean and tell her that you will let her know as soon as shes being mean. After a while she will get used to it and she will become nicer. Hope this helps.
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