|
my friend has allergies & a halloween party
Hey, I was going to have a sleepover party for my friends on Halloween after we go trick-or-treating with each other. My one friend that I invited is allergic to dogs, cats, and guinea pigs -- which are all of the pets I have. She can't even go in my house because of it. I was considering sleeping out in a tent in the backyard, because it's really big, but it might be too cold by October 31st for that. I don't want to just uninvite her because that might screw up our friendship and that's pretty rude. :\ What should I do?
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
I think you should tell her that you're sorry that she is allergic to the same animals that you have and that its not your fault and you cannot change your party just because of her allergies. Tell her that she is more than welcome to come trick or treating but it might not be good to sleep over. It is not right of her to get mad at you because of her allergies. Even though she is taking it out on you, i dont think shes mad at you. I think shes mad at her luck with allergies. Hope this helps !!
]
hey..why dont ry to move the pets somewhere else for the night and then get a air filter to clean out the air and then try to clean up the carpets and the house of all hair and pet dander...that way it would be good for youe friend to come over...but then again you coulod do the tent thing..just make sure you have good sleeping bags to keep warm.and plus if there are alot of people in there..the heat from your bodies should warm up the tent..and it should be warm in there..you naw mean..well have fun..peace!
--PinoyBoi
]
Throw another log on the fire. Yeah tent camping is pretty..cool. Depending on where you live, you could probably do it. Make sure your friends know they are sleeping outside so they can plan for it. As long as its above freezing, it will be ok. You can build a fire and all that good stuff. There are sleeping bags that can keep you warm even on the coldest night.
Maybe you can plan some alternative day with her if this doesn't work out. She will still probably want to go trick or treating. So, talk to her about it, and see how she feels.
]
i think that maybe you should clean your house really good (like washing all the sheets and pillow cases, vacuuming realy good, and spraying ur house with the non-alergy spray like febreze and others.. you can usually find these disinfectant sprays at stores like walmart or soemthing.)and tell your parents to keep all the animals in their room. another guest room or in the garage(if you have one) and if that doesnt work then maybe you can have the sleepover at another firnds house. after all it would be kinda rood to leave out a friend just because she had allergies.
]
i think camping outside would be great! but their are bugs and ya it will be cold..sry i dont really know what to tell u i just hope everything turns out okay!! :)
]
awwww.... thats 2 bad i totally know what u mean. u dont wanna uninvite her... but dont want her 2 ruin ur fun? i get it hun.... well where do u live? considering i live somewhere cold... it would probably be 2 cold for me and my friends... but tents r always fun! make every1 bring tooonns of blankets and dress winter warm because it always gets supper cold at night. and i know that this might be kinda a dumb idea.... but if it really is 2 cold... u could bring the tent into the garage and just move the cars... its what me and my buddy did in 7th grade. we were supposed 2 sleep outside but then a storm came so we put the tent in the garage... we stayed super warm because her mom brought out a heater and we had a little tv in there... because there were outlets nearby! have ur friend take some allergy meds just in case! aNd have fun! hope i helped!
xOxO, aLeX
]
try the tent thing i do it all the time.. just bring alot of blakets and if u can ask ur parents to go to the store and there is a warmer you can buy and you can use that out in the tent also with alot of blakets it can be alot of fun... good luck and i want some candy lol x0xLuckyx0x
]
well maybe you can see if one of your other friends can have the party at their house! kLg*
]
Depending on where you live, the tent could be too cold, but if it's not too cold, the tent would be a great idea. That's what I do with my friend who has allergies.
I guess you could prolly make the tent fairly warm, get really warm sleeping bags and make everyone hot cocoa.
Hope I helped!
]
More Questions: |