hey i just found out that my ex boyfriend has a new gf. they've been going out for a few weeks now i guess. no one told me until the other day. everyone knows how much he meant to me and ever since he dumped me ive been feeling sad. i dont know if i want him back anymore b/c he lied to me and told me we could go out again in second marking period and that he just wanted to be single and thats it for awile. i know that him and this girl wont last long. all of my friends have totally different advice on what to do in this situation. what do i do? please anyone who has any advice IM me anytime on miZZcHeRRyCoKe36 ~13 fm tepy~ thanx so much!
Niiqquhzdream answered Sunday October 17 2004, 8:29 pm: Well he obviously seems like a liar that has a huge ego. He told you to wait on him? That's not going to work. Don't ever wait on a boy because then he'll feel as if he can just do it over and over. Show him that you have the upper hand and you're not just going to sit there and let him date other girls while you are on the sideline. You have a lot of feelings for this boy and I`m not just saying to let it go but you should consider what is happening and take control of it.-Tiffany [ Niiqquhzdream's advice column | Ask Niiqquhzdream A Question ]
_fLyAwAYy_ answered Sunday October 17 2004, 8:03 pm: if this guy lied to u, maybe he's not such a good catch. i no u can't shake the feeling of sadness away, but if he lied to u and then got 2gether wit another gurl, then maybe he's not worth it. or to take another side (to give ur ex the benifit of the doubt) maybe he just rilli needed sum tym away frum u to get his head bak 2gether. maybe he got 2gether w/ this girl cuz he wusn't sure if u'd take him bak after he dumped u and he wus tired ov being alone. maybe he wus just tryin 2 try this girl out to c if she wus meaningless and he still liked u (even tho that sounds totally cruel). well, i hope answers come to u soon!
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