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Is this really real?
Ok I got dumped by my boyfriend and he started being nasty to me then we made friends and we're both over eachother now he's going out with his other ex and It didn't bother me at first but on friday we were swimming at school and they were really flirting with eachother and holding hands I felt a jelious but I thought I was over him so now I'm really confused because I don't know if I still like him but whenever I see him I just keep looking at him and thinking why did he dump me because he never told me why and I still wonder why if you can help me then please tell me what to do?
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Maybe it's not jeliousy. Maybe you've just grown a tite bond with him and you dont want to see him get hurt or something .. i dont know.. ive been there so many times.. i know what your going though and telling you to "talk it over with him" right now isn't going to help anymore then a cake on pie eating day is. The only advise that i can give is exactly what i did. Go talk to your most trusted friend about it and maybe get her to talk to him 4 u
Dont really know how to help,
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You aren't necessarily jelouse over him and her. One of the toughest parts of getting over a relationship is missing the closeness and attention of a partner. Being held and petted is awesome and watching someone who used to do that to you with someone else brings back those memories hard. Your body knows what it's missing. This kind of jelousy has nothing to do with feelings of love or being "over" a guy. It is human to miss those things and want them. Don't sweat it. You are over him, but you still have needs. It just means you're normal.
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well i dont really have a brilliant answer but what i would say is maybe to talk to him maybe he dumped u cuz he was cheating on you with out you knowing.. and then he wanted to make sure you didnt get hurt more so he dumped you i have no idea.. but talk to him ok..
xox manda hope i helped
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Yeah, it's completely normal for you to be jealous of your ex's new girlfriend...and it's normal to be confused. What you need to think about is if it's him you miss, or just what you guys USED to have together. It's most likely the second one, in which case it's time to stop living in the past and find yourself a new guy! There are tons of them out there! If you still have feelings for your ex, try and remember why you guys broke up to begin with...that might change your feelings.
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i Woukdnt worry bout him , he just sounds like a player ne ways, dont worry bout him, everyone has those after feelings like why did he dumb me? or just the jeaslousy or seeing him with another gurl! u'll get over it evenutally, it dosent mean you still like him, unless you have feelings still for him, but if i was you id go get a better guy who woukdnt b so off and on like him, sombody who woukd be better for you and treat u GooD!
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Sounds like a playa to me..i wouldnt worry about it girl. wait till you get you somebody and get around him. he will be sooo jealous! good luck *Bethers*
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ask him y
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Hey hunny,
I know how you feel. Once you see your ex all the feelings start coming back...yep...I think you do still like him but it feels like you don't when you aren't around him but when you are all the memories and feelings start coming back. But ITS OK to be jealous, everyone gets jealous.
If you don't know why he dumped you, ASK HIM! Since you guys are friends and all it shouldn't be a problem.
Hope I helped & please rate!!
Pura Morena :)
xo0x adriana
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