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What are some really good songs to help you hit higher notes and to help vibrato?

well christina is great and all but if you try to sing like her, you will destroy your vocal chords...notice we havent really heard from her lately. if you want a classic sound, try some kind of opera or the good ole national anthem or popular church music (no joke, those are demanding). goodluck!

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so my boyfreind asked me out.
and now basicly all he wants from me is sex.
it makes me really sad and dissapointed...
please help.
and dont say break up with him.
you guys dont know me.
i like him alot..
i rate

if all he wants from you is sex...he obviously doensn't like you as much as you like him. he's just gonna use you and make you think he'll commit after you let him do you but no, he's just gonna leave you in the dust after.

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Ok im 13/f and my bf and i are really close weve been dating for 2 year now and we are pretty sure were in love with each other...For REal...and its so weird because when we are just hangin out with all of my bf's friends we are like allways fooling around with each other and like kissing and hugging and i feel sorta..turned on...and i like wanna touch him and stuff...but then when we actually wanna take it a little further he starts putting his hand down my shirt and feeling my boobs! and i chicken out...what can i do to make my boyfriend feel that i want to be like sexually involved with him but i dont wanna be like all the other girls and a "whore" and just do it all at once?

please help i rate fives!

well this is definatly not what you want to hear but you need to hear it. dating at ages 11-13 is not real. if you can't communicate and everything, you aren't ready to do anything. do do it if you don't feel comfortable doing it. next time make sure you are ready and he'll stop if you want him too. you are still really young and if youre really in love, theres no rush to what you do right now.

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This may seem like a syupid question to some of you, but i've lived in LA California all my life. I was talking to my cousin on the phone (who lives on the east coast), and she mentioned something aout a 'snow day'. Ummm, what is that? Could we get one in LA? Thank you!

snow day: cancelling school because the roads/conditions are too slick/severe to get to school on.
I had one yesterday and it was awesome. i guess you could get off school if theres snow over there?

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A few days ago I broke my dominant arm. Therefore, it is hard to dress. I can hardly button my pants buttons and it is annoy and somewhat painful to dress and undress as a whole. So does anyone know any *specific* items of clothing that will make life easier for me? Websites would be good too. Also, any jean skirts that dont have buttons? Thanks.

wow this happened to me a year ago and it was terrible! get pants with clips (the ones that slide...usually on dress or uniform pants) sweat pants, t shirts, gaucho pants & get a jean skirt thats loose enough you can slide over yourself or one with clips that slide so its easier. i know this gets really difficult but after a while you will get used to it and be able to handle buttons.

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Yeah im 13 and regular tampons are to big for me, do you kno if they make junior tampons, if so what are they called.

they're called "lights" or "junior fit". go to the store with an adult female and pick some out that sound small enough for you to use. oh, and cardboard is harder to use to pass on those.

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Does anybody know any good programs that I could buy for blocking pop-ups? Does anyone have any that have actually worked and aren't too complicated to use? Thanks.

i have norton anti virus and i can change the settings but a good one is yahoo becaus you can turn it on or off.

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i have to find 3 nonconformists and why they are nonconformists. any ideas? QUICK PLEASE! THANKS!!!!

i would think anyone that lead any kind of civil rights movements or worked for justice is a nonconformist because thy wanted better treatment/oppertunity etc.
try MLK jr

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Last year my Pre-Cal teacher told me that if I went on to take Calculus AP that I would flunk out by first report card. I knew that I wouldn't and the only reason I decided to take the class was because she said that about me even though I kept an A+ average in her class. Well, it's coming around to the end of the semester and I now have an A in Calculus AP. I was wondering; if this happened to you, would you tell your old teacher about your grade?

i would rub it into their face but not in an immature way.

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what are some great things to talk about if you are doing a speech on perfume and cologne?

well what kind of speech? if you want the person to buy it or wear it, show them its attractive, hides bad smells, very sexy... lemme know id you need anything else

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okay i went to Goody's tonight and they are slipping up on their plus size clothes...I'm 15 years old and I am looking for some new clothes...sad thing is...i wear plus sizes and i am into fashion...like the ripped jeans and such...but lately no one is carrying anything that makes me happy...does anyone know of any stores besides Goody's that carry fashionable teen plus sized clothes that are also on the cheap side? Thanks a mil!

DEB shops has really cute plus size clothes... theyre like replicas of regular clothes too so their in style.

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My hair has been the same forever. I have never done naything to it. its shoulder length, brown, with some long-ish side bangs. im an average weith girl with bluee eyes and some freckles.

what is something i could to do it that would look cute??

you could get some highlights & sideswept bangs would look cute. wear it in different ponytails and buns and stuff. try curling it sometime too if its straight.

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I need this ASAP because I seriously need to get out of school on Monday. Name every snow dance ritual you know and I'll give you a five so please help me school is getting excrusiating!!!

wear you pjs inside out, flush the toilet and turn around 3 times. and if you wanna go the sure way... pray tons!

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I am confused. I am a Christian, and I am trying to figure out, well, what "kind" of Christian to be, like a Catholic, Baptist, etc etc.

My question is, what religion are you, Christian-wise (I have nothing against other religions, I promise!), and why? What are some of your beliefs? Thanks!

well I'm catholic but i have been surrounded by all different kinds of christians my whole life through music ministry and i honestly think its one of the best forms of christianity. i dont mean it to be offensive to anyone else, i'm very open minded about this but if you can only pick one, id say catholic. i'm multitasking at the moment but i can give you my beliefs in a bit... feel free to drop some in my inbox!

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Im just gonna get right to the point, i have a really bad porn addicting, and i am getting better at not doing it, but sometimes i fall into temptation and its hard not to do it. Everytime i do it, i feel like i have let God down or i have taken the bible and shoved it in his face and it makes me feel horrible afterwards, i really dont know wat to do, i try to stop but its soo hard, and i just dont know wat to do, please help. and dont give me some stupid answer either, im really struggling with this and i need some concrete advice

oh mannn. take it all off of your system, throw it away, take posters down, etc. when you feel the urge: read the bible, talk on the phone, eat something, go outside and walk around, just distract yourself.
if you need some motivation, write down 10 reasons you want to stop and set up a plan that works for you.

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I'm 19/m

I've never masterbated before, and honestly I've never had an urge to.. Am I abnormal?

no you are not abnormal. if you have enough..excitement... in your life without masturbating then its fine.

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What are some good musicals like Rent and Wicked?

great choices by the way!! i love them both!
hairspray, phantom, jesus christ superstar, joseph and the amazing technicolor dreamcoat, godspell, cinderella, fiddler on the roof, bye bye birdie, anything goes, chicago, west side story, lion king, movin' out, avenue q... the list is endless!

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you can always tell i have coverup on. especially on my nose, forhead, chin, and the area around the corners of my mouth. how can i get rid of this and make my make-up look more natural?

i think you have the wrong color or you are trying to cover up the impossible. if you have a zit, it will be obvious no matter what you do. liquid..try a different kind or even it out to your hairline or eyebrows then put powder on top. do both instead of 1 over the other.

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Hey peeps. I am thinking of becoming a goth. But I have some dilemmas.

1 my mom wont let me be what I wanna be. I know the consequences. I told me mom that I wanted to dye my hair black, and she freaked.
2 I cant get past the metaphores. To goths, gothic sayings may have a meaning but when I hear or see gothic sayings or quotes or whatever, all I see is stuff about blood, guts, and death.
3 Idont know any chain stores that has a lot of gotic clothing and silver jewelry with the gothic sighns.


Help.

1. your hair doesn't have to be black if you have the attitude.
2. If they don't have meaning to you, don't go by them. a lot of them are from songs by the way.
3. hot topic is a chain store all over the us and jewelry comes from orginal places like flea markets.. the whole point is to be yourself/different.
anything else, lemme know.

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I was just wondering, do y'all spend more time with your bf/gf or with your friends?

Friends.

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