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Am I weird If I don't masterbate?

Question Posted Monday November 28 2005, 10:56 pm

I'm 19/m

I've never masterbated before, and honestly I've never had an urge to.. Am I abnormal?

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Makeitshine answered Saturday January 21 2012, 9:51 am:
Your not a normal, honestly lots of my friends haven't done that you may or may not want to do that

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Linds answered Monday January 2 2006, 6:23 pm:
yeah.. thats really weird.. sry man

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kevin1986 answered Monday December 12 2005, 2:19 pm:

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SexyLexi44 answered Sunday December 4 2005, 12:57 am:
Your are not abnormal just because you don't masturbate it is completly normal some people just don't feel the need to do those type of things and not only that some people just arent interesting or get the urge. dont worry it is completly normal

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LAUGHINGMYASSOFF answered Thursday December 1 2005, 9:35 pm:
pssh no honey youre perfect normal :-)


HOPLESSxROMNTC answered Tuesday November 29 2005, 8:10 pm:
No, you just apparently don't have a high sex drive.

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LoveNJstyle answered Tuesday November 29 2005, 5:10 pm:
no you are not abnormal. if you have enough..excitement... in your life without masturbating then its fine. <3

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kailey answered Tuesday November 29 2005, 3:57 pm:
Of course not. It's a matter of personal preference. You'd be abnormal if you did it for the hell of it because you thought that was the normal thing to do even if you had no interest in doing it. There's absolutely nothing wrong with that.

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XO_LiZ_69_0X answered Tuesday November 29 2005, 3:55 pm:
no, maybe your hormones are going could happen, but your 19 so that shoulda happened a while ago. I`m sure your not abnormal, and if you`ve had sex before then you really arent, cuz thats a way of masturbation, except using other parts..yeahh lol

hope i helped

[ &hearts; ] ELizabeth

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susana answered Tuesday November 29 2005, 11:48 am:
Abnormal? NO! Besides, who's to say what is truly "normal." We're all different - Thank God - and normalcy is so completely subjective.

Masturbating is totally a personal decision and if you haven't had the urge to do it, then don't worry that you're not. Perhaps some day you'll decide you want to try it. may like it and you may not. I think a lot of people have issues with this, either way. Masturbating is a perfectly okay and healthy thing to do, but it's not unhealthy or weird that you don't do it. Be careful you don't lay a guilt trip on yourself whether you partake in this personal pleasure or not! I also think that many people just prefer having sex with a partner and don't get much enjoyment out of pleasing themselves. That's okay, and I don't think you're in a minority. I believe that there are an awful lot of people who feel as you do.

One thing to keep in mind though, is that masturbating can help you get more in touch with your sexual side. Experimenting can also help you know exactly what you'd like a partner to do. But you should NEVER put pressure on yourself or allow anyone else to do it either. Whether you masturbate or not, you'll eventually know what you want from a sexual experience.

Whether a person masturbates or not does not make them strange! Relax, and do whatever feels natural and comfortable to you. And don't let anyone tell you that if a person materbates it is wrong, dirty, or goes against anything "natural." That's just bunk!

You're okay...just fine. Don't get all obsessed with this and end up doing a number on your head!

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xxoBriannax answered Tuesday November 29 2005, 10:47 am:
No that's good, if you are one to listen to the Bible. A lot of people don't masterbate.

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orphans answered Tuesday November 29 2005, 1:35 am:
you are a freak. i'm sorry to say this but as a male of the same age any guy who has never jacked off well is just weird hahaha. nah but seriously you're cool, don't worry about it so you don't wank it? so what? do what you wanna do and have fun

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xbebopchrisx answered Tuesday November 29 2005, 1:20 am:
No your not abnormal. Its more common that guys our age do/have masterbated before (I'm a 19/m too.) But this certainly doesn't mean that your abnormal. Its something you do for fun, if your not ready or don't feel like doing it, then don't. Its not really a big deal either way.

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sizzlinmandolin answered Tuesday November 29 2005, 12:19 am:
No, not at all. You are in the minority, especially since you are a guy, but there's nothing wrong with that. It's nothing you have to do or should want to do unless you've done it before and liked it. However, it's something you may want to try in order to get to know yourself better so that you can help a partner give you more sexual pleasure. It can be really useful in those regards, but there's no reason to start doing it now if you're not in a relationship and don't plan on being in one in the near future. Masturbation does have other benefits, physical ones at that. Don't think I'm trying to talk you into it. If you don't want to, then don't. That's the bottom line. I just think that it's always good to at least know the benefits. I hope I helped and good luck!

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JuiiCy-x-3 answered Monday November 28 2005, 11:22 pm:
No, your normal most girls feel that way that they just don't have the urge to have to masterbate for pleasure.

so trust me.. your TOTALLY normal. - - i promise.

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GDROB2 answered Monday November 28 2005, 11:15 pm:
Good question and one that should be moved to the front page. There are lots of people who feel abnormal for doing it and or that 99% do. The truth of the matter is you all need to relax. Whether you do it or not really is not that big of a deal.

You are "normal" whatever that means. What is normal for one is not for another. It's okay not to masturbate and if you get nothing out of it or do not feel the urge that is perfectly fine.

There as many people who do, are on the fence, or who do not masturbate so you are fine and in good company either way. Relax! There is nothing wrong with not having urges to do it anymore than there is to have the urges.

Do what is feeling right for you and forget the fear of being abnormal. In fact your question is odd in a sense as so many write in feeling strange for doing it and having urges. Both parties need to calm down.

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xopinkbarbie answered Monday November 28 2005, 11:14 pm:
No, that's normal. Not ALL girls masturbate even though that's what like everyone says. So it's fine- don't worry. :)

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