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Q: There is this guy i have liked for a while, but he thinks of me just as a best friend. When i see him do things with other girls i tend to get pretty jealous. He asks me for advice with girls he really likes sometimes, and that kind of hurts my feelings because i like him. I try to make that clear but he just doesn't seem to be getting it. We are both fourteen so i guess i'm not ready for something extremely serious, but i want to go out with him. what do i do?
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Just tell the guy the least he can do is say we are just friends but he may want to give it a try and you never know unless you tell
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Q: well i like this boy right and he's spanish and i have no problem with that b/c he''s really sweet and cute. but all my friends do b/c im like white and we're totally diff and some of my friends are sort of racist. i don't know what to do b/c i rlly like this boy...what should i do
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Well they just need to understand that you cant help who you like and your not racist and they need to except other because is they are judging people by what they look like then they are going to have alot of complications in life
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Q: Dear Advicenators,
One and a half years ago my brother *Henry* was diagnosed with hemophilia, which means that his blood does not clot normally. If he gets a cut, it's really hard to stop the bleeding. If he loses too much blood, he could die if the blood is not replenished.
Henry and I always liked to spend time together (he's two years older than me). We'd ride bikes to the park and shoot basketball hoops. He couldn't be too active, but he was my best friend and I felt safe around him.
Anyway, he lost a lot of blood one day, and was taken to the doctor for another blood injection. The horrible part was, that the person who had donated that blood was carrying the AIDS virus. The doctor proclaimed that Henry now had AIDS.
Henry is 15 years old, is in diapers, and must be fed through an IV or a tube. He has about 4 months left to live. My entire family is sad, and angry about it. My parents must monitor him all the time, so I always have to get a ride to my volleyball games. All three of us never have extra time, because we are always there for Henry and when he must be hospitalized. I had to drop out of volleyball for him.
Henry has been the butt of the jokes from the kids at school lately. They make fun of the fact that he has been in diapers. They are unaware of the fact that his brain is slowly being devoured, and he can't feed himself. The AIDS is tearing the whole family apart. But luckily, my friends are there to console me, but I always feel resentment towards the cruel kids at school. Can I please have some suggestions on what to do about that?
Anyway, as I am spending my last Christmas with my brother, I have no idea what present to give to him. Could I please have some ideas? I want it to be special and something he'll remember when he goes to Heaven.
Also, how can I comfort / cheer up my parents? They have been having lots of mood swings lately and have been very stressed.
Any input and prayer would be great. Sorry about the length.
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Alright.. you could maybe all get a consolour.. it helps alot of families out. Just try to look at the bright side of things. I know its hard to do. I really cant imagine how it is. I would go the office or school counsolar about that and maybe have like a hat day or something for him to help raise money and right a paper about whats going on and ask everyone just to help out. And have the money you earned on hat day go towards the hospital bills. Exspeacially to someone so close to you all! But shouldnt they of known about the AIDS? IM pretty sure so i am not buying that part.
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Q: i think a guy i like likes me. I want to ask him out, but i've never had a bf and i would rather him ask me. But he's shy so i dont think it's gonna happen. What a good way to ask him out, or find out if he likes me for sure. Plz help, i really like him.
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Friends. They are always useful!
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Q: Ok, in school I'm in the "popular group" and my friends are really nice and everything but sometimes they really annoy me. Here's why. Whenever a guy asks them out they'll like automaticlly say yes (even if they don't like them), and when a guy dumps them or they dump a guy they'll be going out with someone else within an hour. Anyway, for some reason this really bugs me. I don't really no why either. Now a guy asked me out and I said no because I don't like him and now they keep calling me too picky. What do I do?
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Well maybe you should give him a chance. Some guys surprise you
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Q: if a guy sees this question he will know wat i mean.
I have a problem. I am a christian kid but im slipping away from the lord because of things i look at. if ya know wat i mean. I cant stop. I try but nothin works. If you can help, please do
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I wouldnt worry about that everybody does at this age.. I guess you could call it curiousity.. but yeah i dont think your slipping away hun. Just talk to him every night
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Q: Will a yeast infection go away on its own or what can you do to get rid of it?
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go to a near store like maybe osco drug or something and ask a pharmasist to help you
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Q: Alright yall, i believe in God and that Jesus is the son of God. But i dont like church one bit, and i dont like the bible. I think i'm a good person, but i do also sin (obviously). And i have a wonderful relationship with God. So am i going to hell because i dont like church, and because i dont believe alot of what the Christians believe? Please help me out if you can. Thanks alot.
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No your all good. You are probably a teenager. And no teens like church to much. I mean I go on sunday on my own but thats because i think its the right thing to do. but i dont always pay attention i find myself looking up at the ceiling counting the lights or windows or even the pews lol so i dont thnk your going to hell.
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Q: Last night I did my washing but I was really tired so I just dumped it all in without looking to see what went in. Then when I checked this morning, I had found that I had slipped a fur coat into the mix.
Things happen and bada bing bada boom,
The coat feel apart,
Well I'm not that upset about the coat falling apart (a bit but not much) but now all my other clothes that went in that wash have fur all over them. I have tried shaking them off but they are still covered- what would be the best way to get all the fur off easily?
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I would get one of those rollie thingies and go from there or re-wash them
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Q: Okay, I have been sick for almost a week now, I have really bad diarrhea and I can't keep any food down! Everytime I eat it comes up, I even took three bites of a yogurt and it came up. My mom refuses to take me to the doctor and I am starting to feel weak. i usually get dehydrated really easily and now when i drink it doesnt stay down either. My mom keeps an attitude towards me when i tell her what is going on and she says she cant afford to take me to the doctor, WHAT DO I DO?
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I would just call 911 or something my god your freakin mom should care for you! not watch you suffer! or call the rape and abuse crisis center! you need help and she isnt giving it to you! or get a close family member to take you. maybe a friends mom that you are close to because you need to be seen
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Q: The snow is really bad where I live and it's below zero with the wind chill. What are the basic factors that may lead a super intendant to call a snow day? thanx in advance
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Q: Theres this guy at school.This will be an average story but anyways,He waits for me by my locker and he will hold my hand and flirt with me.He just makes me feel really special.We're not going out but sometimes i feel like we are.We've known eachother since we were 5.We are now teenagers.Can someone tell me if he might like me??im a female.
Signed,
Crushed
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Umm.. thats a obvious question. Duh! he likes you! Ask him out!
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Q: Ever since I started taking taekwondo, my back has been hurting a lot. I'm only 15/f and I don't want a bad back at this young of an age and I don't want a bad back when I am older. And I would never quit taking taekwondo, I love it so much and I am trying to get my black belt. Any advice on what I should do? Thanks in advance.
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Well im in TKD.. (tae kwon do) and ive been in sense march. My back has never hurt.. What belt are you? Cuz if you are far into then i doubt its tae kwon do. I would maybe go to chiropracter and fix that prob. Or just avoid doing certain stretches for awhile. I cant do crunches because of my belly button ring.. but thats only gunna b for a bit
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Q: My best friend and I like the same guy. The thing is, he is dating my best friend. But she and he both know that he likes me also. He wants to be with both of us, but I don't want to hurt my best friend so I think I should back off. What should I do?? Thanks!
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get away from him. He sounds like trouble n you dont wanna be with someone like that
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Q: Im a 15 male.. and im gothic, is it wierd that i wear black nailpolish? give me some details and convince me if it is..
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Q: my room is really lame and i hate having friends in it because its not cool. i have basic furniture, tv, computer, but its so boring to be in. any ideas? help!!!
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PICTURES!! COOL LIGHTS!! those are always fun!
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Q: I have the two bestest friends in the world.but they've known each other longer then they've known me.and I feel like the third wheel.should I tell them that they should include me more on things or not?help.
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I would tell them and tell them you just want to be a 3rd wheel
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Q: my family is very religious. so when they found out that i had sex with my ex boyfriend a while back they went crazy. i promised that i wouldnt do it again, but now that i am seeing someone else it's getting harder and harder to say no. i'm only 17, i know thats young, but should i wait until i am married for my family? or should i just give in for myself?
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Q: If I walked on the tredmill for an hour every morning, didn't eat as much and ate healthy, and did crunches and excercises, do you think I would get skinnier within a month? Thanks.
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Q: is it true that after 16 a girl stops growing?? if this is not true then what age it is?
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bio
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My name is Trix, I am 17. I love pink, and degrassi.
I just recently got out of a relationship of 21 months. I love him still but I'm moving on.
I've been there done that im sure
ex. (with the number of expierences)
-Long term relationships (2)
-Bad expierence with BF's family (1)
-Broken bones (11)
-Stitches (2)
-Seen someone killed (1)
-Loss of family (1)
-Cancer in the family (2)
-Family in Iraq (1)
-Mom had brain surgery (2)
-Loss of pet (4)
-Moved from state to state (5)
-New highschool (2)
-Car accident (3)
Like I said "been there done that"
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Info
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Gender: Female Age: 17 Member Since: June 3, 2004 Answers: 3661 Last Update: December 20, 2009 Visitors: 222290
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