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Do I force her to take me or wait it out


Question Posted Sunday December 19 2004, 9:33 pm

Okay, I have been sick for almost a week now, I have really bad diarrhea and I can't keep any food down! Everytime I eat it comes up, I even took three bites of a yogurt and it came up. My mom refuses to take me to the doctor and I am starting to feel weak. i usually get dehydrated really easily and now when i drink it doesnt stay down either. My mom keeps an attitude towards me when i tell her what is going on and she says she cant afford to take me to the doctor, WHAT DO I DO?

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Shortie8959 answered Monday December 20 2004, 7:10 pm:
Wow, that sucks. Talk to her about how bad you're feeling, and that if she doesn't take you, you could get a lot worse. Ask her if she thinks money is worth more than you. If nothing works, try talking to a friend's mom or your school nurse. Get well soon!
Hope I helped!
~*Erin*~

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PinkLady4863 answered Monday December 20 2004, 5:14 pm:
you need to sit down and calmly tell your mother, you don't just have the flu, you are seriously sick. you need to tell her that you are dehydrated and beginning to feel extremely weak. (exagerate if u need 2) tell her that a simple dehydration could easily lead to death and other serious illnesses. explain that if you don't see someone, you may die or be internally harmed! just ask her if your life is worht the money. She will most likely brush it off, but dnt let her, tell her it is serious!
get well soon,
Pinklady4863
P.S. you could try n' raise money. i will certainantly make a donation if you truely need it.

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xmissybootsx answered Monday December 20 2004, 2:19 pm:
go by yourself.

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newyork745 answered Monday December 20 2004, 1:53 pm:
go to the doctors your self dont wait for your mom or dont take your moms attitude.

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ixjacquixi answered Monday December 20 2004, 1:41 pm:
Try telling your mom that you are starting to feel weak and that you really need to see a doctor. If she still refuses have a relative take you or a close friend's mom. If you don't want to go to the extreme try pepto bismol or an upset stomach medication. Hope i helped :)xoJacxo

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XxbrittanyxX answered Monday December 20 2004, 8:04 am:
Don't wait this out. Who knows how sick you could get if your mom refuses to take you to the doctor any longer! Get a friend or their mom to take you, or maybe you're aunt,uncle, or grandma! jus get someone who will be willing to spend that 20 bucks and give you a ride to the doctors. as for your mom, tell her youre not asking her, you need her to bring you. if she still won't its time to find someone who will.
hope you feel better i'll pray for you- get better and have a merry christmas **muah** luv britt

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bAhAmAmA0250 answered Sunday December 19 2004, 11:47 pm:
I would just call 911 or something my god your freakin mom should care for you! not watch you suffer! or call the rape and abuse crisis center! you need help and she isnt giving it to you! or get a close family member to take you. maybe a friends mom that you are close to because you need to be seen

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lilangl1113 answered Sunday December 19 2004, 11:14 pm:
Tell her you NEED to go to the doctors it's not a question. Your health is really important, and money should NOT be an issue when it comes to your health. No matter what you should be important enough to take care of. You do sound really sick. I hope you'll get better, and I'll pray for you.

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luckycharm answered Sunday December 19 2004, 10:07 pm:
take one sip of water every 15 minutes for like 3 hours... i hope you feel better!
--lucky

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icey0990 answered Sunday December 19 2004, 9:58 pm:
Im really sorry you cant afford it. Its sad, but in an emergency, many people who cant afford medical care go to the ER for help. Tell your mom to take you there...
If that doesnt work calling sounds like a good idea. But really..MAKE her take u..this is serious! I go to school with the doctors daughter..do you kno the docs kids? Maybe they can help u out..or try the school nurse..try everything!
-best of luck

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BleedingRomance88 answered Sunday December 19 2004, 9:57 pm:
when you sick like that its your mom's job to take you the doctor.. maybe if you vomit on her she'll take you .. lol i dunno

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givingbackmonday answered Sunday December 19 2004, 9:51 pm:
ask me has a very good idea. because it doesnt sound like youre getting any better, so that is the best idea to call since you cant go.

i hope you feel better!

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AsKmE135 answered Sunday December 19 2004, 9:48 pm:
Try CALLING the doctor.. that way they won't charge you for making an appointment.. but they can still give you adive on what to do.

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