There is this guy i have liked for a while, but he thinks of me just as a best friend. When i see him do things with other girls i tend to get pretty jealous. He asks me for advice with girls he really likes sometimes, and that kind of hurts my feelings because i like him. I try to make that clear but he just doesn't seem to be getting it. We are both fourteen so i guess i'm not ready for something extremely serious, but i want to go out with him. what do i do?
Additional info, added Monday December 20 2004, 5:49 pm: The guy i like is really sweet, and usually a little shy around girls, but its pretty obvious he likes me as a friend and no more. right now were on winter break so were both super busy and dont see any of each other, other than talking on aim, so i dont know what i would say or do that would give him the hint.. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? pinayprincess74 answered Thursday December 23 2004, 2:31 pm: Awee!! Anyways, I had the same feelings like that before. I know you tend to get pretty jealous and mad but thats okey because thats normal. Anyways, get his phone number, email addres, whatever. Then email him or talk to him and tell him calmly how you feel about him. Who knows, maybe he secretly has a crush on you! You just need to talk to him personally.
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Shortie8959 answered Monday December 20 2004, 7:19 pm: It's best to just stay friends with him, because you definitly DON'T want to ruin your relationship. This has happened to me before with a guy at school. We were friends, then we went out for a week, and decided to stay friends, because things were just too uncomfortable between us. Just try to accept him as just a friend. Good luck!
Hope I helped!
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ixjacquixi answered Monday December 20 2004, 1:47 pm: Try telling him again that you do like him and that asking about other girls is not something he should be doing so throw on your million dollar smile and start flirting with him. Maybe get his number and call him. Fourteen is a young age especially for a relationship but its still ok, just as long as you keep it clean. If he doesn't take this into consideration and still asks you about girls chance is he doesn't like you and is not interested. *good luck* xoJacxo [ ixjacquixi's advice column | Ask ixjacquixi A Question ]
xoxbellabebexox answered Monday December 20 2004, 12:12 pm: do what feels right because if you dont then you will regret it
hope it works out
JyNxiE answered Monday December 20 2004, 12:10 pm: Try to flirt with him sometimes and see what his reaction is. Or maybe he thinks of you as someone he can go to for advice. In that case, continue being his friend and all, just maybe you need to ask him if he would ever see the two of you as something more than friends.
AdviceAbby answered Monday December 20 2004, 8:59 am: Maybe you are ready for something serious but you just don't know it. Follow your heart and if your ready get him something nice(real nice) for the holidays.
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