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I am straight to the point, My advice is given based on my opinions of what YOU write. I may not always tell you what you want to hear but I am not here to sugar coat shit.
I am honest, I am blunt, At times an asshole but one thing I can promise, I'll never lie.
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:,(((( me and my bf my first bf broke up on wensday and yesterday he already has a gf
i have never cried this much in my life
he was my first kiss, first bf,, first relationship
everything
he didn't know english so i learned spanish soo hard just for him
whyyyyyy what did i do wrong :,(((((( i'm starting to cry again :,(
i did sooooo much for him, i was a good gf i did soo much but what did he do nothing, even while we were dating he made me miserable and he changed soo much we broke up 4 days before our 1 month.... we didn\'t even make it to a month whyyyyyy what did i do wrong why does god hate me why does my bf hate me why do they all wanna see me crying and in pain
:\'(((((((((((((((((((((
but i dont understand wht i did wrong
the part that makes me hurt the most is
he already has a gf
he was my first everything...
igave him my firstkiss
i hate first love
i wanna find the old me
i use to always smile, never cry, just happy with my friends, but he changed me and he changed alot.. he took away my old me, my smile, my happiness and only left me tears
my friends were goin to cuss him out yesterday and she went upp to his house and he was home and he didnt open then 30 later he came out to hang out w my other friends
:\'(((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((
and then i found out he has gf
the lst string of love i have for him is all gone
now its all hate
a guy that treats me like this, how can i possibly still love him
what is wrong w me
all my friends r calling me stupid cause i still love him after everything he has did to me, the day we broke up i ran in front of 3 cars
and they honked
and the 4th one was goin soo fast and didnt stop
my friend knew i was goin to do something stupid and chased after me, if it wasnt for her, i wouldnt be alive right now. why couldnt she just left me be, i could be in heaven right now, all the pain would be much less and i could forever
i loved a guy for 7 yrs and i rejected all 64 guys that aske dme out b4 jose and jsoe is the 65
a guy that can make me forget about the guy i love for 7 yrs
isnt easy
me and jose hung out everyday
since we dated
till night
i would walk home alone
everyday
and ride his bus
i did everything
to show how much i love him and to be a good gf
i woke up at 5 in the morning
walk 40 min to get ot his house
and go to heritage and just to watch him play soccer
then the coached liked me and wanted me to be the manerage. what did i do wrong???was i a bad girlfriend 15, female
Okay I agree with fbe, You are obsessing just a tad
If you were miserable in the relationship then why did you stay with him? You just caused yourself more pain by doing so. If the guy has another girlfriend 4 days later doesn't that drop a hint that maybe he didn't value your relationship as much as you thought he did? Clearly he didn't.
If you stalk him, You are only make the situation harder on yourself. Stalking someone isn't going to make them take you back in fact it will make them possibly seek a restraining order against you. This guy is a loser and isn't worth it
Move on, If you need to go out with friends and spend time with family but stop dwelling so much on it. Yes again the user below me is correct wailing over the loss of this jerk is not proving anything. Realize that he isn't good for you and find someone else.
If a girl has chlamydia & a guy eats her out, can he get it ? Or is only spread through vaginal sex ?
Yes it is very possible Chlamydia is a STD
Also, Why would you want to eat a girl out of she had chlamydia? That's gross.
I had three wisdom teeth taken out on monday and today its friday. Only one side of my mouth hurts which is my right bottom. Its not too bad just feels like my tooth is still there and growing. that is the only tooth that i have had problems with. it was growing under the moler. anyway im super scared of getting a dry socket and today i was drinking from a straw and i didnt even notice until just now. i havent had any problems with the precedure and they didnt even bleed bad. just that first day and once i took the cotton out 30 mins later it wasnt bleeding. I just want to know if i really have anything to worry about or not. Oh also i get random dizzy/nausa spells that maybe last about 15 mins. I stopped taking my vicoden that was with tylonal and my amoxicillin (i asked) so im thinking it cant be them but ive been taking acetaminophen and i was wondering if it may be those but idk HELP PLEASE
Having your wisdom teeth pulled can take more then a week to heal. I had all four of mine pulled at once as well and I was swollen and sore for a good two weeks. It is possible the pain could be a dry socket, However it has only been 4 days and you should expect that you will still be in pain.
I would give it a week, If you still experience pain then call the surgeon. Sometimes the way surgery works is the pain is worse a few days after surgery due to healing.
My partner and I have been together for just over 3 years and in that time things havent been bad but havent been the greatest. I am 26 he is 22, from the beginning I saw signs that something was up. When we first started dating if I didnt want to do something with him one night he would drive by my house several times asking if I want to see him - or just appear at my door. if I said no - he would get upset and not talk to me for hours.
We moved in together 2 years ago - and things have been getting worse...and I am starting to realize it now (everyone can see it). I am told when to get out of bed, when I can go to bed, when I can do everything, calling me stupid blaming EVERYTHING on me - He has a very short fuse - to the point i am scared to say anything to him. Just the other night we got into an argument (he wanted me to call someone and I didnt want to) he got VERY angry - got in my face clintched his fist and swung - stopping it less than an inch from my face. and stormed away. I have never been so scared - he has never done this kind of a thing before. and about 50 mins later he apologized and wnats to move on. But i dont know if I can. It scared me. Is this abuse? Should I leave??
You need to pack up your stuff and get out of the relationship asap. You are being mentally and physically abused by your partner as well as being controlled.
Seriously, If someone loved you then would not put you down, abuse you or call you names. Abusing someone IS NOT love. You deserve better, You will find better but in order to move on you have to take the steps to get there.
This is what you said "But i dont know if I can. "
Yes you can but as long as you allow him to abuse you then you will never give yourself time to heal and get over it. I would dump him, pack your stuff and cut all contact with him. That old saying "The more you suffer, The longer you prolong your pain"
Forgiving someone that abuses you is letting them know that what they did is okay, It is NOT okay. NO you can't just move on from it and you shouldn't. The only person that can help you is YOU and people like that do not just change on their own he needs professional help and you need a man that will treat you the right way. Please do yourself the biggest favor you can do and leave the relationship. It will get easier in time but you owe it too yourself to move on.
::Responding to the person above me::
It is physical abuse if someone comes close to hitting you, That was a threat and YES that threat should be taken seriously. Love is not intimidation or is manipulating someone. I know what it feels like to be in an abusive relationship as I was in one for 5 years. To the "Genius" above me before you insist someone is wrong trying being in their situation first.
hi, 20/m.
Me and my best friend have been having problems recently. We have been friends for 5-6 years now, and we talk to each other all day every day (BBM). We usually have arguments now and again, but recently its been quite bad.
She kept calling me 'stuck-up' and 'pretentious' because I dont like doing the same things we used to (drinking in a park, going to a trashy casino etc). Recently, she's been hanging out with another of our mutual friends a lot. When they stopped talking, she started talking to me much more often. And when they start talking again, we don't talk much. I feel a bit like a 'back-up plan' to be honest.
The other day she said she was going to ask me to go and watch a movie with her, but that I 'wouldn't have come' because I 'only come out when [I] want to, and that [I] would have found it too trashy' when we used to go to the cinema all the time. I replied to that by saying 'f*** off if you're going to keep using that over and over again' and she said 'yeah, p*ss off'. We haven't spoken since (3 days ago), and that's completely not natural as we speak every day.
To be honest, I feel a bit jealous that she spends less time with me, and more with our other mutual friend. She will also be very secretive about it. When I ask her what she has been up to all day, she will reply 'just went out'. I then say 'with whom?' and she wont reply, then eventually change the subject by saying something like 'just a friend. I'm so tired, I want to go to sleep' etc.
She also moved city for college and didn't tell me?! At all?! She only told me after she dropped out after a few days!
In all, I feel as if she is very secretive about little stuff which I wouldn't care about. I also constantly feel we are at war with each other. I've spoken to her about all of this before, but she either brushes it off or apologises only for it to start all over again the next week.
She also posts a lot of stuff on her blog, which I feel is sometimes targeted to me. e.g. "you pretentious ass, do you really think that you're above everyone else?" etc etc. Upon my approaching her about it, she just shrugs it off, saying it's about someone else?
Is it now time to just let this friendship die out? I've spoken to her about it, and have tried to ignore and shrug off what she says/does, but it's upsetting. Has it come to a natural end?
I could go on, but I don't want you to be put off by the length of my question, so please answer if you can. All advice will be very much appreciated. Thank you in advance.
Friendships are like relationships they will never work unless both parties are willing to put in effort. Your "friend" clearly seems to have moved on but keeps you around encase plan A doesn't work out. Basically yes, You are a back up plan and someone she is trying to use in ways if it is only beneficial to her.
This girl doesn't seem to value your friendship, From what you have described she is rude, selfish and sketchy to some extent. Sometimes people grow apart but in the end life moves on. I was friends with someone for 14 years and then over a course of 3 months we just grew apart, She did her own thing I did mine and almost all our conversations were disagreements. Yes, It sometimes sucks but it happens. Why would you be jealous of someone who doesn't seem to be honest with you and uses you for her own benefit? If she uses you, What makes you think she's not using this mutual friend?... After all when they stop talking she crawls right back too you. Basically, People cannot use you if you don't let them.
I would say stop contact and move on, Find someone who values your friendship and treats you with respect.
Well first off its sad how so many cute guys are playes, they cuss every word that comes outta their mouths, all they want is one thing, go out for girls for a day and then break up. I hate that it makes me sick! Well I was just wondering is it possible for people to change like when they get a little older like from a 15 year old boy to maybe 16 or 17 Or do you think they wouldn't? Thanks!
This is a complicated question
Generally speaking most "players" really never change. Some do and some don't
When you are in High School of course players are going to be players and the male generation are slower to mature then the females. Most men don't mature until they hit their mid 20's and even at that age there is no guarantee that they will grow out of it.
Basically to answer your question: Can a guy change in a years time? It's possible but at that age I highly doubt it. Your best bet is to move on and find someone who isn't into cheating. Cheaters will be cheaters and you cannot make someone change they have to change on their own.
Is it possibe for a celebrity to go out with a fan or just a non celebrity, what are the chances? Is there a lot of celebrities that do that? Because its so unfair to want something you most likely can't have. Thanks for answering:D
It's pretty much a dead cause
In Hollywood most celebrities are conceited and have very high standards and expectations. To most of the Hollywood population a normal person is no more then a fan that's it. Lost cause
Ok so I like this Guy but the thing is he is my cousin cousin but I'm am related by her mom side (her mom and my mom are sisters) and he is related to her by his dad(there brothers) . So I really don't Know if it's illegal or if its ok. To like him.
Please Help!!
Why are you repeatedly re posting the same question?
Like I said, I believe he would be your distant cousin if he is your cousins cousin. Although you may not technically be blood related he would still be considered family. Dating family whether they are blood or not should be an automatic no.
Dating family members cause drama and problems within the family. Find someone who is not family related!...For the second time
She calls me stupid but I make straight A's She says ever since I was born I ruined her life. Is what she saying true? Have I ruined her life because she forgot me somewhere and I called my mother for help? Is she jeolus of me? I cant recall a time in my life when my sister loved me. I want to Kill myself for that is surely what she wants right? I want to die anyway but I want it to be painless please help me find a solution.
You did not state how old you two are
Siblings argue, That is just typical and expected in almost every family. I grew up with 2 siblings and one I get along with and the other I despise. Does she hate me to the point where I want to kill myself? No and neither does yours. You sister is your sibling and you will have your disagreements.
I am in my mid 20's and to be honest my oldest sibling and I have never truly seen things eye to eye but as we both got older we realized that we are family and we must remain civil to one other. Things start to change as you get older. Maybe you two will never get along 100% but someday you will learn to respect one another and be civil. Killing yourself isn't going to solve your problems and as much as your sister may sometimes pick on you I know that she doesn't hate you to the point where she wishes you dead.
Seriously, Just chill out a bit on the death threat. Fighting with your sibling is normal and you aren't the only one to have to go through it. She is your sister, She is your sibling....It will all get easier as you get older.
1m 19 years old and ever since i was young my mums drank.When i was younger i thought it was normal i was never alowed to sleep over at friends or stay out to late because i had to allways look after my younger sister, i dressed myself and took myself to school since i was 7,and ive basicly looked after myself since i can remember,then i grew up and relised my mums not the same as evryone esles. she calls me horrible names and make me feel worthless, ive been at college for 3 years doing hairdressing i stayd on at school i done evrything right but she just dosent seem to ever be happy with me.i had a job and she forced me to leave because she said i could do better, iwasnt earing much money but she said if i didnt claim for job seekers allowence she would kik meout of the house.At the moment things are worse than ever, her habbits are worse and now that my older brother has moved back home shees took sides with him and acts asif im not ther,they drink together evryday & other things, i feel like even though im related im not from the same family ther from ,she hardly works and demands money of both of us and im only claiming job seekers allowence and struggle to live its so hard to get a job now ,i have a boyfriend who has seen alot the way my mum and brother treat me and he bareley sees me now because he dosnt like comeing down to my house he cart bare the way they act, its comeing between mine and my boyfriend and i crt cope anymore ive allways been scared to be on my own since i was small because of things that have happend when i was a child , i want to get a flat of my own then i can be out of ther ways and let them get on with life but im scared to live alone , my biyfriends got the perfect family and has evrything he wants he just dosent understand my situation because hees not used ot what im used to and i feel im allways running to him with my problems , im sorry this question was sooo liong but ive been searching for someone to relate to me or help me if anyone has advice it would realy help. thankyou .xx
You are an adult, You are now capable of making your own choices.
I encourage you to stay in school, It is a very smart and wise choice. If you have siblings living with your mother that are under the age of 18 then you could report your mother as they way she is acting is not proper parenting. If possible I would try to save money and move out, If your boyfriend has a job then you two could come up with a plan to make living arrangements if you two are serious about it and go halves on expenses. Everyone is scared to live on their own that is a normal feeling but in time we learn how to be independent and before you know it you get used to it. If you feel you are running to him with your problems then I would recommend you see a therapist, Venting on your boyfriend will eventually drain and overwhelm him as nobody really wants to be constantly vented on.
As for your mother she likely needs some sort of help whether that'd be a therapist of her own and a rehab facility. When she asked for money, Don't give it too her. However if I were you, I'd try to figure out some sort of other living arrangement. Maybe you could talk to your boyfriend and see if his parents let you rent out a room in their home? Offer to pay them monthly rent, Help around the house etc. If they do decide to let you live there remember the golden key is to respect their house rules.
If that isn't possible then I would look in the paper for ads. Sometimes you can find people who need room mates and sometimes there are people that are willing to rent out a room in their home.
I really like this guy but im 12 and he is in the nineth grade. But we talk alot of facebook. But he cousins with my cousin but im one her moms side and he on her dads side.What do i should i stop likeing him cuz its werid or is that OK.And its ok cuz im in the 7th grade.But my our families know each other
You are 12 year old, Assuming this kid is around 14-15 yrs he is too old for you.
The reason he is likely talking to you is because you are young and he knows that you will probably believe whatever he tells you. No offense to you but you are too young to be dating at your age. Wait until you are in your teen years as there is no rush to try and date at 12.
Also isn't he your distant family?...That is just gross and should be a no. Dating family is disturbing and incest relationships are illegal.
well i met this guy a few months back through a friend. and started living with him cause i had no where else to go. he was a man whore, meaning he hooked up with 3-4 girls at a time, but i didn't intend to stay long so it didn't bother me. a couple months later i found out i was pregnant, but beore i could leave his house his friends told him. he decided he wanted to keep it. we moved states so he wouldn't be tempted to cheat and for the first few months it was fine. i'm currently 6 1/2 months pregnant and lately he has always been online talking to other girls. i don't have any family around, so i'm really scared that if he cheats i couldn't do anything. i've asked him about it, and he says he isn't doing anyything wrong. but he's always on there talking to numberous girls. what should i do? i'm 19 and this is my first child...
You got some thinking to do
I've always said once a cheater always a cheater. If possible I would start looking for another living environment. Do you have any friends you could stay with until you get on your feet?
Really this isn't about living with a cheater it is and should be about what is best for you and your child. The question is do you want to keep the baby?.. Are you able to properly care for the baby financially and mentally? You stated you had no family around this is why I ask as you are likely going to be on your own without his support.
Moving isn't going to stop him from cheating, If a guy wants to cheat he will find a way.
File for custody and take his ass to court for child support. There is help out there if you have too get on welfare until you have a better game plan. However, I'm not going to beat around the bush for you if I were in your situation I'd start considering adoption as this point in time it probably isn't the best idea to bring a child into a messy situation your already in.
Hello!
This is going to be difficult to express in text but I have been in a relationship for the first time in 4 years. I am very excited and I think I am ready but have felt really unsure of things the past two weeks. My relationship began unfortunately as a hook up. After about two months of a nearly only physical relationship I told the girl I had developed feelings for her and requested we started a committed relationship. After a week of grappling with the concept she obliged.
We have now been in an exclusive relationship for around 2 months. One of my biggest issues is I feel like I am the only one who initiates conversation, intimacy, etc. I was originally alright with this because I thought it was expected for the man in the relationship to to action most of the time? When I say take action we live near each other and she has never just popped in to say hello or requested we "do" anything (dating, talking, etc).
I think the three biggest struggles for me have been trust, intimacy, and interest. One night I told her about a health problem I have. I am a semi professional athlete and it was something I was nervous about. About a week later I was drinking with her at her sisters birthday and dropped the I am falling in love with you comment into conversation. It was not something I was planning on doing/saying but it came out. After I said this she darted off to the bathroom with her sister and the next day told me how troubled she was that I was moving to fast and on a different level. She said she usually dumps people who do this "sort" of thing?
Another thing that troubled me is often when opportunities for intimate encounters arise she claims to be tired. I have brought this up and it troubled me. I would say in 7 days we might be intimate 2 times a week. 50% of the time she claims to be tired and doesn't sleep well with other people around so I have to leave. I am a man, I try not to be selfish and want an emotional connection with this girl but sort of believe physical intimacy is important. She never seems to want me from what I can tell from her body language, etc. It's odd because I feel like sexually she is comfortable since our relationship started as a "hook up".
I guess where this ends is I am at a loss for solutions. I went out on a wim and tried to suprise her at work today and gave her a necklace since its close to christmas. I put her necklace on her and asked her to close her eyes and told her why she is beautiful to me and how happy she makes me. Later tonight I saw her again shortly and nothing was mentioned of the previous encounter, not even so much as a "thanks". I really was nervous about giving her the necklace and wanted to be spontaneous and special. To be honest I am a little devastated.
Maybe I am trying to hard, I really weighed my options. I love her personality, charm, how outgoing she is, and just her pure eloquent beauty. But her lack of emotional commitment to me from what I can tell just seems to not be there. Is this something that will come with time or should I end the relationship? I will indeed try to communicate this with her, but am not sure how to approach it since I feel like commitment already scares her....
Her actions say she isn't interested in a relationship with you, She is ungrateful and clearly wants nothing more then a hook up. The real truth is not many hooks up generally work out unless you both are under the agreement of possibly forming a relationship same with friends with benefits.
You want a real relationship then you will have to find a real girl, This one obviously isn't very interested into making the relationship work. Also, One thing you seemed to have missed is that relationships should be 50/50 meaning that the communication level should me mutual and coming from both parties not just one. If I were in your shoes I would start getting the feeling that maybe you were used and move on....Of course giving someone a gift that wasn't much appreciated is devastating but maybe next time hold off on the exchange until you know that the relationship is going to work out for you. This one just seems like a waste of time
Okay, so i've been told that i'm supposed to get my period soon. I've looked up signs and found a few i can relate too. ive been getting discharge, and its been more then 3 years since my breast have been growing. I've been getting moodswings, cravings (people tell me you get cravings) and i also get bloated. How can i fully tell when i'm actually going to start it?
(Sorry if this is in the wrong category, i didnt know which one to put it in)
Thanks(:
Every women is different, We can't really tell you when you will get your cycle.
You've pretty much nailed most of the symptoms but you missed the main one...Cramping.
It will come and that I can promise you, When it does I would schedule routine appointments with your OBGYN once a year.
Just be patient but like I said the main symptom is when you cramp!
okay so im 14 and my bf is 15 and we have been dating for a month and i dont know what to get him for Christmas and how to give it to him to please help!
You both are still early in the relationship so whatever you do I wouldn't go all big on it. That would be a bit much for only a month of dating.
What does he like? Is he into video games?...Nothing would be more awesome then a gift card to Game Stop. That would give him an awesome chance to go and pick out the latest game that he wants.
Does he like movies?...Maybe you could buy some movie passes. That would give you both something fun to do and you both can enjoy a night out.
You can never go wrong on gift cards! Game Stop or a favorite restaurant. Be creative but don't over do it..
and last but not least Merry early Christmas!
So my best guy friend recently got a gf. Ill start from the begining. My bestfriend got us to like eachother....a lot. I soon fell for him, and I think he did for me too. We Did do things (I.e. make-out) and soon after we were telling eachother that we loved eachother. He was the first one to say I love you too me also. So lately I asked him out..he said "I would. Say yes, but i might be going to jail, and I don't want a gf if I go to jail" I said "ok" kissed him, and he walked me home. I knew he also liked another girl along with me. So I'm guessing that either he asked her out, or she asked him..he apparently said yes. He decided to tell me over facebook....here i the conversation. Him:hey, I hve some bad news, me:ok what??, him: I kinda sorta have a girlfriend, me: oh....., him:yea, me:so what now?, him:idk, me:oh wait..let me guess who it is..(the other girl he liked name). He didn't reply, and soon after..he blocked and deleted me from his friends list. I don't understand why though... I don't think i did anything wrong, did I?? Can someone please tell me what is going on??
You two had feelings for one another, You were friends that made out. Maybe he was your best guy friend but he may of thought of you as a threat to his relationship seeing you had feelings for him. I really couldn't tell you the exact truth to why he blocked you.
Lets nail it down:
May his girlfriend knows about the relationship between you and him? Maybe she felt you were a threat and made him choose? Sometimes girls can be controlling and their jealousy gets the best them of them.
How do you know that she didn't block you?...A lot of girls (especially jealous ones) peek in on their boyfriends page. (I find that to be a sign of insecurity and lack of trust in a relationship) but it happens.
The best thing you could do is maybe just move on, I'm taking some wild guesses to why their is a chance he may of blocked you. If HE blocked you then maybe he felt you would come between his relationship with his new girlfriend and didn't want to take that chance. That is pretty much the only thing I could possibly think of by what you said. Either or, He is avoiding the drama between you and his girlfriend....
Really, If he were a true friend he wouldn't of wiped you out of his life without at least giving you some sort of explanation to why he did so. It was rude, disrespectful of him to drop you high and dry. If I were in your shoes, I'd start to think that maybe his girlfriend had something to do with it.... In the meantime, I would just try and let it go. Confronting could cause more problems and drama and then all the sudden you have his girlfriend giving him all the more reasons to let you go. The guy is likely whipped
Now as far as the "Jail" comment that is by far the lamest excuse I've come by yet. This guy didn't want to date you, He made up an excuse and for some reason choose to pick the lamest one in the book. If he can't be honest and respectful to you then yes...He doesn't deserve you. Really...Don't be too mad because I have a feeling it's only a matter of time before he leaves this girl high and dry as he did you.
This is by far the most weirdest dream I have ever had.
First it started out at a gas station; my boyfriend was with me and there was a woman with a german shepard; her daughter was up against the fence, and she had her hand on my boyfriends face. I saw him get closer and closer to her; and I told her "Dont you touch him!" and than I noticed my boyfriend getting mad, and I looked at her and said, "I'm kidding!" and she laughed.
Than I fell in a hole. There was a piece of wood that caught me inbewteen my legs and people started laughing. Than, somehow I ended up in the back of a car, and got out.
Than I ended up at my house, and saw my yorkie alot bigger; like normal size (right now she's two months) and my boyfriend and my dad were playing a video game, and my boyfriends penis was hanging out of a hole in his boxers and it was opening up like a Tulip. Than I noticed on my leg, I had a big bruise that covered up my entire calf. My dad smacked it and I started screaming; I couldn't breathe at all; and I began to cry.
I woke up screaming and crying. My boyfriend had to wake me up to get me to quit.
What does this mean?
Breaking it down:
Gas Station
To dream that you are at a gas station indicates a need to reenergize and revitalize yourself. You may be running low on energy and need to take time out to refuel. The dream also represents your ability to convert outside resources and use it for your own needs. Alternatively, dreaming that you are in a gas station means that you need to reach out to others and offer your help
Dog
To see a dog in your dream symbolizes intuition, loyalty, generosity, protection, and fidelity. The dream suggests that your strong values and good intentions will enable you to go forward in the world and bring you success. The dream dog may also represent someone in your life who exhibits these qualities. Alternatively, to see a dog in your dream indicates a skill that you may have ignored or forgotten. If the dog is vicious and/or growling, then it indicates some inner conflict within yourself. It may also indicate betrayal and untrust worthiness.If the dog is dead or dying, then it means a loss of a good friend or a deterioration of your instincts. Also consider common notions associated with the word dog, such as loyalty ("man's best friend") and to be "treated like a dog".
Penis
To see a penis in your dream signifies sexual energy, power, aggression, and fertility. To see an exceptionally large penis suggests doubts and anxieties about your sexual drive and libido.
Legs
To see your legs in your dream indicate that you have regained confidence to stand up and take control again. It also implies progress and your ability to navigate through life. If your legs are weak, then you may be feeling emotionally vulnerable.�If you dream that you are crossing your legs, then it implies defensiveness or your close minded attitude.If you see someone else's legs, then it represents your admiration for that person. You need to adopt some of the ways that this person does things.
To dream that your leg is wounded or crippled signifies a lack of balance, autonomy, or independence in your life. You may be unable or unwilling to stand up for yourself. Perhaps you are lacking courage and refuse to make a stand. If your dream that one of your leg is shorter than the other, then it suggests that there is some imbalance in some aspect of your life. You are placing more emphasis and weight on one thing, while ignoring other important aspects that need attention as well. If you are a woman and dream that your legs are hairy, then it suggests that you are domineering or that you dominate in the relationship.
I had a dream that I got pregnant by another girl. I know this is not possible but its buggin me out. I know the girl we go to church together. Shes cool but I kinda dont like her because shes been messing around with a guy I have a crush on even though hes just playing her and they will never be in a relationship but I try to be nice to her despite how I feel. This dream is crazy what could it mean?
Pregnant
To dream that you are pregnant symbolizes an aspect of yourself or some aspect of your personal life that is growing and developing. You may not be ready to talk about it or act on it. Being pregnant in your dream may also represent the birth of a new idea, direction, project or goal. Alternatively, if you are trying to get pregnant, then the dream may be a wish fulfillment. If you are not trying to get pregnant, but dream that you are, then it symbolizes fear of new responsibilities.�
To dream that you are pregnant with the baby dying inside of you suggests that a project you had put a lot of effort into is falling apart and slowly deteriorating. Nothing is working out the way you had anticipated.
To dream that someone else is pregnant indicates that you are experiencing a closer connection to this person.
If you are really pregnant and have this dream, then it represents your anxieties about the pregnancy. If you are in your first trimester of pregnancy, then your dreams tend to be about tiny creatures, fuzzy animals, flowers, fruit and water. In the second trimester, dreams will reflect anxieties about being a good mother and concerns about possible complications with the birth. Dreams of giving birth to a non-human baby are also common during this period of the pregnancy. Finally, in the third trimester, dreams consists of your own mother. As your body changes and grows, dreams of whales, elephants and dinosaurs and other larger animals may also start appearing at this stage of pregnancy. *Please see also Birth. View Dream Bank: "Pregnant Mother" and "Birth To Twins"
I am a 45 tear old engineer who has been with the same girl since I was 16. I just found out she has been having a long term graphic affair with a co-worker. She got a new cell phone and I was going to use her old one. She left 700 texts on the phone and I am heart broken. I don't want to live anymore. It is as my entire life has been a lie. Instead of being remorseful she became angry and has blamed me for her affair. I don't know how to pick up the pieces.
Counseling isn't going to solve the problem, Counseling comes with agreeing to go, Work on the problem and accepting that there IS a problem.
The first step towards moving on is filing for a divorce, If you feel you are having suicidal thoughts then I suggest you get yourself into some counseling for you to help you cope with the situation. Breakups/Divorces/Separation is hard but it isn't hard enough that it's impossible to overcome. Grieving comes to play when someone looses someone they love but you know what else?...So doesn't learning to accept the situation. Sometimes pain doesn't fully heal itself but our open wounds aren't open forever.
She became remorseful because she was caught, Many people who are caught doing something wrong are in denial and don't want to come clean. Some do eventually and some never do. The user below me was right, At the end of the day it all comes down to the fact that you caught her red handed.
Your first step is divorce and your second should be seeing a therapist for mental support. It's a one step at a time process and nothing is impossible to conquer.
What is it whenyou have a sharp pain in on the right side of your stomache ? And what can i do about it?
It could be anything from Appendicitis to a Kidney stone.
We aren't doctors nor are we qualified to give you information. I would contact the doctor and make an appointment