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baby daddy problem
well i met this guy a few months back through a friend. and started living with him cause i had no where else to go. he was a man whore, meaning he hooked up with 3-4 girls at a time, but i didn't intend to stay long so it didn't bother me. a couple months later i found out i was pregnant, but beore i could leave his house his friends told him. he decided he wanted to keep it. we moved states so he wouldn't be tempted to cheat and for the first few months it was fine. i'm currently 6 1/2 months pregnant and lately he has always been online talking to other girls. i don't have any family around, so i'm really scared that if he cheats i couldn't do anything. i've asked him about it, and he says he isn't doing anyything wrong. but he's always on there talking to numberous girls. what should i do? i'm 19 and this is my first child...
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Please, please, please, think about putting your child up for adoption and then you get your ass back in school. Your man is a completely dysfunctional loser and losers love nothing more than to drag others down with them. And he appears he is ready to pull you and your kid down the drain with him.
It is obvious neither of you is ready to be a parent, which is why I recommend you allow your child to be adopted. Recognize that you screwed up bad in who you chose to partner with, learn from it and make plans to extricate yourself out of the hole you're in. Don 't just drift along hoping for the best. You gotta make it happen yourself.
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you should call a member of your family pack up your stuff and get out and let him no what feeling like crap feels like. hes a jerk. I have been cheated on used etc My ex boyfriend cheated on me when I finally had proof of him doing it I left never once looked back. Its miserable I know the feeling now i have a husband who treats my son as his own. he doesnt cheat on me he treats me like an angel. the way a woman deserves to be treated hes not going to change he just moved to find more girls to hook up with u can find girls every where.
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You got some thinking to do
I've always said once a cheater always a cheater. If possible I would start looking for another living environment. Do you have any friends you could stay with until you get on your feet?
Really this isn't about living with a cheater it is and should be about what is best for you and your child. The question is do you want to keep the baby?.. Are you able to properly care for the baby financially and mentally? You stated you had no family around this is why I ask as you are likely going to be on your own without his support.
Moving isn't going to stop him from cheating, If a guy wants to cheat he will find a way.
File for custody and take his ass to court for child support. There is help out there if you have too get on welfare until you have a better game plan. However, I'm not going to beat around the bush for you if I were in your situation I'd start considering adoption as this point in time it probably isn't the best idea to bring a child into a messy situation your already in.
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