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my first boyfriend
:,(((( me and my bf my first bf broke up on wensday and yesterday he already has a gf
i have never cried this much in my life
he was my first kiss, first bf,, first relationship
everything
he didn't know english so i learned spanish soo hard just for him
whyyyyyy what did i do wrong :,(((((( i'm starting to cry again :,(
i did sooooo much for him, i was a good gf i did soo much but what did he do nothing, even while we were dating he made me miserable and he changed soo much we broke up 4 days before our 1 month.... we didn\'t even make it to a month whyyyyyy what did i do wrong why does god hate me why does my bf hate me why do they all wanna see me crying and in pain
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but i dont understand wht i did wrong
the part that makes me hurt the most is
he already has a gf
he was my first everything...
igave him my firstkiss
i hate first love
i wanna find the old me
i use to always smile, never cry, just happy with my friends, but he changed me and he changed alot.. he took away my old me, my smile, my happiness and only left me tears
my friends were goin to cuss him out yesterday and she went upp to his house and he was home and he didnt open then 30 later he came out to hang out w my other friends
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and then i found out he has gf
the lst string of love i have for him is all gone
now its all hate
a guy that treats me like this, how can i possibly still love him
what is wrong w me
all my friends r calling me stupid cause i still love him after everything he has did to me, the day we broke up i ran in front of 3 cars
and they honked
and the 4th one was goin soo fast and didnt stop
my friend knew i was goin to do something stupid and chased after me, if it wasnt for her, i wouldnt be alive right now. why couldnt she just left me be, i could be in heaven right now, all the pain would be much less and i could forever
i loved a guy for 7 yrs and i rejected all 64 guys that aske dme out b4 jose and jsoe is the 65
a guy that can make me forget about the guy i love for 7 yrs
isnt easy
me and jose hung out everyday
since we dated
till night
i would walk home alone
everyday
and ride his bus
i did everything
to show how much i love him and to be a good gf
i woke up at 5 in the morning
walk 40 min to get ot his house
and go to heritage and just to watch him play soccer
then the coached liked me and wanted me to be the manerage. what did i do wrong???was i a bad girlfriend 15, female
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One of your friends need to smack you into reality. He is your first boyfriend. You are 15. You were together a month. You arn't in love with him. You just loved the fact that someone who there. You actually counted how many guys asked you out bfore him? Get a grip.
Like you said, he treated you badly, so stop wasting your time, and go find one of the 64 boys that asked you out, and move on! He clearly doesn't love you, or cares that you guys aren't together, because he has a new girlfriend.
I'm sorry if my words hurt you, but you need to get a grip. He isn't worth it. You need to seriusly chill out before considering dating again.
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Okay I agree with fbe, You are obsessing just a tad
If you were miserable in the relationship then why did you stay with him? You just caused yourself more pain by doing so. If the guy has another girlfriend 4 days later doesn't that drop a hint that maybe he didn't value your relationship as much as you thought he did? Clearly he didn't.
If you stalk him, You are only make the situation harder on yourself. Stalking someone isn't going to make them take you back in fact it will make them possibly seek a restraining order against you. This guy is a loser and isn't worth it
Move on, If you need to go out with friends and spend time with family but stop dwelling so much on it. Yes again the user below me is correct wailing over the loss of this jerk is not proving anything. Realize that he isn't good for you and find someone else.
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Ok I think you need to take a step back and listen to yourself. Reread the question you just posted. How does reading that make you feel? Is that your true self? Are you really so obsessed with this guy that you're deteriorating into a whiny girl who doesn't see when something good happens to her? I'm not trying to be mean, but I want you to realize how you sound. YOU ARE YOUR OWN PERSON. You do NOT define yourself by your boyfriend.
"i did sooooo much for him, i was a good gf i did soo much but what did he do nothing, even while we were dating he made me miserable"
If this statement is in fact accurate, than I think you have your answer. Why are you so miserable over a guy who's a total jerk?? I understand what it's like to be in love at 15, I really do. But the reality of this is that if he made you miserable while you were together YOU SHOULD NOT HAVE BEEN TOGETHER. You should not let someone else make you miserable and then try to CHANGE yourself to make them more satisfied with you. That is screwed up on many levels.
And then the fact that he now has a girlfriend only a few days after you two broke up proves that he's not worth it! You can't trust him anymore, so why spend the time wallowing in self pity. Go out there and find yourself another guy, girl! A guy WHO ACTUALLY DESERVES YOU.
End this pathetic infatuation and obsession, it doesn't make people feel sorry for you it makes them judge you for not being strong. YOU ARE STRONG. YOU DESERVE BETTER. Don't let him see how this is hurting you, you are your own person. Women are strong. Listen to your friends. They are your support system. And stop stalking him.
You'll get through this.
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