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I don't get why he deleted and blocked me?
So my best guy friend recently got a gf. Ill start from the begining. My bestfriend got us to like eachother....a lot. I soon fell for him, and I think he did for me too. We Did do things (I.e. make-out) and soon after we were telling eachother that we loved eachother. He was the first one to say I love you too me also. So lately I asked him out..he said "I would. Say yes, but i might be going to jail, and I don't want a gf if I go to jail" I said "ok" kissed him, and he walked me home. I knew he also liked another girl along with me. So I'm guessing that either he asked her out, or she asked him..he apparently said yes. He decided to tell me over facebook....here i the conversation. Him:hey, I hve some bad news, me:ok what??, him: I kinda sorta have a girlfriend, me: oh....., him:yea, me:so what now?, him:idk, me:oh wait..let me guess who it is..(the other girl he liked name). He didn't reply, and soon after..he blocked and deleted me from his friends list. I don't understand why though... I don't think i did anything wrong, did I?? Can someone please tell me what is going on??
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The fact there is even a slim chance he may or even may not go to jail is an answer in itself! That plus the fact this guy called and is like - Umm - I sort of kind of have a girlfriend? You sort of kind of have a headache ... Not a girlfriend. You deserve better than this ... I promise!!!
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I'm kind of interested in the jail angle. Is the guy a ratbag or does he think you're young enough that he would face charges if he had sex with you?
Anyway, he probably blocked you because dealing with you while going out with another girl is just too awkward. It's not your fault. It simplifies things for him and is probably for the best. He may regret it later and come back to you and apologize.
Imho, it is possible to love multiple people very much and he may indeed have loved you or even could love you, now. I've been there in my relationships. So just look at it as a thing and keep an open mind because relationships at your age tend to be shortlived.
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You two had feelings for one another, You were friends that made out. Maybe he was your best guy friend but he may of thought of you as a threat to his relationship seeing you had feelings for him. I really couldn't tell you the exact truth to why he blocked you.
Lets nail it down:
May his girlfriend knows about the relationship between you and him? Maybe she felt you were a threat and made him choose? Sometimes girls can be controlling and their jealousy gets the best them of them.
How do you know that she didn't block you?...A lot of girls (especially jealous ones) peek in on their boyfriends page. (I find that to be a sign of insecurity and lack of trust in a relationship) but it happens.
The best thing you could do is maybe just move on, I'm taking some wild guesses to why their is a chance he may of blocked you. If HE blocked you then maybe he felt you would come between his relationship with his new girlfriend and didn't want to take that chance. That is pretty much the only thing I could possibly think of by what you said. Either or, He is avoiding the drama between you and his girlfriend....
Really, If he were a true friend he wouldn't of wiped you out of his life without at least giving you some sort of explanation to why he did so. It was rude, disrespectful of him to drop you high and dry. If I were in your shoes, I'd start to think that maybe his girlfriend had something to do with it.... In the meantime, I would just try and let it go. Confronting could cause more problems and drama and then all the sudden you have his girlfriend giving him all the more reasons to let you go. The guy is likely whipped
Now as far as the "Jail" comment that is by far the lamest excuse I've come by yet. This guy didn't want to date you, He made up an excuse and for some reason choose to pick the lamest one in the book. If he can't be honest and respectful to you then yes...He doesn't deserve you. Really...Don't be too mad because I have a feeling it's only a matter of time before he leaves this girl high and dry as he did you.
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Hm, he probably deleted you to shut you out of his life. It is probably hard for him to be with this girl and still have feelings for you as well; so he figured deleting and blocking you would make things better.
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He deleted you and blocked you because he didn't want you to see the things that were going on between him and his new girlfriend. To me, you didn't do anything wrong.
Him telling you the reason why he doesn't want a girlfriend is because of jail seems like just an excuse to not be with you. Maybe that was his way of letting you down easy. Maybe he did care for you but realized that he didn't care for you in the way he thought he did. Obviously his feelings for you weren't as strong as they were for the other chick, simply because he did pick her. Girls aren't suppose to ask guys out. Its meant for guys to do. When a guy really likes a girl, he will make the move to insist it himself; when a girl does it before the guy gets to, it puts him on the spot; which is probably why he came up with the whole jail excuse.
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well you most likely guessed right and he got touchy feeling about it. maybe he just didn't want you to mad about it so he didn't answer? boys aren't very logical, or mature for that matter so for him blocking you probably seemed like a smart move, he probably wasn't doing it to be mean!
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