17 years old, I've pretty much gone through anything and everything you could possibly think of so don't be afraid to ask me anything! Totally judge free :)
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Location: Maryland
Occupation: school
Age: 17
Member Since: September 26, 2008
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Why is my lip swollen and red and itchy after my boyfriend kisses me ? (link)
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if he has facial hair like my boyfriend the facial hair can irritate skin
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I uploaded a picture of myself to upload3r.com (not to be confused uploader.net) because I wanted to get links so I could link it in my tumblr. Before I uploaded it, there were two options which were 'photo is adult' and 'place in gallery'. Thinking that I did not want my photo to be in the gallery, I clicked photo is adult (though it wasn't. it was just a picture of my face.). Now I'm worried that this picture of my face is in an album with a bunch of adult photos.
Since I selected 'photo is adult', does that mean that my picture will not be placed in the gallery? (link)
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I feel like it was a bad idea to put it in that section seeing as people looking at those kinds of pictures tend to be older and sometimes creepy, and believe it or not people can track that stuff back, to be safe I'd take it down, if you wanted your photo on tumblr just put it on tumblr
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Hi, I'm 14/f and there's a boy in my grade that I have a massive crush on. The problem is, I don't know him all that well. I have talked to him a few times, and he laughed a lot when I told a funny story to the class. The problem is, my psychotic ex boyfriend TOLD him that I like him, to his face, with me standing right there. Most mortifying moment of my life. But anyway, he knows that I like him from that incident and like half of my friends have asked him if he knows me ( which he does.) Will he think I am a complete stalker? Does he think I'm creepy, or is he flattered? I guess I'm kind of pretty, nice, and I have friends... I'm not like a freak. Also, how do I talk to him now?? Won't it seem obvious that the only reason I'm talking to him is because I like him? I only have one class with him (and lunch as well) and I sit across the room from him. How do I talk to him? I get butterflies whenever I'm near him, and I always get scared to talk to him. He's really nice, funny, and a genius! Please help me! I really like him! (link)
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I totally know how you feel, well the only way he'd think you were creepy or stalkerish is if you were like constantly trying to talk to him lol, just start by asking him for his opinion on something you guys are working on in class, or ask for help or to check work, then just make small talk :) maybe a while after that try and message him after school and ask him about classwork, start the small talk again and then say somehting like I gotta go but here's my number, text me :) and if he texts you then you're good :)
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So my best guy friend recently got a gf. Ill start from the begining. My bestfriend got us to like eachother....a lot. I soon fell for him, and I think he did for me too. We Did do things (I.e. make-out) and soon after we were telling eachother that we loved eachother. He was the first one to say I love you too me also. So lately I asked him out..he said "I would. Say yes, but i might be going to jail, and I don't want a gf if I go to jail" I said "ok" kissed him, and he walked me home. I knew he also liked another girl along with me. So I'm guessing that either he asked her out, or she asked him..he apparently said yes. He decided to tell me over facebook....here i the conversation. Him:hey, I hve some bad news, me:ok what??, him: I kinda sorta have a girlfriend, me: oh....., him:yea, me:so what now?, him:idk, me:oh wait..let me guess who it is..(the other girl he liked name). He didn't reply, and soon after..he blocked and deleted me from his friends list. I don't understand why though... I don't think i did anything wrong, did I?? Can someone please tell me what is going on?? (link)
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well you most likely guessed right and he got touchy feeling about it. maybe he just didn't want you to mad about it so he didn't answer? boys aren't very logical, or mature for that matter so for him blocking you probably seemed like a smart move, he probably wasn't doing it to be mean!
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Whats the inside scoop on the University of Maryland-College Park? How is the spirit there? How's the hype for games? How's the night life? I know that the education is what I want in a university, but I'm not sure if the "fun" factor is all there. Pros? Cons? Thanks (link)
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UMD is amazing and CP is the best parties! seriously, my friend goes there and she loves it! says the people are really fun, the games are HUGE, face paint, tail gating and everything you'll love it!!
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hi, lately i have been having alot of really bad headaches and takin alot of pain relievers. what could this mean by me having to many headaches, sometimes i get one twice a day but i usually have one everyday and they are really bad. also how can i prevent or relieve them with out taking any medicine. any advice would help. female/ 17 (link)
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So pretty much since it's summer you're probably suffering from the same thing I am. They're called heat induced headaches. In a nut shell the heat is stressing your body causing you to get these headaches. I've tried everything and I've found what works best is drinking ALOT of water :/ hope this helps
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i am 17 years old and just fount out i was pregnant, my doctor told me some things but can you tell me some safety precautions i should take while being pregnant. i live in florida and it is really got. also i am only 7 weeks pregnant. any advice will help. (link)
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don't eat too much unhealthy food, umm the basics, lol dont drink or smoke. even one drink of alcohol can affect your baby permanently. also walking is good but dont workout too much in the heat as you could easily pass out and hurt your baby. other than that just live your life :) good luck with your pregnancy
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Okay so I am a flyer. I do straight up extended libs... And thy are very solid. But when I go to pull something... The stunt just collapses pretty much. I don't know if my bases are scared or me? It use to not be like that but that was about 8 months ago. My hip keeps dropping throwing me off balance... And when I pull a heel stretch I heel and a scorpion I toe. Pleaseeeee give me tips on how I can be more solid and more balanced and just pull stuff easier!!! Thank you sooooo muchhh!!!! I really need your help! (link)
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have you tried getting a front spot for scorpians or heel stretches? for our competition we got one and it made the stunt solid. with a front spot it's virtually impossible to toe.
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How do you fly a double down? I am a flyer about 90 lbs and next year try want us to have double down, or very close to it. I don't have a stunt team to practice with right now so how can I practice a double down without anyone lifting me in the air. And how do I do one? I have no idea I feel like I'll move all over the place. I know to stay tight but are there any tricks I can do that will help me stay tight or make it very easy? And how do I single down from a scorpion, heel stretch and scale? Any tricks and big tips? Thank you soooo much! I'll rate answers! :) (link)
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Hey girl! So I'm assuming you gave a full? Pretty much to do a double down you do the same thing. Don't turn your hips! Whip your arms behind you. Or hands in your back pockets as my coach says. Chin tucked into your shoulder a you'll spin :) the harder you whip it the more you spin so whip it hard! Also practice on a tramp or a bed even! Jump really high up and once you reach the top of your jump withh a high V whip it down like a full and land on your back
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Hello I am a 13 year old girl. I am 5'5 and I weigh about 150lbs. I honestly think I am very fat and I am not very active! What are some ways I can loose weight? (link)
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well your not fat haha im that height and im 16 and weiigh a little less than that. but if you want to loose weight make sure you eat breakffast! sounds odd but breakfast powers you up and keeps you going! also drop junk foods. walking actually burns more calories than running so do that! theres actually some treddmiles that tell you how many calories you have burned while walking maybe you could find one at a local gym? or even if you have one lol i mean your only 13 i wuldnt worry about it too much!
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well im 18, and ive always been attracted to girls in a physical way but never had a crush on them or anything. ive been hooking up with girls since i was 15 but ive only dated guys and been in love with guys. lately theres this girl that ive been hooking up with just when we get drunk and want some fun, but im starting to get feelings for her. Shes one of my best friends so i love and care about her a lot and weve always hooked up and done pretty much everything there is to do. Shes fingered me, ate me out, all that stuff. We usually only hooked up when we were drunk but the other night we were completely sober and did it. i really like her, and i get jealous when she talks to other guys. I know shes hooked up with other girls before but she claims not to have feelings for girls like that. She calls me her girlfriend to everyone and we hookup all the time, yet she still keeps talking to other guys and even was dating one while we were hooking up and stuff. My question is, do you think she likes me like that? enough to be in a relationship with me? since she said she didnt like girls like that, ive been telling her the same thing, so now im too afraid to tell her how i really feel about her. truth is, i love this girl and i wanna be with her. i just dont know if she feels the same and i dont wanna tell her because shes my best friend and i dont wanna ruin that if she doesnt feel the same way about me. (link)
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actually it sounds like she might be scared to be in a relationship with a girl because she is scared of what others may think. I dont want to say she's a homophobe because that sounds a little extreme but do other people know she likes girls? i mean maybe she hasn't come out? or maybe shes scared of being in a relationship with a girl for the first time? alot of girls find comfort in guys because they're bigger, and stronger and provide more protection so maybe thats it?
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Ok,so I've been dating my boyfriend for almost a week,I know not long at all.But we've known each other since september and last night when we were at the movies he asked what I wanted for valentines day.
I told him I wasn't sure,and that if I got something he had to get something too.He said he didn't want anything and that he'd just surprise me,but I want to get him something!
The problem is he's very mysterious and no one knows much about him,out of ALL the people he hangs out with and he hangs out with almost everyone.
I know he's into working out,since he does almost everyday he likes music alot too.
His style,well he doesn't really have a specific one he dresses in a emo style one day,then preppy the next.I have no clue what to get him since he's so mysterious! I don't know if he likes cologne or anything like that since he always smells good anyway? I just don't know what to get him so if anyone has a idea on something I could possibly get him it'd be appriciated,thanks in advance! (link)
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Get him a jar and fill it with hersheys and give it a label that says "kisses" that's always cute!
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i'm 18/f, weighing about 106 pounds. i'm 5'6" and have a BMI of 17.1. needless to say, i'm underweight. i want to have a child someday soon, my boyfriend and i are moving in together at the end of the summer. (we'll be done with highschool and we are both employed, if you're wondering) i'm beginning to think my lack of body fat and low nutrition may foil my chances to carry a baby. i took a test and i'm fertile enough, i just don't believe my body is strong enough.
the problem with this is, i eat EVERYTHING. what i want, when i want. no matter the calories, it doesn't affect my weight. does anyone know a good way to gain a few extra pounds? i wouldn't know what else to do except eat, but that doesn't do anything. thanks (link)
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well eating whatever you want whenever you want will most likely MAKE you unhealthy. Eat 4 meals a day with your meats and veggies and fruit and you should be fine! if your that worried about it than you can always ask a nutritionist. :)
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Okay, I'm sorry if this is long, or complicated I just need some advice. So I guess I'll start from the beginning then:
So it started in fall of 2009. I met this incredible guy on facebook... ( family friend knew him, not a complete stranger or anything) We didn't talk or anything, maybe comment on each others status's occasionally and then birthday's. Then I had some health problems and he was really nice during it. So a while passed and summer began. Around June we started talking a LOT .. like all the time just about anything. Then in the end of June we started dating. Again talked ALL the time about absolutly everything, our future, each other. It was amazing. We visited each other and everything.
Well apparently his mom found some of our IMs that she didn't approve of and I will admit we did mess up and talked a little to much about somethings we shouldn't. She doesn't like me, thinks I listen to bad music and that I'm a bad influence on him.
Now we get a limited time to talk, like it even matters because she reads everything!!! I feel like I'm talking to her. I can't talk about my music, or school, or heck no on our future. Idk what to do. Its so frustrating. I Love him but I just don't know if I can do this much longer... what would you do, or what do you suggest for me to do.. please I am so confused (link)
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Well you need to honestly talk to her! I know it sounds impossible but you need to tell her how you feel! Tell her you love her son and that your sorry she disapproves but her son loves you for you! You shouldn't have to change! Tell her how you make her son happy and that she wouldn't want to take that away from him! You can't help it! The heart wants what the heart wants you know?
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23/f
I don't even know where to start. I was in an abusive relationship with a man I thought I'd marry, until he hurt me. He stopped me from running away from him by grabbing my throat from behind and tossing me in the opposite direction...so I have whiplash, and maybe a disk problem. Now I wake up every day in severe neck and back pain, and sometimes it's just really difficult to convince myself to keep going.
Don't worry, I'm not suicidal. I'm just severely unmotivated, to the point that I forget to eat, have no appetite, want to do nothing but sleep and cuddle my cat, and feel uncomfortable out of my apartment for more than a couple of hours.
I have a job, and I love my job, but the pain is making it so difficult recently...people depend on me, and I find myself not caring, which is wholly unlike me.
I'm seeing a pain management specialist and I've had procedures done, I'm on pain medication and antidepressants, and I just...I don't know.
Anyone have any words of encouragement? I just...need a kind word or two... :(
Thanks to all who respond. (link)
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LjhCEhWiKXk&feature=list_related&playnext=1&list=ML4oVf-d_DwKD7lKxMaM9BhaKoAHYS9IQ7
http://www.poemhunter.com/poem/because-you-re-beautiful/
cheer up :)
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Okay, I need some advice about my situation. I want to send it to someone so its private, is there anyone who has experience in a long distant relationship?
Thanks (link)
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i have :)
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okay so I'm 16, almost 17 in 4 months. my boyfriend is 15, i am a year and one month older than him. he is in the 9th grade and im in the 11th (he was held back a year lol. its not as bad as it sounds.) we are both virgins, and i told him that i wanted to wait. it will almost be 6 months on prom, but im still wanting to wait. ive learned recently that waiting is a very good thing haha. but i want to just spend time with him. i want it to be sweet, romantic, and fun. i want him to have a good time. i have a best friend that he absolutely hates but i was going to see if we could go in on a beachouse together. i just dont know though. i want to spend it with some friends as well because i would not be able to pay for it all. i think the more the merrier, but i also wanted to spend it with him. so i was thinking of a bechhouse. the problem is he hates my bestfriend and if he goes (since he is still only 15) his step mom (who is always up his butt) says she will go to shaparone. honestly its my junior year, im almost 17....i do not need a stick in the mud chaparone and idt it would be fun for whoever else is with me either. also EVERYONE will be at the beach. ANOTHER problem we have is we live in walterboro SC. there is absolutely no good hotels here to hang out and spend the night at. we cant go and spend the night and have an afterparty at somones house because none of our parents are really THAT generous haha. i looked on the internet for ideas and it said camping, well i mean that is a good idea i just want it to be cozy though and stuff and walterboro or anywhere near is just sort of...gross. we cant rent a cabin bc there really isnt a cabin to rent. there arent that great of hotels here. also, i know we might go out to eat somewhere, i just dont want that to be it though. we need shelter!! i just need as many ideas as you can think of. also, i need help on the whole my boyfriends step mom situation. like if you were the stepmom you would like to know that everything will be okay. but how am i supposed to prove it to her or something. just help me out with that situation too please. MANY IDEAS AS YOU COULD THINK OF PLEASE! bc my brain is fried haha. thank you!! (link)
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me and my friends went lazer tagging. i know it sounds really nerdy but it was so much fun haha we went in our dresses and heels and everything which made for awesome pictures and great memories it was great! ask me about any other questions you may have :)
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Hi I have darker blue eyes, not like bright blue. I am white lol but I dont have super tan skin just normal. How can I
make my eyes pop? what kind of makeup and colors and brands work best? I also have lightish brown hair some dark streeks here and there lol. Please help!! :) (link)
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haha your just like me! exactly like me actually! use light brown eye shadow and then a darker brown eye shadow as liner! it makes my eyes pop! also use purples they make your eyes like darker and more mysterious! dont use blues or greens they wash your eyes out but deffinitley use BROWN. you can also look up "makeup tutorials for blue eyes" on
http://youtube.com and it will give you plenty of options :)
hope i helped :D
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I am 14 and I have had only one girlfriend so far. I am from argentina, and I would like you to tell me (specially girls) what is a good way to find someone I like (there isnt anyone at school who I like), and how to be a good BF if I find someone.
(btw, I am male) (link)
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well first of all your only 14 haha you have many years ahead of you to find a girl friend. have you personally met and talked to every single girl at your school? and you never know, looks may be decieving. the girl that YOU think looks mean and cranky may actually be the girl your destined to be with so give it a shot and if not like i said before. your only 14. wait till you graduate im sure there are new girls to come :)
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okay sooooo Ive been going out with this guy and I really like him.This morning he was great and all loving holding hands and kissing and then after 3rd hour today he told me he needed to clear his head (something was off about him). Some time alone. And asked if we can be friends for right now. I said we could. And he said thanks. So I dont know if that means he doesnt like me. Or hes not sure, or what
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i think he still likes you. a guy wouldn't typically act all lovey in the morning and then decide he doesn't like you. i think he problley just has alot on his mind and doesn't want to have to deal with a gf at the moment. give him some time. check up on him make sure hes okay. and i mean if you get really curious you could always just ask him if he still likes you ;)
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