Hi, I'm 14/f and there's a boy in my grade that I have a massive crush on. The problem is, I don't know him all that well. I have talked to him a few times, and he laughed a lot when I told a funny story to the class. The problem is, my psychotic ex boyfriend TOLD him that I like him, to his face, with me standing right there. Most mortifying moment of my life. But anyway, he knows that I like him from that incident and like half of my friends have asked him if he knows me ( which he does.) Will he think I am a complete stalker? Does he think I'm creepy, or is he flattered? I guess I'm kind of pretty, nice, and I have friends... I'm not like a freak. Also, how do I talk to him now?? Won't it seem obvious that the only reason I'm talking to him is because I like him? I only have one class with him (and lunch as well) and I sit across the room from him. How do I talk to him? I get butterflies whenever I'm near him, and I always get scared to talk to him. He's really nice, funny, and a genius! Please help me! I really like him!
Girlie14 answered Tuesday November 29 2011, 8:13 pm: I totally know how you feel, well the only way he'd think you were creepy or stalkerish is if you were like constantly trying to talk to him lol, just start by asking him for his opinion on something you guys are working on in class, or ask for help or to check work, then just make small talk :) maybe a while after that try and message him after school and ask him about classwork, start the small talk again and then say somehting like I gotta go but here's my number, text me :) and if he texts you then you're good :) [ Girlie14's advice column | Ask Girlie14 A Question ]
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