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Superficial criticism error :/ (lip)
I've been seeing a girl who I really enjoy being around for a few months now. Prior to that we had a history of close togetherness and were nearly inseparable. I recognize that I've found a rarity in life and I love being around her. So getting to the point, I told her that when we kiss, her upper lip tickles a little bit because of the little bit of fuz on it. I asked her if there was anything that could be done to fix it and things went downhill fast. In retrospect, it was an awful request to make, especially given her sensitivity. I thought it was justified as she gives pretty explicit instructions on how I should shave my face. Anyway, I feel pretty bad about it, and she definitely feels worse. Is there anything I can do to help us reconcile? Or do I just need to shut the hell up and wait it out?
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That's awful..
I would just tell you to make sure she knows she is beautiful and whether its there or not you still love her.. and it doesn't change how you feel.. but you were just being honest with her and "would she like if you didn't say anything at all.. or helped her out in the long run." It probably only really hurt her feeling was because she was embarrassed and feels stupid, for not doing anything about it, and out of all people you tell her to do something about it.. Just let her know how you feel and she is beautiful no matter what..
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