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I had a dream that I got pregnant by another girl. I know this is not possible but its buggin me out. I know the girl we go to church together. Shes cool but I kinda dont like her because shes been messing around with a guy I have a crush on even though hes just playing her and they will never be in a relationship but I try to be nice to her despite how I feel. This dream is crazy what could it mean? (link)
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I have been searching all around the internet for awhile trying to figure this out, but I just can't. I don't get answers that are detailed enough.

To add a page, I know I go to Customize > Pages > Add page or whatever, but I'm lost from there.

I tried to make an FAQ for my Tumblr, and for the link I wrote "FAQ", Kept it at Standard Layout, wrote my page title FAQ, and wrote my FAQ in the body. I saved, but when I went to the URL (www(DOT)mytumblr(dot)com/FAQ, it said the URL I request does not exist or something like that.

So PLEASE, somebody help me understand how to do this and give me detailed explanations on how to create a *FAQ, personal pictures (Picture of myself), and 'other links'(A page of links to other blogs I run/any social networking page*.

This is driving me nuts, thanks! (link)
You need a new layout..



go to your page> customize > and if your new layout allows the new pages it will come up as "LINK 1" LINK 1 TITLE"
I personally like the layouts from "pandor4"

If you need more information follow me: everythingiwantandallineed.tumblr.com


There is this guy I like and I thought he seemed interested in me to but as I'm now realizing he talks to many other girls too. He calls and texts me a lot but I'm not the only one. Maybe I'm over reacting but I don't like that. I don't want to waste my time if he's just going after everyone. What would you do? (link)
Talk to him about it.. you can't fix a problem without confrontation..


I found out I have clamydia I think I have had it for 4 months without knowing. I took medicine my doc prescribed (one dosage) and it has been one week since then...I still have symptoms they even appear to have worsened. Is this normal how much longer will it take to clear up? please help (link)
Consult your doctor..



how to turn my 15 year old boyfriend on so he will kiss me (link)
Make sure you guys are completely comfortable around eachother..

Kiss his neck leading up to his lips, It really works(:

Just find out what he likes.. talking is the key

Goodluck, (:


I've been seeing a girl who I really enjoy being around for a few months now. Prior to that we had a history of close togetherness and were nearly inseparable. I recognize that I've found a rarity in life and I love being around her. So getting to the point, I told her that when we kiss, her upper lip tickles a little bit because of the little bit of fuz on it. I asked her if there was anything that could be done to fix it and things went downhill fast. In retrospect, it was an awful request to make, especially given her sensitivity. I thought it was justified as she gives pretty explicit instructions on how I should shave my face. Anyway, I feel pretty bad about it, and she definitely feels worse. Is there anything I can do to help us reconcile? Or do I just need to shut the hell up and wait it out? (link)
That's awful..
I would just tell you to make sure she knows she is beautiful and whether its there or not you still love her.. and it doesn't change how you feel.. but you were just being honest with her and "would she like if you didn't say anything at all.. or helped her out in the long run." It probably only really hurt her feeling was because she was embarrassed and feels stupid, for not doing anything about it, and out of all people you tell her to do something about it.. Just let her know how you feel and she is beautiful no matter what..


Ok so my I have this best friend lets call her Lala right and ive known her for 7 years and she has this older brother lets call him Derik and Derik is 18 now so ive liked him for 7 years straight I mean its not a crush its love I know its so chessey but like when I found out that the 1first time he had sex I like cried or his first girl friend I cried and this kid isn’t like a normal kid he has bi polar disorder and now he has a girlfriend named skyller not only are the getting really serious but they are planning on buying an apartment gush how about if they get married like when I found out I cried so hard I wanted to punch babies so I get to meet this skank in a weeks or two because Lala and Derik’s mom just got remarried to this rich guy and they are having a HUGEE party at their house and guess who is going to be there skyler and I’ve already told derik that I love him and I had a positive response but what am I supposed to do when I meet her because he really wants me to meet her what should I do or say should I be mean and try to kill her ?? or just play fake but I hate being fake see I have this theory that if you don’t like someone then don’t act fake to their face and pretend to to like them you should tell them to get off your dick right away!! But yes what should I do??\ (link)
Look at the bright side, maybe it won't happen.. never give up on love but if it wasn't meant to be than it wasn't meant to be.. Just act cool because if you TRULY love him, you would want him to be truly happy correct.?
Goodluck, (:


16,f

alright ive never had a boyfriend and i mean
im not ashamed of that, ive only madeout
with two guys and done other stuff, well
just like touching but nothing else! im stil
a virgin. being single is fun..MOST OF THE TIME..
i kinda like this guy but he has a girlfriend
i try to forget him but i always go for the wrong
ones and everyone says im too picky. i mean..
i think i am sometimes, but i just want the
right one and i dont want my heart to get broken
by some jerk who just wants to use me.
ive heard alot of different boys think im hot but alot of them are younger like one or two years, but i get along so good with
them and im soo comfortable around them. i feel soo selfless though i mean why cant i get a guy the same age as me or older? am i not good enough, whats wrong with me? this is what i think all the time..no guy has ever asked me out
and everyone is always soo shocked because everyone
tells me how gorgeous i am and they're like are
you serious..you never had a boyfriend? and im
like yep, and they're like oh my god! woww...
why your so pretty i mean you could get like
any guy. i dont think im too picky, i just dont
go for every guy that walks by me. i do have some
flaws that bug me and that im self-conscious about
like my NOSE. =\ im a huuuuge flirt. but im not
annoying about it. i just dont know what im doing
wrong! all the guys ive like in the past have had
girlfriends, but yet they still flirt with me
when im around them. we're still friends because i love hanging out with him, but it just reminds
me of how much i like him. i just have the worst
luck with guys. im not really that shy, im pretty
outgoing. im not gonna change anything about me
just for one person. but to me, i think im a
normal teenage girl. alot of people say their jealous but i dont know what they're talking about
i mean im not conceited, but i do have alot of
confidence. i dont know. what can i do!? me and
my friends always go out, but NEVER any luck

well thank you so much (link)
1. don't worry about having a boyfriend so much, that is perfect.. you have so much more to look at in life, school will get you farther than a little mindless boy. In high school they just want to get in your pants.. trust me. I am there
2. Not all guys are perfect and don't look at their flaws so much.. but never deny that they are mean to you, it will get you depressed and vulnerable for emotional destruction.
Goodluck, (:


(((13/f)) Even though im only 13 I have a lot of trust issues with boys. And because of that its soemtimes hard to open up to guys and show my true feelings.
I really like this guy named Even. I mean hes sweet funny and totally cute. ((im short)) People alwys seem to make funn of me because of my size i always get mad but when he dos it I laugh so hard. He doesnt say it rude hes trying to be funny ((and he is)) But I realy want to be more than just friends what should I do? (link)
I have the same issue, and it is hard.. just tell him how you feel no matter how hard it is, honesty will get you farther with guys, be confident and embrace your shortness.


I HAVE HAD LIKE 3 BOYFRIENDS. MY 1ST ONE WAS LIKE A REALLY CLOSE FRIEND BUT NUTHING BETWEEN US HAPPEND.MY SECOND ONE CHEATED ON HIS GIRL WITH ME AND ALL WE DID WAS HOLD HANDS ALL THE TIME AND WE WOULD JUST KISS EACH OTHER ON THE CHECK. I ONLY STAYED WITH HIM FOR LIKE 3 WEEKS THEN WE BROKE UP.MY LAST BOYFRIEND WAS AWSOME WE STAYED TOGETHER FOR 2 MONTHS...BUT WE JUST TALKED ON THE PHONE THE WHOLE TIME THEN WE BROKE UP.NOW I WANT A BOYFRIEND BUT ALL THE GUYS AT MY SCHOOL ARENT MY TYPE.ILL GET TO THE POINT. HOW DO I KISS A BOY ON THE LIPS? HOW DO I KEEP A RELATIONSHIP GOING WITHOUT BIENG SO SHY? AND HOW DO GUYS WANNA BE TREATED? please help me out (link)
1. Kissing doesn't just happen, you kinda gotta just talk to whoever you wanna kiss and maybe they have had experience with kissing before. Then it will be less scary.
2. You can't really fix being shy.. it is just who you are around guys but if you want a guy to like who you truly are then show him who you truly are and if he doesn't like it.. well then he wasn't worth it anyway because you will find out being more comfortable with another guy and he will be there for you always. Just patience is the key.
3. Guys want to be treated as if they mean something. Find out about the guy and what he looks for in a girl.. guys can be just as sensitive as girls..




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