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Wastg my time?
There is this guy I like and I thought he seemed interested in me to but as I'm now realizing he talks to many other girls too. He calls and texts me a lot but I'm not the only one. Maybe I'm over reacting but I don't like that. I don't want to waste my time if he's just going after everyone. What would you do?
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Talk to him about it.. you can't fix a problem without confrontation..
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It seems to me that there are two options for you. Firstly, you could try ignoring him for a while. He'll miss talking to you and realize that he likes you. However, he could view this as you being immature instead of concerned. On the other hand, you could try having a rational and even-minded conversation with him. Tell him that you think you're starting to like him and see what he says. If he feels the same way, then talk to him about this problem. Don't' accuse him of anything or take a hostile tone with him, though. Just keep it cool and make sure your intentions are clear. Good luck.
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If he isn't your boyfriend you don't own him and he doesn't owe you anything. Relax and either ask him out or stop being such a control freak.
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OMG! I thought you were me!!
I feel so the same RIGHT this very moment.. am sad too....
well, we do deserve exclusivity and all the attention of a wonderful guy, if he wants to "play the field" then let him, our prince charming will come soon before we even know it, meanwhile we have to be busy and happy with other activities to get over this jerk....
Just think of him as a friend with no future... you dont know when you will need him or what but do NOT EXPECT anything good will happen with you two because IM WARNING YOU if you do become boyfriend-girlfriend, he WILL TILL be entertaining other girls because he is used to this!! and who will be devastated ? YOU! and we dont want that! so take it easy, let him be and keep busy... it will be ok, we will be fine!!! :) you can tell me how it goes..dont hesitate to write back!
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It sounds like he's not looking for a girlfriend or to be exclusive with anyone. Sounds like he's talking to a lot of girls incase he gets rejected by one. I would move on and find someone that wants to be with you and only you.
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If you want a guy that will show his interest in you and only you then you will have to find someone who is interested in only you. Like Jasmine said below this guy is a player, Most definitely not a suitable loyal partner. You want a real relationship then find a real man.
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First instinct. Major player. I mean yes he might be interested in you. But He's also interested in alot of other girls. I agree with previous advicer he definetly does not seem to be boyfriend material.
if he wanted to be with you. He would be with you.
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I'd let him go as a boyfriend material type of guy. He obviously isn't ready to be tied down. He's enjoying talking to other girls. If you feel like he may like you, bring it to his attention; if that doesn't work than that will show you that his intentions are far more different than yours.
I hate it when guys waste a girls time. They could have the respect to let a girl know "it aint like that". But they don't. He's only keeping you as "another girl", wouldn't you rather be "that girl", "his girl"?
You know what you need to do, and I agree its the right thing. Don't waste your precious time anymore than you already have! Your too good for his games!
Good Luck!
If you need anything else, don't heistate to send me a message to my inbox!<3
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