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Ok, well this guy and I just started going out. I like him so much and he likes me too obviously. Well we've only been going out for a day. Today at school I acted all weird. I mean I like him a lot but he makes me shy. I didn't talk to him much and tried to avoid him a little. I really want us to work out as a couple. What do you guys think I should do in order to not be shy and talk to him and such. I have had boyfriends so its not like I'm stupid, this guy just makes me shy like no other boyfriend has. Thanks :)

awwww I have that problem!It's only cause you like him so much and you don't want to do anything that might put him off! There's really no instant cure, you just have to give it some time. After a while the novelty of a new bf will wear off and you'll become more relaxed. Just act like he's one of your regular friends and I swear it'll work out ok!

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hey does anybody know how to edit information u put in when u registered like occupation, age , email, and all that other stuff? thanks for the help!

yeah, you go to 'profile settings' and change the info you want to change.

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is there any way that you can delete a guestion from your my guestions link?

nope sorry.

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okay so im 13 goin out with this boy 13 aswell. ive been goin out with him for about a week and i just broke the news to my mom that im dating him. well this is really the first time i told my mom about n e of my boyfriends and she took it fine. its just that i dont knoe how to ask her if i can go out on a date with him. i mean i dont really even have n e ideas for a date. it doesnt even have to b one on one it could just b a trip to the mall or a local foot ball game but its weird i dont knoe how to talk to my mom about these kinds of things. please help me out and give me maybe an idea for a date (parent aprovel) and a way to ask my mom and dad if i can go threw with the date.

thnx ill apreciate it

Ok. How to tell your mum:
Just slip into the conversation that you're going out with (whatever his name is) on (whenever you're going out) to (wherever you're going) Make it as casual as possible and don't make a big thing of it, it'll make it easier trust me. If she doesn't want to you go, arrange a comprimise like, if she takes you and picks you up at a certain time you know?

As for problem two:
Good ideas are bowling, cinema is ok but not good if you want to talk, go and get a pizza, the mall, sports games, a picnic can be fun too.

Hope I helped ;) let me know how it all goes! xxx

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Ok theres this boy and we hooked up BUT now hes like I like this other girl better then u HOW do I get over him?

very easily. This guy can't have been worth it can he? I mean, look at it this way, if you'd stayed together, it would've been pretty miserable wouldn't it??? If you think of it that way it'll make it more bearable, I know it's hard but in the long run it'll probably be for the best.

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how long should a tampon be worn? I have herd that they should be worn for 4 to 8 hours but my friend told me that as long as you change it within 24 hours you'll be good. Which is the true answer?

4-8 hours is best but you aren't at risk of TSS unless you leave it more than 24 hours.

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Hi , um i have music in my webpage and it just stopped playing so i tried putting the code back in and now the box that plays the music wont even come up does anyone have any other sites i can use ?

This site has banned music from columns, something to do with codes and security I think :(

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How long does a girl have her period? like how many days?

It varys but it's usually between 2-8 days. Sometimes it's longer and sometimes it is shorter, it depends on the girl. Hope I helped :)

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Well, I'm 13. I just got my boyfriend
only about 5 days ago. And we just met each
other about 3 weeks ago. We really like each
other. Already, we went to a Football game
and people were chanting us to kiss...and
we did 4 times. I think we're rushing, but
I don't want to hurt anything between us. Though
I know he'll probably be fine with it if I tell him how I feel...I just can't get the guts to. What should I do?

-Mystie

I am in the same situation. It really sucks and all you can do is say you're going too fast. If he can't accept that then he's not right for you, if he does then he's worth it. I know it's hard but seriously it is the only way.

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Ok, so this year I just started highschool and I love it. I'm making alot of new friends, and people are starting to like me more. But there is this guy. I like him alot, he's a senior. And he is popular. we are friends but i like him alot. I want to get to know him more but i dont know how. we have one class together and we talk alot but i just want to know how to become good friends with him

My advice to you is to keep on talking to him and getting to know him til you have a really strong relationship. Just act like he's any other new friend. Do you fancy him? If yes then once you get to know each other you can try to work out if he feels the same.

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My friend is always feeling really bad about herself. Were only 14 but she thinks that there is something wrong with her because she has never been asked out or had a real boyfriend. She's always jealous of other people. I keep telling her that she can't focus on what everybody else has that she doesn't or what other people can do better than her. I try to tell her that there are so many good things about her, but she won't listen. It's frustrating to me because I want her to see what everybody else sees, a funny, creative, beautiful girl. I told her to stop feeling sorry for herself. What do I do to make her feel better about herself? How can I help her to love herself?

I know exactly how this girl feels. I have an INCREDBLY low self esteem and I always find fault in myself and I find it really hard to take a compliment. Sound familiar? What I'd do if I was you, is take her on a shopping trip and get her to try on stuff that she wouldn't usually wear and things like that. Make sure you compliment her on her choices but be honest if something doesn't look right only don't be too harsh. OR. You could go to a beauty parlour together and get your nails/hair/make up done together. Once she sees herself in a new light, she'll be more happy with herself. I promise this will work. Keep me posted. xxx

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i only eat icecream about once a week. whenever i have it i get diarrhea. why is this?

You probably just have a reaction to ice cream. I get it sometimes if I eat lots of chocolate, you should go and see a doctor just to make sure there's nothing wrong.

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Well the other day one of my very close friends told me that she was a lezbo i mean lyk i totally support that n all but i feel wierd what should i do?

Well if you support her, then you just carry on as normal, being a lesbian doesn't affect your friendship in any way.

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ok about 3 months ago i begged my parents to let me get a hamster...they sed ya...so i got one and ive tooken really good care of it..no problems...well i hav a big enuf cage and i decided i want to get a female hamster n let them mate so i can make them have babies...my mom sed i hav to look into it to make sure its ok n stuff bc she thinks its nasty (she hates rodents) does ne 1 kno ne websites about breeding? also...how do ilet them mate..like will they attack eachother if i buy a female?/..i gues the websites will explain but idk ne websites...ne 1 kno any websites? or has ne 1 did this?

breeding hamsters is very very tricky. They probably wont fight but it has to be the right time of the month. When the babies are born, you have to leave them alone THIS IS VITAL. A first time mother may eat her babies. Here is a good detailed website you could use, http://www.petwebsite.com/hamster_breeding.htm, hope I helped out a bit,

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A boy deep kissed(first kiss) me and i am very paranoid about catch HIV through kissing, but should i be worried?

you can't catch HIV through kissing, only through sex.

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This may sound pretty gross, but I'm 12 and I masterbate. I just use my fingers and I don't finger myself, but I haven't gotten my period yet. Does this mean I did something that'll make it so I don't ever get my period, or will I get it and does masterbating mess my "lower parts" up if I just use my fingers?

Sorry if this is really gross I just really need to know, and Mods please don't delete this I'm very concerned...

No and No! It wont affect periods or mess up your lower parts, stop worrying!

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umm.. dont think im stupid for asking this but i just wanna be safe and sure. if a girl is on birth control, does the guy still need to wear a condom wen they do it?

yes because there is still a risk of catching a STI.

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hi, i need help. I have so much trouble paying attention. If Im very interested its easier but with some things i try so hard to stay focused but i just end up getting spaced out. I also have trouble absorbing information. Like when i read its like im not really reading... like theres a wall between my brain and the book. I get spaced out when i read... especially things i dont understand, like fantasy. I just failed my first test in high skool bcuz of it and it really sux what should i do?
thanx

Well, if you're in class and the teacher is giving a lecture or talking about something etc, take notes so that later on you can go over it as many times as you like til it sinks in. When you absolutely HAVE to focus then try to get involved in the discussion by adding your points of view. Everytime you start to drift, stop yourself and tell yourself to focus (you will if you really want to-believe me.) As for reading, when you go off into a daydream try to stop yourself then just read over the bit you missed again til it sinks in. You can do it if you really try. good luck

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okay.. whats the difference in making out.. and french kissing and normal kissing? sorry... but i honestly dont know..

i rate

making out is when you kiss ALOT it's usually french kissing. french kissing is when you use toungues. And normal kissing is just, normal!

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I really really like this guy but when he found out my fealings he sed he wanted me only as a friend cuz he wanted to get someone "fresh" when he gets in high school... but i've liked him since 2 grade or even befor that! he's really one of my best buds.i know how he feels but if i see him with someone else.. omg i dunno what i'll do! is there some way i can get him to like me?.. some way he could change his mind!?? help please!

Sometimes, somethings happen that aren't meant to be. It seems like you and this guy just weren't made for each other. If you're friends with him then great but don't ruin the friendship by trying for something that isn't going to happen. Take a deep breath, hold your head high and move on. I know it's going to be hard cause you've liked him for so long but your not giving yourself to meet new people if you let yourself stay in the past. So get out there and find someone who will really make you happy.

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