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first REAL bf
okay so im 13 goin out with this boy 13 aswell. ive been goin out with him for about a week and i just broke the news to my mom that im dating him. well this is really the first time i told my mom about n e of my boyfriends and she took it fine. its just that i dont knoe how to ask her if i can go out on a date with him. i mean i dont really even have n e ideas for a date. it doesnt even have to b one on one it could just b a trip to the mall or a local foot ball game but its weird i dont knoe how to talk to my mom about these kinds of things. please help me out and give me maybe an idea for a date (parent aprovel) and a way to ask my mom and dad if i can go threw with the date.
thnx ill apreciate it
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If you're going out with him and your Mom doesn't have a problem with it I think that a first date should be going out with a bunch of friends. Go roller blading or to some place public with alot of people around. And go with friends so you have someone to talk to when your boy goes to get a drink or to the bathroom or something. Make sure your friends don't mind a co-op date as well. And if you have friends in relationships, a whole bunch of you should go on your date. Like a multi-date. It'd be fun. Hope this helped you out.
-Sam
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Ok. How to tell your mum:
Just slip into the conversation that you're going out with (whatever his name is) on (whenever you're going out) to (wherever you're going) Make it as casual as possible and don't make a big thing of it, it'll make it easier trust me. If she doesn't want to you go, arrange a comprimise like, if she takes you and picks you up at a certain time you know?
As for problem two:
Good ideas are bowling, cinema is ok but not good if you want to talk, go and get a pizza, the mall, sports games, a picnic can be fun too.
Hope I helped ;) let me know how it all goes! xxx
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WEll just tell your mom that you want to go to the movies or something with your boyfriend and ask her if she can take you and everything and let her meet him too! She will understand and probably let you if you talk to her. Moms usually take the whole dating thing better than dads. Dads are more protective about that kind of stuff!
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its no big deal. nothing is really serious at only 13. just goto the movies, tell your mom youre going up to the game with a couple of friends and itll go fine.
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I was in the same situation two weeks ago.((first date)) My boyfriend asked me to the movies and I wanted to go so what I did was I typed her a letter on the computer asking her if I could go. She talked to my bf online for a minute to find out movie times and stuff but she said yes so try writing her a letter so that you do not have to say what you want to ask her to her face and at least this way you can't say that you didn't ask her.
Good Luck
*-*Haleigh Ann*-*
P.S. If you need more advice just IM me on AIM/AOL xbabyxcherryx91x
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Hiya hun....well just tell your mom up straight that you like this guy and im going to go out with him and why dont you just ask your mom if you can go on a date with him...and if she says yes...go to a pg 13 movie...hope i helped<3
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