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Boyfriend.
Well, I'm 13. I just got my boyfriend
only about 5 days ago. And we just met each
other about 3 weeks ago. We really like each
other. Already, we went to a Football game
and people were chanting us to kiss...and
we did 4 times. I think we're rushing, but
I don't want to hurt anything between us. Though
I know he'll probably be fine with it if I tell him how I feel...I just can't get the guts to. What should I do?
-Mystie
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If you can't get the guts to tell him, write him a letter or an e-mail, you chould even say it over the phone. Or if your really shy and can't get the guts to tell him at all, get one of your friends too!
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When u two r alone try talking to him, and telling him that u wan to move slower and making sure that u tell him that u really like him just that u want to take things slow. Good Luck with that!
~*Michelle*~
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I am in the same situation. It really sucks and all you can do is say you're going too fast. If he can't accept that then he's not right for you, if he does then he's worth it. I know it's hard but seriously it is the only way.
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Well, you're the only person who can stand up for what you believe in. You'll have to tell your boyfriend how you feel, but you CAN choose how to do it.
You have a few options: telling him in person, on the phone, in a letter/email, on AIM, etc. Figure out which makes the most sense for your situation, and go for it.
This will make good practice for the rest of your adult life; you need to be brave enough to respect yourself.
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Does he have AIM? If he does, try telling him on there or you can just write a letter to him and explaining everything. Nothing bad should happen, like he shouldn't get mad at you because you already said he'll be fine with how you feel. And he should be fine, he should respect how you feel about it all. But, just be like "I know we just met 3 weeks ago, and we've been going out for 5 days, and I'm really happy with it all! But, when we went to the football game, people were chanting us to kiss and I just feel like we're rushing things with each other and I just don't want to hurt anything between us, maybe we should take things slower with each other.." Just say something like that and how you feel about it all. I hope this helps and good luck hun. If you need anything else, just post a message in my inbox.
xoxo Kourtney
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If something's bothering you, always, always, ALWAYS speak up, no matter how hard it is. Just take a deep breath and ask him if he thinks you're rushing it a little bit, and remind him about the game and the chanting and all that. If he says he doesn't think so, tell him you do, and if he's the nice guy I think he is, he'll be okay if you tell him you wanna slow it down a little.
I hope this helped!
-Siren =)
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if u cant talk to him try talking to one of his friends or one of ur friends that knows him and maybe tell them to ask him if he thinks u guys are rushing or u could write him a note or talk to him online. hope i helped good luck! please rate!
~Beccah~
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just get the guts to tell him how yu feel, once you do you will feel alot better.
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