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i am in love wit a guy that is 3 years older then me. is a big difference? well my parents dont want me talkin to him anymore. i talk him on the phone everyday. my parents think i should talkin to him perminently but i cant. i love this guy but i cant tell my parents that bc they think i am to young to have a bf. it is like i am 13 i should be able to have a bf. But they wont let me. what do u guyz think i should i really need ur help!!
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No, you're thirteen and really shouldn't have a boyfriend. Plus, he's sixteen. What the hell is he doing messing around with you. This reeks of tomfoolery. Stay happy while you can.
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I don't think 13 and 16 is bad dating ages at all, especially if you're mature for a 13 year old. A lot of older guys go with younger girls anyway. I mean I went out with a 15 year old when I was 12... so yeah. But I think if you really love him than you should, as long as he respects you and doesn't take advantage of you and all that. I wish you the best of luck.
- LIVEY
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Three years is not really that big of an age difference. Just keep in mind that as an older(ish) guy, he may want more than you do. Don't let him push you into anything and all that. You know the drill. You need to find out why your parents don't want you to have a bf. Is it that they think you're young? Is it JUST that he's three years older than you? Talk it out rationally with them and find out what it is that's bothering them.
It might also help if they met him. If they know what a great guy he is, they might change their minds...y'never know.
I hope this helped!
-Siren =)
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When i was 13 my parents wouldnt let me have a bf ether and im only 14 now.eventually maybe youll see 13 is kind of young.hes 16!he wants things every guy wants something he should be able to get girls that are in his highschool not some girl whos in junior high(im guessing you are)theres other guys in this world closer to your age i understand where your parents are comeing from...like its ok to talk to him once in a while on the phone but only once in a while
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I dont think that 3 years is that big of a difference. i think you need to talk to your parents and explain how you really feel about this guy. if they still dont approve you need to talk to your boyfriend and see how he feels about the situation. have your bf talk to your parents. maybe he can convince them that he really isnt that bad of a guy.
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well 13 is kinda young to be in lve. does this guy eevn love you back. sorry but you might not really be in love sweety. you are probbaly just obsessed or have a really bg crush. 13 is an okay age to have a boy friend, but not ot be taking things that seriously. when you're 13 you should be out having fun and learning about yourself and the types of people you likeand dont like. you are still developing as a person.
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the age gap between 13 and 16 is actually quite large... odds are, it will be a very bad relationship - either he's immature, and/or will attempt to take advantage of your naivete.
And... if you want your parents to see things differently, you need to prove to them you're mature enough to have a boyfriend - and that is no easy task.
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