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My gf says im not daring enough like she wants me to grab her but and finger her but I want to treat her with respect and iono most ppl would think i'm weir for not doing it but iono

Having respect for women is pretty weird...




Just explain your feelings about the whole thing to her and hope she gets it. Make her understand that that just isn't what you're into

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Whenever I watch a very romantic movie, when you can just see the passion the two characters have for each other, I get overwhelmed and start crying.

For example, in the movie When Harry met Sally, at the end, when he goes to that party and admits to Sally that he loves her, I had tears running down my face and I felt a slight squeeze on my heart.

I do have a crush on this guy (I think I might be in love, I've liked him for almost four years, and it seems like my love for him is growing stronger by the year). I always get so happy when I imagine him saying those things to me.

Why do you think I am crying? If it's because of the guy, do you think I'm in love? There's just this huge bundle of emotion in me right now, and sometimes when I watch or hear something it triggers that bundle to tear a little and the next thing I know tears are running down my face. I never sob though (like I do when I am sad or angry). I just need to know what's wrong with me. I was never like that.

Even if you weren't so into this guy, you probably would have the same reaction to the movies. I think the crush on the guy probably triggers it a little more because it allows you to fantasize and put yourself and him in the characters' in the movie's place.

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my best friend says he is not gay but he lets me give him a blowjob at least twice a week is it ok and would that make him gay or bi

As long as you're blowing your friend a few times a week for no reason, you've got a bigger problem than whether he's gay or not. Therapy is probably the best option for you.

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this question was deleted since i posted in like 7 months ago.. so ill re word it:

so think of your dream house and tell me something about it, something special or crazy. and dont tell me "it has a living room"..tell me something different about it, that makes it unique, like how the hall, is a hall of mirrors or how the fifth floor is a paintball range or something. or even somthing about the outside, how all the windows are shaped like bongs or your secret garden right before the bar on the beach.
:)
things like that.. be creative!

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Yea, looking back a few hours later, that was sort of lame. Now I've got to fight the urge to say it has a dining room :/.



I was just a little put off on how this isn't really appropriate for the site because of a lack of need for advice.

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I'm 16. Every time I go out, all the kids I see look chubby or overweight. I haven't seen a "healthy" looking kid in a long time. When I was younger, I remember that most kids were average weight.. but now.. it's changed. Is it because their parents don't care enough to give them a proper diet or what? Did computers/video games take over little kids?

Probably a mixture of fast food and video games. Fast food is very accessible these days, and video games are sort of a substitute for actually doing stuff. Instead of of playing football, you can pick up Madden '08 and drop some wideouts and tight ends with the click of a button.

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is it true that zac efron is homosexual? i heard it from this advice columinist but i think hes lying cuz zac is pretty hot

second question: what do you do to get discovered... acting singing [maybe modeling?]


i really wannt to be a celebrity someday


13/f

You're absolutely right. He CAN'T be gay, he's hot! Makes no sense for him to be gay, right? Being homosexual obviously has everything to do with looks.



To get discovered you get an agent and have them find opportunities for you so you can show your stuff.



For future reference, don't ask two questions in one.

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Hi! i was recently on the set of hannah montana, and like, i got a script and i got it signed by jason and cody. If i ever want to sell it, how much should i sell it for? xox

Very little, because Hannah Montana is watch mostly by little kids, and no one knows who Jason and Cody are.



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A 1 is for an abusive rating. I don't think that was abusive, was it? If I was being abusive to you, you would feel it and would have filed an abuse report about me already.

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14/f

http://i16.tinypic.com/5yjffuv.jpg

Is my acne terrible or is it okay, (not something I should worry about), because I use foundation to cover it up. (in the picture I'm wearing foundation). I took out the flash so that you could see the pimples more clearly. I have a few more bumps, but they blend in my easily with my skin. Will I stop getting pimples when I get older? Is it just like your hormones or whatever that you eventually grow out of?

I'm starting to take care of my skin more and I use a foaming cleanser type of thing and it helps clear my pores, if that helps.

Shitty picture. Who would put their eyes that close anyway? Take a realistic picture of your face and repost this question.

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what does "___ makes the world go round" mean

"Matt makes the world go round."



In this case, that is in fact, true.

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Does anyone know how to access myspace on school computers?? I've tried dozens of sites to try to get through the block thingy but it just won't work! I know there's a way to get through it cause some people have gotten through they just won't share with others how they do it. So please if you know I'd really appreciate it!!

hidemyass.com.

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waiting for change?

AEnema by Tool.



About waiting for the apocalypse... but you didn't exactly specify what you wanted it to be about waiting for.

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omg i'm doing my summer reading. and i hate it. and i probably should finish right now, since its 10:17pm and all, and school starts tomorrow. but i'm so not, bc i am addicted to this site. blablablabla

anyways.
random question, whats a good product for whitening your teeth? mine aren't bad, but i want them to be better bc i'm greedy. :D muahahahaha
anyways. i would appreciate that.

Not really the place to ramble about your life or your summer reading because that has nothing to do with teeth. If you want to complain or comment on your life, go to wordpress.com.

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After parting ways from the movie today, my guy friend, Erik told me on msn tonight "next time we meet, i demand a hug! :D" what could this possibly mean?

No secret male code here; he wants a hug.

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I want to know what I can do to get my husband back?

Back from where? It would help if you added some more information.

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I have to get up at 6:00 A.M for high school... In your opinion, is it better to shower the night before, or when you wake up? Because, I have P.E...and when I take a shower, I preferably wash my hair. So, which way do you do it? This is a really weird question LOL

I prefer to do it at night, not because of any hair issues or anything like that, because I'm too lazy to do it in the morning.

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okay so i have a concern....
now, my boyfriend is bisexual and im perfectly okay with it. now if we have a threesome with another man, and my boyfriend gives the other man oral sex and THEN oral sex to me directly after, is it possible for me to get pregnant?

Only if it's Jesus sperm...




If you have a threesome, your relationship is going to shrivel and die. I guarantee it. If it doesn't, then there is already something wrong with it and it should die.

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Recently I've been hanging out with this guy that I had never hung out with before. He is really nice guy, he's kinda cute but I'm more into personality than comes looks. Anyway so he's really nice, and I think he's kind of hitting on me. He added me on myspace so he seen that clearly i love the tv show the hills and he mention something like "oh i like that show the hills" even tho i think he doesnt know anything about it so that kind of gives me the first idea that he does and hes just trying to get my attention. Than i was in my friends car and i was like i look so much better in this car that you do [ it was a guy ] ands hes like yea you do you look good in any car.. or something like that. Do you think he likes me or something? cuz it kinda seems like but idk. What do you think?

Yes he likes you. How do I know? Because guys don't watch The Hills.

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okay so my boyfriend is only a year older but a year is a lot with us because im going into seventh grade and he is going into eighth. He always tells me about how his best friend got to third in a cemetery and stuff and well i know that he wants to go farther too. and if he tries to touch my boobs or take off my shirt i always tell him no because i dont want him to see the stretch marks on my boobs. what should i do.

thanks xox

Instead of worrying about that kind of crap, go watch High School Musical 2 or something.

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k i came across some sex sites and i need to know how to delete it from my computer history before my parents do!

help plz

ps
f/14

My-name-is-Rain is right, you should really say what your browser is. Because AOL and Internet Explorer answers have already been given, I'll just give a Firefox answer.


Tools, Clear Private Data. Tada! Gone!

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okay, about a month ago a guy i liked asked me "whats up" and i was like "nothing" and then i said "whats up" and he said "nothing" LOL. its funny looking back now but back then it was sooo awkward.

do you say "nothing" or do you launch into a full account of what you've done all week? im confuseedd. btw this applies to people you're not total strangers with BUT don't really know well enough to give a full account of everything that's happened in the day.

honestly, i think there should be an unspoken social rule that acquaintances dont say "whats up" to each other. =[

thanks in advance lovess

Most people just say nothing, because that's usually all people are doing.

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