Michele answered Sunday August 19 2007, 1:40 pm: WEll there is not enough information here to give you a good answer. We would have to know what happened before you got to this point in your marriage. Not all of it of course, but what you think contributed to his "wanting to be alone".
But here is the problem.
If it is something you specifically did, and you are aware of it, and you explain it, maybe we can help. But if he is lying to you about wanting to be alone, and really has other reasons that he doesn't want to tell you, (like another woman) then it won't matter what we say, or what you change, his mind is somewhere else.
Happens all the time, and most men lie about it, because they think they are saving you from being hurt, but bottom line, it's gonna hurt no matter what. And dear, you could be the most wonderful wife in the world, it won't help.
If you write again, you should even put in your "suspicions" so we can analyse those also. It will help.
And listen, if you do suspect another woman, better to let the creep go, than to grovel and hate yourself in the end.
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