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my best friend is 23 and says he is not gay my best friend says he is not gay but he lets me give him a blowjob at least twice a week is it ok and would that make him gay or bi
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As long as you're blowing your friend a few times a week for no reason, you've got a bigger problem than whether he's gay or not. Therapy is probably the best option for you. ]
I won't even get into whether or not that is okay. Just protect yourself for Christ’s sake. There are quite a few things you are exposing yourself too by performing oral on someone indiscriminately.
Take precautions, use a condom and don't take his word when it comes to your health! Although I don't think it's quite fair to label a guy who is willing to receive oral from another guy 'gay' or 'bisexual' against his wishes it certainly does make him 'guy who has trouble being honest with himself and others about sex' and 'guy who has casual sex partners'.
Protect yourself from the other people he is or has fooled around with. ]
Receiving Oral sex from other males is definitely a bit peculiar, don't you think?
Perhaps he is gay and hasn't "come out of the closet".
Has you friend had girlfriends in the past?
Like you say, he could be bi.
There's no real way anyone here would know, but if he happily receives oral sex from you - and you are also a male - it could be more than just a friendly thing you 2 have going on.
Give him time to find himself. ]
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