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Due to assholes on the site and people who have no idea what the hell they are talking about I have left the site. Ahem, Dangernerd...Who likes to make assumptions about people when they do not know them ;) Then has brass balls to go search up whatever information he can gather so he has back fire to use whenever he feels like starting a little hissy fit. Let me remind those who read this, Dangernerd has a nasty tendency of using what you post on the site against you if you where to ever have a problem with someone on the site. Mind you, He likes to gather false information in a way that he thinks will benefit him in the long run. This site is run by someone who doesn't have class, Who likes to pigeon hole people. The same guy who supposedly is running an "ADVICE" column but somehow has pre-teens asking about sex and how to do sexual things to their "partners" this site is also filled with people giving advice that is NOT helpful or use full in any form rather than most encouraging the young ones. Well lets get to the bottom of it, This site is a laughing matter. Dangernerd is a joke and couldn't be a bigger clown ;)
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What are some symptoms of shizophrenia? Is it hereditary? If so, how likely is it for the offspring to get it?
My father has Scizophrenia and i was wondering what the symptoms and statistics are so i know if i need to worry about it and what i need to look for.
Yes, schizophrenia is hereditary.
Here is a link I found to be extremely helpful it tells you everything there is to know.
http://www.georgedstewart.com/Library_files/Schizophrenia.pdf
hey, my bf and i have been going out for 9 months now and ive noticed in the last few months he doesnt ask to see me anymore. i dont know what to do about it. ive tried not asking to see him, i waited a month and i gave up cause i missed him too much. ive also talked to him about it in one of my bad moods. and now i refuse to be the one to text him first.how can i make him want to see me more? am i too available to him? im also going to malaysia next month and i wont be able to talk to him for 2 1/2 weeks, do you think that'll make him want to see me more? help me! i dont know what to do
btw im 16f, he is 17m
thanks
I don't believe someone can be "to available" exspecially towards the one they love and care about most. when two people are in love they ususally ant to spend time with their loved ones. if your boyfriend didn't tell you anything and out of the blue is not even putting in the effort to try and see his own girlfriend than yes, I would start to become concerned. There could be a few reasons to why he is not trying to see you.
1. He could need a break in the relationship.
If this is the case he should of exspressed that too you, It is the right thing too do.
2. He could be loosing interest in you, Again he should of exspressed these feelings too you.
3. He could also be seeing someone eles...
Let me ask you, Is he even trying to talk to you? There really isn't much you can do except to communicate with each other. If he fails to do so, Than clearly something is up.
15/F. Here's what happened, pretty straight up. This boy was totally ONLY using me to get some action, so I broke it off with him. Then a guy that I was kind of close with/friends with saw that I was really vulnerable and tried to get me to have sex with him... but I had enough in me to say no to him. Well now I just feel like SUUUUCH crap because I feel like guys only want me because of the physical stuff... Like does my personality really suck so bad that that's all they want? I just feel like shit, and once again, pretty vulnerable and I don't want to just fall into another trap. So please, how can I avoid getting hurt again and running to the first guy who shows interest? I don't trust myself right now.
I want to first say good for you for putting your foot down! :)
I know it seems that every guy only wants to have sex, but the truth is not all guys think and act like that. If you are vulnerable depending on the guy it only makes then try and be more pushy because in their minds they think you will eventually give in. You shouldn't feel like crap at all, You did the right thing. If the guy didn't like the choice you made well then he wasn't even worth the time anyway. A guy that truely cares about you should respect how you feel and the choices that you make. You told them "no" they might of not of liked it but it shows you have a great respect for yourself to stand your ground. Now for the trust part, You should trust yourself as in the end when it comes to trusting anyone it is yourself.
last year at school i had headlice. i felt horrible all summer, bu have fianaly cut my hair and got rid of them. i was nervous this september that i might get them, but i am sure i havent. i'm so glad not to have them now, but a friend told me privately yesterday that she nows i have headlice. i prentended to agree with her, telling her the truth about catching it of my friend, and having a hard time getting rid of it. but the thing is, i am so sure i got rid of them, and i know this sounds stupid, but i feel really bad, like my self-confidence has shot down by miles. i want to tell her the truth. i'm sure she doesn't blab about it, but she might tell her friends, which i hate, cos i feel really self concoius. should i tell her that they've gone now? i have nothing to feel guilty about, right. i mean, i just caught it off someone else and nits prefer clean hair, so it's not bad right my mom gave me such a hard time about it last year, and i feel kinda ashamed. i didn't do anything wrong, so why so i feel like this. i go to a school where a lot of the girls are kinda snobby, and it just feels weird. i've been obsessing over this all night and i could use some advice. thanx so much
I had a friend who got headlice more than once when she was younger, The truth is it is not that uncommon and probably more people get it than you think. If your friend goes and tells her friends about it and they all make in fun of you well than clearly she isn't much of a friend in the first place. I know you want to tell her the truth but if you don't want other people to find out about it then I suggest you be careful who you tell. You didn't do anything wrong no, and getting headlice isn't fun at all but you aren't the only one to get it either.
For Halloween I really want to be some cute and funny and something that will catch eyes. I need ANY CUTE ideas. What have you seen your friends do that was cute? HELP :-D
Bunny
Fairy
Cat
Nurse
Cop
Bride
Rainbow Bright
Mermaid
Lady Bug
Goldie Locks
Bumble Bee
Cat Woman
Snow White
Cheer Leader
Pirate
Dorothy
Wonderwoman
Cowgirl
Barbie
Hey i am turning 13 on the 28th of september i am very tall for my age last time i measured i was about 5 feet 6.5 inches so i'm probbly 5 feet 7 inches now i weigh around 118pounds is that a normal weight for someone of my age and height?
This is according to my weight watchers booklet
5'7"
123-136 *If you have a small body structure*
133-147 *If you have a medium body structure*
143-163 *If you have a large body structure*
Depending on your body type this is the weight chart for 5'7 118 is around the weight of someone who has a small body structure (small boned)
I'm 15 female, Softmor in high school.
He'll be 18 in a few days, Senior in high school.
I've knowen him for a few years, he's my best friend. Greatest friendship I'd ever had, there's just one small problem I've got a MAJOR crush on him! I'm afraid if I tell him I like him, he'll reject me. I've had ALOT of heart breaks all the same way... I'll tell the guy I like them, He'll say "I'm sorry I don't like you that way. I just wanna be friends." and he'll repeat it every other conversation, and in the end were not friends! I've never had someone crush on me, makes me wonder if it's cause I'm different. At my school, EVERYONE says I'm crazy(some mean good others mean bad), that and I'm the ONLY one even slightly over weight... I wanna tell him Wensday(we'll see each other all day). But should I accutally tell him? Lily (his little sister, i know pretty well) said (& i heard) when she ask'd Seth (aka my crush/best friend) if he likes me, and he said "That's no of your buissness" and looked away with a half-smile... Does that mean he would like me back, he sends mixed signals... Help please?
-Gabriella
He could like you, However you are 15 and he is turning 18 in a few days therefore if he were to have a relationship with you it would be illegal if it became sexual that could also be a reason he maybe hasn't approached you. I could also be wrong, The only way to find out is to ask him
Alright, so I've been dating this guy for almost a month now. By the way..i'm fifteen. But yeah I go over to his house and like I'm really starting to like him because he's hilarious and fun to talk to and stuff. So anyways, whenever I go over to his house he always starts taking off my pants and I have to go "I don't want to have sex yet.." and he like groans and says okay...thats okay. But then the next time we hang he does the same exact thing! And it's like this EVERY FREAKING TIME. And it's just like cool your jets, man. I'll let you know when I'm ready. But I still tell him this and he's still trying all the time. That little horndog him. But I keeping thinking...does this give off that he's only trying to get sex? Like common, honestly if I were a guy and I was dating a girl, I wouldn't try having sex with her all the time, every single time, when we're fifteen? Like I know people want to get out of that "virgin" category but commmmon. Most guys atleast ASK! But this just gives off that he only wants sex, should I break up with him?
thanksss guyss.
I'm not going to tell you to break up with him but I think you should rethink this relationship. If he keeps trying to take off your pants everytime you see him than it is very likely that it all he wants. You told him that you don't want to have sex yet, Personally I think that is a very smart choice. However, If he really cared about your feelings than he should respect it and stop trying to pressure you into having sex. Don't ever let a guy try and talk you into something you don't want to do.
okay im 18 and have no credit. could i get a loan for a car?? and would that be a good idea or how does that work ????
I don't think you need credit to take out a loan from the bank. If you are looking at buying a car from a dealer ship than it is good to have a credit history because buying one without credit is almost impossible.
my boyfriend of like a year broke up with me 4 days ago.. i'm trying to move on because he said he doesnt wanna talk anmore and doesnt care anymore, and i'm fine during the day, i have my momenst where i miss him, but like at night, when i lay down, i cant fall asleep and i've cried myself to sleep everynight sense.. please dont say to try to talk to him because he doesnt want to and i refuse to bother him.. i just dont know what to do to get over him.. i miss him so much. help :(
I know it is really hard, but the best thing is to cut complete contact. If you are having contact with him than you are only prolonging your pain. Right now you are grieving, In time it will pass and things will get better. As hard as it is for you try to focus on yourself. Spending time with friends and family will help take your mind off it and keeping yourself occupied will help also. This seems like the end of the world but in time things will get better, you will meet someone and you will fall in love again. The best thing to do right now is to take time to heal
okay my ma has been paralized for almost three years and its cause the hospital messed up on her surgery. she has someone "looking" at her case but i dont think she's been talking to the right people cause its been to long and they cant even tell her if she got a case yet so my question is who can help us with this law suit ???
The best person would be a lawyer
First, I am a 31 year old female and have been married for 10 years.
I had what I thought was a yeast infection start nearly two weeks ago. On Friday, after having treated with OTC products to no avail, I saw a gyn. He gave me an Rx pill and cream and did a wet prep to confirm. I can access test results online and have just found that the test showed no yeast, but trichomonas vaginalis, an STD. Could the test be wrong? Or is there another way to contract trichomoniasis?
I have searched the internet and really haven't found a definite answer. I will be calling my doctor tomorrow to confirm. I just want to know what possibilities there are so I can address this properly with him. Any personal experiences would be very helpful.
It's possible the test could be wrong but if you went to a gynocologist then the chances of the test being wrong is probably very small. trichomonas vaginalis can be passed through having sex with your partner, wiping yourself with a cloth and I'm sure there are many other ways to contract it as well.
This is from Wiki
Trichomonas vaginalis
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Trichomonas vaginalis
Giemsa-stained culture of T. vaginalis
Scientific classification
Domain: Eukarya
(unranked): Excavata
Phylum: Metamonada
Class: Parabasalia
Order: Trichomonadida
Genus: Trichomonas
Species: T. vaginalis
Binomial name
Trichomonas vaginalis
(Donné 1836)
Trichomonas vaginalis, an anaerobic, parasitic flagellated protozoan, is the causative agent of trichomoniasis, and is the most common pathogenic protozoan infection of humans in industrialized countries.[1] The WHO has estimated that 180 million cases of infection are acquired annually worldwide. The estimates for North America alone are between 5 and 8 million new infections each year, with an estimated rate of asymptomatic cases as high as 50%
If you are still unsure about the results, You could ask if you could have another exam done
I started my period on september 6, and finished yesterday afternoon(sept 13). I had unprotected sex last night in my spa. I don't know how long my cycle is, I've never understood it but my period is 7 days. Is there a chance I could be pregnant?
Yes there is a chance, Whether you are on birth control, using condoms, not using condoms there is always a chance of pregnancy. As for your period everyone woman is different and every females body works differently because your period last 7 days doesn't mean there is something wrong with you. If you had unprotected sex last night I would wait two weeks to take a pregnacy test that way the results will be more accurate.
I think that i might be a lesbian. I have had crushes on boys, I had a crush on a boy recently. but i still think i kind of like girls. Please dont tell me its ok to be lesbian because I know I would never EVER be happy with my self. Tell me how not be a lesbian any more! please please please!
Seeing you asked us not to tell you it is okay to be a lesbian than I won't tell you it is okay. You COULD just be bisexual. Assuming that you are young it could be you are just curious, not all people will admit this but most of us become curious at one point in our lives and this doesn't mean we are gay, lesbain, or even bisexual. If you aren't happy then simply try to stick with guys but remember in the long run we can't help but be who we really are.
Since I have been giving a lot of advice, I thought I would like some of my own.
Alright here's the dilemma, Last year I was dating a guy name SOMEBODY. He was my first true love so to speak. I did everything with him sexually, and then when our 1 year came around, we broke up because we were fighting too much.
That relationship ended in March and I found somebody else in May. We have been dating since then and now I think he's cheating on me. They aren't big big hints like lipstick on his collar or underwear in his car but sometimes when he is texting someone, I'll lean over to look and he'll immediately close out of the text. He says it's nothing but it BUGS ME.
He says he wants to marry me, have kids with me. Granted, I am only 19 and so is he, but it's different from my last relationship.
I'm not sure maybe it's just my personality or something.
It very well could be nothing he may close out of text because he could be bothered that you keep leaning over his shoulder then again I could also be very wrong. Do you have any other signs that he might be cheating? Is he distant? Does he seem less interested in you and your interest? Does he keep his phone off at night? These are some of the clues to cheating. Also, Do you trust him? If not then ask yourself why. Only you know, You didn't label any specific details. If he is talking about marrying you and planning to have children then I would think long and hard about this one before you walk down that isle.
I live in a very small small town. Everyone knows everyone. My family is extremely well known as being church go-ers, wealthy, and for being sane. My dad's side owns three of the local feedyards. My mom's side runs the local hospital as nurses, and two doctors. There is family in town who is not so well liked. They have a baddd reputation for drugs and alcohol. They're a big family and they are all thought of in the same way. Recently one of their family members came back into town. He's now attending school with us. We've been talking some and I'm realizing that I like him. I know our families don't get along and I know that if I ever did date him my family would be disappointed. I feel like maybe I can change him. I took him to church the last two Wednesday nights and he enjoys it. He is not perfect at all, but I can't help who I like. I have a very squeaky clean reputation and I'm scared that by dating him it will be ruined. I don't know what to do because I really do like him. I wish I didn't, but I can't help this one. Please, I need advice on what to do.
You are right, We can't help who we like.
Here is what you stated below; "I feel like maybe I can change him" The truth is you cannot change people, You can help someone improve but you can't completely change them they need to change themselves. You're parents might be disappointed if you are dating him because not only does his family has a bad reputation with drugs and alcohol, but in your parents eyes they might think they are or could become a bad influence to you. This is a selfish way to think, but they also could think about their reputation as well.
Despite the drugs and alcohol everyone is a human being and we all make mistakes, You can try to sit down with your parents and say something a long the lines as "Mom and Dad I have something I want to talk about I'm letting you know now that it might upset and anger you but.." Then you add what you'd like to say.
You also should ask yourself is this guy right for you? Will his bad habits become a bad influence? How are you going to handle the situation?
Ok well me and my beautifull girfriend are probably going to have sex at some point, she has done it before but i havent had a girlfriend before her for 6 years and im still a virgin. what should be normall? we'v done a little bit together before and she was really tense when (omg this is embarrasing to type) i was you know.. doing stuff to her.
im sure it hurt because im inexperienced and dont know where everything is yet. But when we do what can i expect? when she feels good will she tense up when it feels good or when it hurts? or both? what else can i probably expect to maybe hurt for her so i can stop as soon as i notice it. (besides the obvious ow's lol) but dont ruin the ending for me ;D i want to find that out for myself heh heh
btw im 18 and shes 19
All woman are different, Some tense up and others don't. The only way to find out if it is painful for her is to ask. As the only way to become better is not only by doing so but also to communicate.
Below are some suggestions
A Tip: If you are doing stuff to her, It is less painful if you keep your nails clipped so you don't possibly tear or cut her.
1. Take your socks off. Not a single thing is sexy about a man who is naked except for his socks. (lol) ;)
2. Unless we’ve expressly indicated that we like our headlights to be tweaked, do not pinch our nipples in the heat of the moment. They’re very, very sensitive!
3. Sometimes a light touch is better than a strong one. And a sweet kiss with just your lips is better than a Labrador retriever-style kiss with your tongue.!
4. That look of concentration on your face makes it seem like you’re doing calculations in your head, not making love. Smile a little bit, why don’t you? ;)
5. Nipples should be a pit stop on the way to Vaginaville—get off the express train!
Hope that helps you out :)
first of all, please dont lecture me. i know what im doin is wrong. but ive been smokin a pack a day for 3 years and its sad to say that my baby isnt enough motivation for me to quit. i went from smokin a pack a day to smokin 1-2 a day.
the thing is, i want/need to quit, obviously. ive tried lollipops, candy, takin deep breaths...i just cant do it.
what can i do to make me quit !?
I'm going to tell you how it is...
Obviously you are not ready to have a child. Smoking 1-2 packs of ciggerettes a day is not only health hazzardous to you and the baby but you are putting yourself at risk for a miscarriage. If having a life inside you that is growing and developing isn't enough motivation for you than sadly I don't think there is anything any of us can say or do to give you the motivation that you need. Like the person said below me you are looking at a good chance of the state stepping in.
im 16/male
school just started and i expected for new girls to show up at school. there is this really cute and beautiful girl who sits in front of me. i wont say i like her, because i've only seen her for like a week now. She has a guy friend who sits next to her, and they always talk. so i barely get a chance to talk to her. She would turn back and ask me like questions about the homework or something pointless like that. the thing is, im not ugly, i can tell that she thinks im good looking, or cute, or i dunno.
i find her staring at me with a smile once we walk out. like i have NO CLUE what she is thinking! and i wanna have something with this girl. homecoming is pretty soon and all. the main problem is, how should i work my way up to her, and what is she thinking about????? UGH. i need a girl's help.
help me plz.
It sounds like she is smiling because she may like you, Why not ask her to the dance? This is the perfect opportunity! Approach her, Tell her that you don't have a date to the homecoming dance and ask her if she would like to go with you. If she is smiling then she very well could be waiting to be asked. Go for it, You might end up getting a yes!
18/f
I've come to realize lately that I'm into having sex in what I'd consider to be a weird way, by being spanked and choked fairly hard. Yes, I know there are people who are into that kind of thing, but I'm just an ordinary girl and I'm extremely embarassed and ashamed of myself. How can I deal with this or change my preferences?
There is nothing to be embarrassed about here, Everyone has there own fantasies. I'm also pretty sure that you are not the only person to feel this way or think this way about sex. Different things turn different people on and put them in the mood and this doesn't make you weird. If we were all the same and thought the same then god only knows the world would be boring. If this is something that bothers you then maybe you could try doing something different to lighten the mood.