Alright, so I've been dating this guy for almost a month now. By the way..i'm fifteen. But yeah I go over to his house and like I'm really starting to like him because he's hilarious and fun to talk to and stuff. So anyways, whenever I go over to his house he always starts taking off my pants and I have to go "I don't want to have sex yet.." and he like groans and says okay...thats okay. But then the next time we hang he does the same exact thing! And it's like this EVERY FREAKING TIME. And it's just like cool your jets, man. I'll let you know when I'm ready. But I still tell him this and he's still trying all the time. That little horndog him. But I keeping thinking...does this give off that he's only trying to get sex? Like common, honestly if I were a guy and I was dating a girl, I wouldn't try having sex with her all the time, every single time, when we're fifteen? Like I know people want to get out of that "virgin" category but commmmon. Most guys atleast ASK! But this just gives off that he only wants sex, should I break up with him?
thanksss guyss. <3 much lovee.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Jackieee answered Tuesday September 15 2009, 3:42 pm: Considering it's been 1 month and you're young AND you've even said to him multiple times you're not ready, it seems to me he's just using you. And I'm glad that you're not just giving in and letting him get what he wants...it's girls like you who make me proud to say I'm a girl, you know what I mean? There are way too many girls who give in because they're tired of being a virgin and just do it to "get it over with" AND because they're pressured. I'm glad you aren't one of those girls.
Break up with this guy. I don't know who he thinks he is continuously trying to get in your pants after you've made it clear you're not ready. Dump him. He's definitely not worthy of you.
gibs96 answered Monday September 14 2009, 11:12 pm: yes i do think you should because he should respect the fact that your not ready and clearly hes not respecting your wishes.
Your only 15 you should just be having fun with your girl and guy friends and stop worrying about relationship stuff.... Also you need to find a guy that respects your wishes and i encurage you to stay pure till marriage hope i helped.
One_Whisper answered Monday September 14 2009, 6:02 pm: I'm not going to tell you to break up with him but I think you should rethink this relationship. If he keeps trying to take off your pants everytime you see him than it is very likely that it all he wants. You told him that you don't want to have sex yet, Personally I think that is a very smart choice. However, If he really cared about your feelings than he should respect it and stop trying to pressure you into having sex. Don't ever let a guy try and talk you into something you don't want to do. [ One_Whisper's advice column | Ask One_Whisper A Question ]
Katlyn answered Monday September 14 2009, 4:36 pm: I think you should break up with him if he truly liked and cared about you he wouldnt be acting like such a horndog and would respect your feelings and decision not to have sex yet this guy just wants sex so dump him he doesnt deserve you because your too good for him im sure there are thousands of guys out there who would like you for who you are and wont pressure you into things like sex and besides if you stay with this guy he mite pressure you and you mite just give in even if you dont want to and then you could get pregnant so plz think before you act and dump him he obviously isnt interested in simple no sex relationship. [ Katlyn's advice column | Ask Katlyn A Question ]
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