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does he like me - what to do?:)
When I broke up from a long distant relationship - I was at my friends house, ellie. Ellie had a mate called eric round (WELL they werent just friends..they were a fling) :) So we broke up and I crying hysterically on the pair of them - I didn't really know eric. They really comforted me.
The next morning, ellie had to work so me and eric were on our own. We strangley got on really well...like freakishly. We just layed in bed for 2 hours talking and then went out and got something to eat...he gave me advice, just was a pretty decent guy :)..he went with me and just hang round with me and my group of friends.
A stupid friend, who I actually dont like, cos he is a total bitch, bitchier than a girl went back and told Ellie me and eric liked eachother, which was NOT true. We just got on well, what is wrong with that? Seriously, a piss take.
Anyway that was like a month ago those accusations happened (Ellie knows there is nothing going on, her and eric are over now anyway...it wasnt anything serious..she even said to me if i liked him she wouldnt care) But the weird thing is NOW I think I might like him? I don't even know. I've only had 1 relationship which was long distant and didnt even last a month :(
The thing is I dont know if Eric likes me or not? I mean, he was there when I was crying and shouting about how it was over between me and my ex, and he saw how sad I was - he saw my mascara running and yeahh..I was comfortable with him seeing me like that & when we woke up in the morning, i looked terrible but i didnt care... we have a lot of things in common, and he is amazed i like stuff that he likes that is kind of "Boyish" :)he knows i have some insecurities and he is always trying to make me feel better about them and gives me compliments :)
He's told me he thinks I'm pretty, and that I look cute LOL? But I mean when we were being accused of liking eachother (I didnt like him then) I turnt around to him and said i've just broken up with so and so, so I dont like you & he was like yeah your pretty but I dont like you in that way - But I mean...could that have changed? I think he was just saying that because he didnt want ellie to get mad. We're going out on wednesday just as friends :) But I don't know, I think I like him - but the bad thing is he is a PLAYER. And he knows I havnt had any experiences with guys, and he saw how badly I got hurt. He isn't serious - so maybe it would never work because he knows he wouldnt take ti seriously and i would. And I mean..yeah..that isn't fair to ellie either..even if she doesnt care - it's still a bit unfair for me to like him right? So what should I do? Should I just stay good mates with him and just see how things go, or admit my feelings or what? I'm not used to this sort of thing :) I jst want some persepective...?
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well i think the only way your going to find out his true feelings for him is if you tell him your feelings for him first so maybe you should start out just being friends for a little while so you can get to know him more and he can get to know you that way there wont be any suprises if you two decided to hook up then after you feel like you know enough about him then tell him how you feel and maybe he will feel the same way but ya if hes seen you at your worst times and still thinks your cute and pretty im sure he likes you because no many guys like girls for who they really are and as for the player thing people can change once there with someone they truly like so give it a chance he cant be that bad. good luck :)
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