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Sorry, long story.... I just don't know what too do!
I'm 15 female, Softmor in high school.
He'll be 18 in a few days, Senior in high school.
I've knowen him for a few years, he's my best friend. Greatest friendship I'd ever had, there's just one small problem I've got a MAJOR crush on him! I'm afraid if I tell him I like him, he'll reject me. I've had ALOT of heart breaks all the same way... I'll tell the guy I like them, He'll say "I'm sorry I don't like you that way. I just wanna be friends." and he'll repeat it every other conversation, and in the end were not friends! I've never had someone crush on me, makes me wonder if it's cause I'm different. At my school, EVERYONE says I'm crazy(some mean good others mean bad), that and I'm the ONLY one even slightly over weight... I wanna tell him Wensday(we'll see each other all day). But should I accutally tell him? Lily (his little sister, i know pretty well) said (& i heard) when she ask'd Seth (aka my crush/best friend) if he likes me, and he said "That's no of your buissness" and looked away with a half-smile... Does that mean he would like me back, he sends mixed signals... Help please?
-Gabriella
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from my point of view
instead of hearing from his little sister
how about on wednesday you ask him to speak in private and tell him how you feel about him and at least to his face he will giveyou an answer wich you know the truth is you will never find out unless you
ask him your self and express your feelings about him how do u know he doesnt feel the same way?
just give it a try and see where you end up
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I think due to his reaction when his sister asked him if he likes you, he must like you. Obviously i'm not 100% as I don't know him and sometimes guys can send mixed signals. But i'd say it's most likely that he does like you. I would try and talk to him and explain how you feel. The worst that could happen is he could reject you, but you can move on from it. I hope it works out for you, good luck :-) <3
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I say go for it. If you don't believe me your gonna to regret. You have every right to tell him your feelings. I'm guessing he likes you too but is sacared to make the first move. SO you are going to have to be brave one and tell him. Even if things don't work out the way you plan. You are going to be proud of yourself. Besides its he's lost and you will find someone better. But i positive that he likes you.Sometimes people play hard to get to make sure that person's feelings are real. So deep breath and take the plunge. Good luck :D
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He could like you, However you are 15 and he is turning 18 in a few days therefore if he were to have a relationship with you it would be illegal if it became sexual that could also be a reason he maybe hasn't approached you. I could also be wrong, The only way to find out is to ask him
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