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he doesnt want to see me...
hey, my bf and i have been going out for 9 months now and ive noticed in the last few months he doesnt ask to see me anymore. i dont know what to do about it. ive tried not asking to see him, i waited a month and i gave up cause i missed him too much. ive also talked to him about it in one of my bad moods. and now i refuse to be the one to text him first.how can i make him want to see me more? am i too available to him? im also going to malaysia next month and i wont be able to talk to him for 2 1/2 weeks, do you think that'll make him want to see me more? help me! i dont know what to do
btw im 16f, he is 17m
thanks
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There's no such thing as being "too available." My boyfriend and I were in a long distance relationship for the first 7 months of our relationship. I think the longest we went without seeing each other was 2 months, but it was because we hadn't met in person yet. Then after we met, we saw each other almost every month if not every other month until February when I moved out & moved in with him. We'd go nuts if we didn't see each other. It was really hard.
Something might be up with your boyfriend though. He could be dating someone else, or he could just want to break up with you but doesn't know how. I really think you need to ask him about it. Ask him if he's seeing someone else, ask if he wants to break up. You need to call him first though, so I suggest you do that. A lot of things could be going on with him, but you need to give in with the text/call first thing.
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I don't believe someone can be "to available" exspecially towards the one they love and care about most. when two people are in love they ususally ant to spend time with their loved ones. if your boyfriend didn't tell you anything and out of the blue is not even putting in the effort to try and see his own girlfriend than yes, I would start to become concerned. There could be a few reasons to why he is not trying to see you.
1. He could need a break in the relationship.
If this is the case he should of exspressed that too you, It is the right thing too do.
2. He could be loosing interest in you, Again he should of exspressed these feelings too you.
3. He could also be seeing someone eles...
Let me ask you, Is he even trying to talk to you? There really isn't much you can do except to communicate with each other. If he fails to do so, Than clearly something is up.
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