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How to stop being lesbian
I think that i might be a lesbian. I have had crushes on boys, I had a crush on a boy recently. but i still think i kind of like girls. Please dont tell me its ok to be lesbian because I know I would never EVER be happy with my self. Tell me how not be a lesbian any more! please please please!
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Ok well i don't think you are if you are saying you don't want to be then you can't.
Being gay is a CHOOICE and obviously it's not what you want cause you said that but Just cause you might think a girl is attractive doesn't mean your gay, Or even if you want to kiss or make out with girl doesn't mean your gay. Maybe you just feel more comferable around them and you haven't met a guy yet that you feel comfterable around, also you could be having an erg to make out or kiss so the easyest option is a girl i think this could be a part of it.
I really think you here all this media about gays and your thinking about it to much cause i use to get scared when i was young that i would do that to myself but now i don't cause i know god and i no thats not what he wants for me or anyone.
emial me if you need advice or anything please!:)
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Why should you be upset of the fact you might be a lesbian? I think I might be one but still I feel great about it. I've met lesbian and they're so normal. Some of them are even better than people around them. I understand it might feel like you're not normal and there are people that hate lesbian but what they think is really really not important. Think of them as stupid if you want but never feel bad about who you might be. I'm saying all these from my heart.
If you really think you won't be happy of being a lesbian after what I've said, I'm sure you won't be able to date a girl and the felling might eventually pass when you meet someone good enough.
Yep... I saw your feedback and there's just one fact I recently heard of I wanna tell you. In Scientific point of view, there's no real lesbian. There are real gays, they are sexually attracted(according to their brain) but girls are just appreciate the body of another female. Therefore, a girl should never feel hard to resist the attraction towards another girl since it's just emotional matter.
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If this is just a phase you are going through, then it will pass, and you will find yourself no longer attracted to the opposite sex.
However, if this is a part of you, it will never go away. But I will tell you that how most girls avoid that is sexual promiscuity with males. But it will always be there, no matter how many different guys they see.
My real advice: don't let an intangible parent figure make you feel bad about who you are. You're obviously not choosing this, so, if this god really exists, he should love you for who you are. If he doesn't, he's not fit to be a god. But whatever makes you happy, I say.
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Ok I do not know how old you are but at a certain age some females or males start bcoming more attracted to the same sex.Some can not help it.There is no reasonable advice to give in this situation.If you are attracted to girls and you do not feel its right then try to start focusing on guys.Or wait awhile ,you might not be sure if you like guys or girls.I hope thisi helped...
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a lot of girls become curious about the same sex. its almost unavoidable. some girls experiment and like it or not, and some people never do.
i had the same curiousity and it ended up that i am indeed bisexual. theres no problem with it, and if they are true feelins there is nothin you can really do to get rid of them. you can try to hide them, but you wont be happy with yourself it you try to be someone youre not.
experimentin helps a lot. it can help you realize if you really like girls or not. if not, then youll just have to find another way to realize if you are or not. if you truely are, then i dunno what you can do to stop it.
good luck
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Don't panic, everything will be fine. You could be bisexual, especially because you said you have had crushes on boys. On the contrary, you are who you are, and nobody can change that, not even you. Its 100% okay to be lesbian, it might be shocking at first, even to yourself, but you will accept it. Theres nothing wrong with being lesbian, it just means you prefer girls, thats all. If you ever need to talk, Im here for you :-)
Good Luck!
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As the person below me said, you could very well be bisexual. This isn't what you want to hear, but you really can't change your orientation. If you are straight, you're straight and if you're gay or bi, you're gay or bi. Yes, we can all agree that the easiest orientation to be is straight, and plenty of homosexuals do really wish they could be straight. The problem with attempting to cover up your sexuality, is that you will always have to suppress your emotions and desires.
All that being said, your user information states you are 13. At 13, you probably really don't have a great idea of your sexuality and you could probably even be straight. Give it a few more years before you set a true sexual identity for yourself.
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Seeing you asked us not to tell you it is okay to be a lesbian than I won't tell you it is okay. You COULD just be bisexual. Assuming that you are young it could be you are just curious, not all people will admit this but most of us become curious at one point in our lives and this doesn't mean we are gay, lesbain, or even bisexual. If you aren't happy then simply try to stick with guys but remember in the long run we can't help but be who we really are.
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