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should i forget about him???
I broke up with my boyfriend 8 months ago and i have a restraining order on him. because of him it's hard to trust guys. Theirs a guy that i have known for 2 months, he broke up with his gf 5 months ago but she is best friends with his sister who is really close to him. he sees her everyday but she sees other guys and he sees other girls. He keeps telling me he wants something serious but i think he only says that to get in my pants. Before him I went 8 months with out having sex but the other day me and him did it. He sleeps over my dorm all the time and he even sleeps over when im on my period just to cuddle. I dont believe anything he says becasue i have a hard time trusting people so im not taking him seriously when he says he likes me i think hes just trying to get in my pants. I dont know what to do ive been lonely for so long and i would take him seriously if he didnt always see his ex girl friend. He loves her i know that im not sure if i should stop talking to him completely so that he will realize if he ever wants a relationship with me he has to stop talking to his ex i dont want to tell him becasue he may think im controlling. I am 18 and he is 20 im in college as well.
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You shouldn't stop talking to him, you should stop sleeping with him! Why would you sleep with someone who is in love with someone else? You are right to think he is just trying to "get in your pants". Who cares about the cuddling?
Stay friendly, but don't let it go any farther. Tell him if he really does want something "serious" he'll have to lose the ex-girlfriend or it ain't gonna happen.
He might really want a relationship with you or he might be using you to make her jealous or to get into your pants. Either way, you shouldn't sleep with a guy who hasn't made a clear commitment to you and the relationship and that means NO EX.
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i would persue the relationship. just make sure he knows your morals and limits, if you let him know what they are and he avoids you after, then he probably did just want to use you. but i highly doubt thats the case. good luck.<3
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