about

Hey, My name is Mandy Marie. I'm an Australian and always will be one. I still own the accent, but I live in the US. I recently just moved from Miami Beach to New York City.



I like : Long walks, cars, paintball, hockey, football, painting, drawling, designing, sculptures, sewing, gum, guys, animals, surfing, bungee jumping, sky diving, pizza, fries, movies, I like throwing gum at the walls and laughing so hard it hurts my stomach, I love to sing in the shower, dance on the highway, cuddling, hugging, kissing, talking, I love to run up and down the stairs, get kicked out of stores, to go to a restaurant and bring my own food, I like to make a nice tropical drink, I like to stare at the stars, to hold hands, to just drive around not knowing where I'm going, to take road trips.



I want: to own my own sex shop called "Getting Freaky in the Basement" or just pretend I have one.



I am: really nice, I promise! I will do my best to help you. I've been through murders, deaths, abusive relationships, eating disorders, breakups, losing my family and my friends, giving up something you have your heart set on. Please ask me whatever you want. I will always listen to you and I respect whatever decision you make.



For more about me: A survey. Yessss! (You have got to be so bored by now. Half of you haven't even read this far..)



Basic Questions!!
First name- Mandy
Middle name- Marie
Do you like your name?- Uh, it's okay.
Are you named after anyone?- No, not really.
Who?-
Birthday- March 20th, I will be 20 soon! Yes!
Current age- 19
Where you were born- Sydney, Australia
Where you currently live- New York City, close to Manhattan
Your looks and body!!
Face shape- Oval.
Skin tone- Beige.
Do you have acne?- No.
Hair color- Blonde, currently has black and red streaks in it.
Hair texture- Straight.
Hair style- It's usually down and straight, or in pigtails.
Hair length- Past my shoulders.
Eye color- A dark blueish green color.
Eye shape- Um, regular? Circle? What the hell!?
How big are your eyes?- What?!
Do you wear contacts or glasses?- Neither.
How about braces? Have/had them?- Never had them, no.
Do you have straight teeth?- Yep.
Are they really white?- I would hope so.
Do you have high cheekbones?- Wow.
Long eyelashes?- Yeah.
Do you wear makeup?- Mostly.
What kind of makeup do you use?- MAC or Estee Lauder, Stila, Chanel, Urban Decay, LORAC, Pout. It all varies, I like to play around.
What brand of makeup do you use?- Because I'm such a dipshit I answered it above. *shrugs*
What shoe size do you wear?- 6 ..okay, so I have small feet. Kill me!
Ring size?- 4.
Belt size?- Um...
Pant size?- 4
Shirt size?- small
How tall are you?- 5'6
Happy with it?- I could be taller.
Your weight- 113
Happy with it?- I guess.
Do you exercise a lot?- Sometimes. Probably not enough though.
What kind of exercising do you do?- Well, does dancing count? How about walking?
Are you 'toned'?- Are you a fucking "tard"?
Muscular?- Oh baby! Check out my 8 pack. Kidding, gosh!
Overweight?- Nope.
Are you in shape?- Sure.
You and School!!
What school do you attend?- I go to college now.
What grade are you in?- Sophmore in college.
What classes are you taking?- My major is art.
What's your favorite one?- Art.
Least favorite?- ::::
Favorite teacher- :::::
What class do they teach?- ::::
Least favorite teacher- :::
What class do they teach?- Okay, seriously...
How many schools have you ever attended?- 3.
Are you in any clubs?- Oh.
What ones?- My.
What about school plays?- God.
Musicals?- No.
Do you go to a lot of school dances?- No.
Are you full of school spirit?!?!?- Hahaha, I never was.
Ever got detention?- Never once.
Suspended?- No.
Expelled?- No.


advice

What the average size of a penis?
my penis is quiet small and my gf sort of joked around when she saw it and says i should be bigger
does size matter to most girls?

Hey!! Well I guess average varies to anyone so everyone has something different in mind. And usually, to be honest most girls * not all* do care about the size. But some girls say that they prefer like a 5 or 6 inch. Since your girlfriend joked about how small your penis was, if you feel like that gave you less confidence about it make sure you tell her. I am assuming that size does matter to her but as long as she loves you the size of your dick shouldn't be a big deal. But don't be ashamed of it because the size of it isn't the purpose. It's the action that's the purpose! Hehehe. Love Always, Mandee

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DUDE!!! What is a "Glitter Name"??? I see those questions all of the time, and I have NO damn clue as to what it is! Would someone be as kind as to enlighten me???

A glitter name is bascially a HTML image of your name. Pretty much meaning that you can decorate your name with glitter online. A lot of people use it and it's quite popular. http://tutorials.jewelswebgraphics.com/glittername.html There's an example right there. =) Love Always, Mandee

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for my advicenator page, i put in the link and stuff for my background page to make it different instead of a solid color, it won't work now, and i put it in the right spot... can anybody guide me and tell me to do it right! I rate

Okay, well I have no clue where you are. But I'm going to list what you do step by step, because you probably made a mistake and maybe you'll find it somewhere. I'm sorry if I didn't help. But i'll try!

So first you wanna go to Column Settings - Your Column Colors. Next, there should be a Page background image (URL): ( This is where you should put your site down.) Make sure that the Http:// is there and that it the site is correct. That may have been why it doesn't work. Or maybe it's just the site that you got it from. Remember that it should be a web address and not a code. This is where I get my backrounds from http://backgrounds2001.cjb.net/ maybe if it still doesn't show up you can check out some more backrounds there. They have really cute ones. I'm not sure what went wrong, but maybe just taking it step by step will help you out. And if you need anything else you know where to find me! Love Always, Mandee

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hey im a child star, which means that i do tv shows and commercials and stuff, and my agent called me and wants me to be in this movie...and this movie will take up 2 months of the school year..i cant miss school, but i cant miss this movie oppritunity. wht do i do? help!!!

You are right, don't miss out on something that may never be offered again. Some options for schooling are that your teachers can send you packets of homework that you can turn in when you show up. Or you can be tutored while you are in you're movie. Because you'll be away a lot, but still stick to your education. You can talk to your local school about more options. If acting is your talent, go for it!!! Love Always, Mandee

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is it normal for me to be crying over little things when i get my period??

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Of course. Girls will sometimes get way too sensitive around their period. Some get mood swings...so don't be suprised if you are crying about some petty thing and then start getting mad a second later. Try drinking green tea and listen to relaxing music to calm you down. Love Always, Mandee

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I am in a long distance relationship with this guy I really love. The problem is.. i feel like he's going to cheat on me. When he lived here, he cheated on me once cause he got drunk and stoned. I just afraid he will do it again and I will find out about it. I really want to trust him but its hard.

Is there any way to convince myself that he's not cheating on me.. or that he won't cheat on me?

**I know it sounds kind of stupid, but it really bothers me**

It doesn't sound stupid!! (lol) I know how you feel, been there before. Anways, sweetie...he loves you and you are his girlfriend. You need to trust him because without trust relationships tend to slip. If you're really concerned just tell him about it. You love him and you should never feel afraid to tell him whats on your mind. When you hear his voice and it sounds honest you'll be convinced. I don't know you or this guy personally, but he loves you for a reason and why would he cheat on a girl he truly loves you? You most likely stood out from all the other girls, so I don't think he would find another girl with all the same and wonderful qualities you have! Just give him a call and tell him everything, because if he knows that you're afraid he can reassure you himself. Don't worry hun, everything will be okay!! Love Always, Mandee

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I have had a couple of boyfriends and i really liked all of them. but none of them last for a long time because when i really like someone just all of a sudden i wake up one morning saying, ok well i dont really like this person anymore or i like someone else. Do u think that i should wait to have a boyfriend for awhile? or if i start to like a guy i should be his friend for awhile and then see what happens?? please answer my question!! i need some advise!! thanks!
(Im 14)

It's okay, a lot of people do the same thing. They lose interest in a guy easily. I personally would go with the whole liking-a-guy-so-get-to-know-him-as-a-friend because then you know information about him and you can build up your relationship if you wanted to, or if you suddenly think you wouldn't wanna date the guy you could still be friends. It's good to have a lot of guy friends, they don't get all crazed out if they don't look just right, and they are so easily going, less tense. So if you ever needed anything you'll always have him for a friend with you. The thing about trying for a boyfriend relationship with him is the chance that it may break up the friendship. So I strongly recommend that you give it A LOT of thought. But if you think you need time away from guys until you feel that you are ready to stay with one, waiting is okay too. You can just be single for awhile and be talkative, get to know personalities of guys and then hopefully when you find someone you like, you'll stick to it. Good luck babe! Love Always, Mandee

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Kevin1986 here. Everybody please stop asking I like this guy,does he like me? I have no clue. I'd need to know the situation a lot better and I really don't know. Of course,the best thing to do is go up and talk to the guy,instead of asking me,who knows nothing more about the situation than you like him. Also,ladies your cherries can pop through just about any strenous activity. Stop asking me about that. And finally,stop with the What turns guys on. Anything,just show up ok?

I'm not against it that much for short answers, but it's really hard to figure out the problem without a detailed question. So yeah, I do agree, if people provided more detailed questions, it's a lot more easier to help them out with! And yeah, a lot of the same questions... -Mandee

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Alright, my ex boyfriend "Jim" and I haven't talked since he's broken up with me about 2 months ago. We've dated a couple of times before, but he was always the one to break up with me, even though we loved eachother very much. Well, after 2 months of me not talking to him, he's started calling me again, and wanting to see me. I know his intentions are good, and I know that he loves me, because he actually cries over me, and writes songs about me and such. But I'm just not sure if I should try it with him again, because I don't want him to break my heart again, but I do want to be with him. So much, I would take a bullet for this guy. Also, my best friend hates him, because he's broken up with me so many times before. And she doesn't hate a lot of people. I know it would be wrong to date him if my best friend hated him, but you have no idea how much I want to be with this guy. I don't want to fuck up mine and my best friend's relationship, but I'm also terribly in love with this guy, and vise versa. Can you help me please?

You want to be with this guy more than anything, and he is obviously showing his emotions for you, right? Now I understand that he has broken up with you a lot, but you need to tell him honestly of what needs to happen if you two start dating again. Saying things such as : " I love you, really I do..and I want to be with you but there are a few things I want to make clear. You have broken my heart before, and I just can't let that happen anymore, so if we are going to date again I want you to be honest with me about everything, and I want you to be there for me. Which does not mean that you can break up with me about small things, because if you do love me you'll have to try and make this work and I will too." Make him understand exactly what you want, but please keep in mind that if you're going to tell him things like that, say it nicely. You only want whats best for you and him. About your friend...you love this guy, don't let anyone stop you. Talk to her and tell her that you love him and she needs to support your ideas, maybe she can spend time with him and you. Once she gets to know the reasons why you love this guy, she'll respect him more. If you decide to go out with him again stay close with your friend. Maybe she could be upset because you spend more time with him than her. So always make time for your friends. She doesn't have to like him if she doesn't want to, but she can try. No matter what, if she really wants your friendship to work she'll stick by you for this. Good luck with everything hun! Best wishes! Love Always, Mandee

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Okay..I just broke up w/ my ex like 2 days ago and we were together for about 4 months.I went to a party last night and i met this guy and hes a 16 (im 13) and we like kidna hooked up and now i feel really bad since i just broke up w/ my ex..But I like the guy i met and me and him like eachother and everything but like my ex still likes me a lot and I dono if i should just worry about my feelings or be nice and worry about me ex's!Cuz i like this new guy a lot and he wants to go out and stuff.i dono..PLEASE HELP!

Sweetie, if you and your ex broke up, it's final..over...done. The both of you need to move on and meet new people. You're free now so you can hook up with whoever you want right now, don't feel bad about that. If you like the guy you met recently, then go for it...only if you think you are ready. If you feel like you should maybe wait a week so it doesn't look like you were desperate or whatever the case may be then do that. Your ex still likes you a lot, so that's normal that he would get disappointed about it, but if you guys were serious about the break up he will have to realize that he needs to get over you too. Eventually he will meet another girl just like you met another guy. Part of breaking up is getting over the guy/girl and the things they want. This is a time when you finally have no one you are with right now, you can go out and meet people and even go out. Just do want you want hunnie!! There are no rules, make yourself happy. If you like this new guy, try it out and see how things go! Just make sure you are ready for another relationship, if not you can slow it down a little! Take care!!! Love Always, Mandee

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Boyfriend/ Parents problems.. :/
Posted Sunday August 01 2004, 2:02 am
Hey, i've been going out with my boyfriend for about 8 months now and we both are 17. I don't really know his parents that well and i always just see them past and go. Like when we go to church and stuff. That's about the only time i ever see his parents and he's all the time hangin out with my family and going out to dinner and all. I've never once hung out with him and his family together sense we've been going out. The deal is.. when we started going out his parents said that he was changing like acting diff, his attitude *in a bad way* :/ and he didn't want to do anything around the house anymore. Well, his parents are really.. strict okay. So they called my parents up not even knowing me or my parents! And said there son was changing and all and they didn't want him to have a gf until he was 18! :-/ Well, this was like at the beginning of the year well everying has been fine sense then but just this past month they have been saying it again and they are telling him to break up with me.. :/? Is it me or what!? They don't even know me. We Love each other so much and we both are old enough to date and all.. but his parents are so freakin weird! I don't know what to do anymore. I've delt with so much sense i've been with him. I feel like an old married couple fighting with his parents about stupid stuff! :/ Maybe i should just be friends with him and see how things go on later.. i don't know. Can some one help me please! :(

Your choice to break up or stay with him is yours. Sweetie, if his parents don't know you...then they are probably just being very judgemental. They might think that their child deserves only the best girlfriend in the world. And right now you are the best girlfriend in the world to this guy, and you shouldn't worry about his parents...just him. His parent's can't MAKE you break up, they can try...but if you like this guy why lose a good relationship because of his parents? It's not his fault that his parents act the way they do. A good idea might be to go over and meet them. As bad as it sounds it could turn out good and solve this problem. You could show them that you really are a sweet girl and that you are not changing the behavior of their son. Prove them wrong!! Because why should they judge you when they don't know you? Ask them nicely if you could maybe take them to dinner or have dinner over their house because you would like to get to know them better. If his parents are strict them may be a little skeptical but you can try and fix this by showing them who you really are. Good luck! Love Always, Mandee

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Is there something wrong with thinking Ariel from the little mermaid is soooo hot?

Haha not at all! Go for it, if you think girl that live in the water with red hair and blue eyes who can sing about feet are hot, who is to tell you that you're wrong!!! ;) Love Always, Mandee

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is it just me.. or does it bug you girl when guys try toooo hard.. yea its cute that they wanna give you the world.. but isnt it like.. sometimes i just need a good time?!! or am i crazy! thanks x0x0x0

LOL Hun, you are not crazy!! I agree completely, it can get very old fast. It's like they put on some act! Haha. One time this guy who didn't even know me asked me out, I told him I had a boyfriend and the next day he stalks me shows up at my door with 16 roses 2 cards three teddy bears and a carton of eggs ( yeah..eggs..strange I know). Anyway, it's sweet but..they just shouldn't go through all of that. But I can definitely agree if you are going out with someone and they do TOO MUCH and it gets crazy. Hehe. Just wanted to you let you know, I agree. Love Always, Mandee

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One of my guy friends i have i met last year and i didn't like him as more than a frend last year so i wasn't nervous around him but now i think i like him and i think it is starting to tear at our friendship. I don't want to be in a relationship with him. I want to be frends with him but he just makes me nervous now. what do i do?

If he makes you nervous you need to tell him. If you ever worry about something in a relationship or friendship it's a really good thing to tell the person because then you get an answer instead of worrying. So what I would do is nicely say how you are concerned with the relationship, and things are becoming different for the both of you. Does he know you like him? If so you could calm things by saying how you don't want to be in a relationship, you just want to stay friends because you need him here for you as a friend. If you start to like hime and can't help that ( which you probably can't lol) you will start to feel different chemistry between you two. It's normal when this happens. It's really hard to try and make it on just a frienship level when you like him more than that. But definitely open up and talk to him about things, you should get answers by doing that. Good luck hunnie! Love Always, Mandee

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my BEST friend knows that i like this guy even though ik he probably doesnt like me and that he is a grade younger than me, but to me that doesnt matter. just a couple of days ago the guy i like i think is starting to liek my BEST friend and i think she likes him too and she knows that i like him alot! and he said that he wants to go out with her and she wants to go out with him, what should i do or tell her?

- Sad N Confused

You both like this guy, so this is a problem. Think of her feelings too. If you finally got the chance to go out with a guy that you liked, would you? Probably yes. And if your friend liked him too wouldn't that mean you still deserve to go out with him, or would that matter to you? Talk to her about. Tell her that you like this guy a lot and if you got more of a chance to know him and started dating him you'd be really happy. The only thing is that she may feel the same way. You both should consider each side and figure out what to do. Ask her is she really likes him...and remind her that you like him also. It could mean fighting over him. But figure out if you really think he's worth the risk of your friendship. Just keep in mind that you friend may like him too. If she doesn't then tell her to back down a little bit while you get to know him. Good luck!! Love Always, Mandee

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i ahve this problem i just moved to a new stae and met a rly cool guy and we were talkin but stuff happened and we stopped talkin and were jsut freinds but it seems like whenever i am round him i kiss him and stuff but i dont want a relatioship so should i keep doin this i feel like i am leadin him on or just stop...if you could tell em anything it would be great i am so comfused!!
--CoNfUsLeD--

Sweetie, don't confuse the guy. Guys usually tend to that that by kissing him all of the time or flirting you want him. And by doing that and not saying you want a relationship might kill him because he might start developing a crush on you. If you know how what it's like to want a relationship with a guy, but he doesn't want one or like you that's a tough thing to go through. So why put someone else in that position? Just continue being friends with him, and cut down on the kissing! I'm sure he would appreciate that more than having his heart crushed! I know you don't mean anything by it, but he might think that you do. Don't lead him into believing in something that's not there. Good luck! Love Always, Mandee

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im 15 and a female! ok i went out with this guy about a year and a half ago and i made a big mistake (whole other story) and since the day we broke up i have had a major crush on him and EVERYBODY knew it cuz i have a big mouth and i don't keep it shut lol and well me and my cousin are very close or at least we were. she never met this guy untill a few months ago but she knew i would do anything to go back out with him. even though she was aware of this she still went on with her usual ways of flirting with him. this made me furious, but after about a month she forgot all about him. then one day i invited her to a party with me where i knew he was going to be there not thinking of the conciquences! she was all over him and it made me soooo angry. NOw they talk on the phone all the time i mean they don't even live in the same state! she told me that she wasn't even interested in dating him cuz she doesn't date guys out of state! so i am confused she is constantly calling me asking me to go places with them but i am not up for all that junk i don't want to sit there while they flirt. i think she might be doing this to be mean. but im not sure, i am now over this guy but it still P's me off to know that she is getting the attention of the guy i once dreamed of! please help cuz i really am confused about what i should do about the whole thing!

If you are close to your cousin you should know her well or at least have a basic idea of what she is like. Is she the type of person to steal your ex-boyfriend away because she just wants to be mean? There could be many reasons why she's doing this. Either she thinks that you are over him and you aren't truly being serious when you say you're not over him. Or she might like this guy...and regardless of what you say she'll try and go out with him anyway but she denied the fact that she likes him and wants you to think he is just a friend. Since she is keeping contact with this guy and flirting with him, I'm assuming she doesn't care enough about how you feel towards that. And I think she would have a clue as to why you wouldn't wanna hang out with them. But make it clear that you are not over him, make her understand that. You guys used to be close, right? You should consider telling her exactly how you feel about him right now. And if she's ever missed an ex-boyfriend she should know how that is and back off a bit. Even though she insist that she wouldn't date him, let her know that's not how you see it. You see them getting closer and it makes you be in an awkward situation because you still have feelings for him. Good luck with your cousin and ex-boyfriend!! Love Always, Mandee

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I dont understand how all these younge kids come on here and ask for love advice and say how they are in love and "falling" for people. I dont think you kids really know what your talking about. Maybe instead of saying love so freely you all should start saying lust. thats what it really is.

I guess it just depends on the different opinions people have on love. Some believe it can come at many age. Others disagree with that. I think they are the only ones who can know if it's love or lust. And if they can't figure that out then they probably just don't know if they are in love yet. -Mandee

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I can't stop crying... 2 more hours until my baby leaves for the Navy... I just want to get strong again and STOP crying. I have cried so much that its starting to hurt the rest of my body. I have heard the figurative phrase saying 'her heart hurts.' But I never knew that this would literally hurt my heart... If anyone has any advice or anything... I just don't know how to pull myself together...

Aww, I'm so sorry babe!! There are of course a lot of negative points to this, but positive ones as well. Just think: This may be testing your relationship...you love him and he loves you, if you can manage holding this relationship together between the two of you, you'll have such a strong bond when he comes back. And when he comes back, in the time that he's away this will make you appreciate him more! Never give up on him even though he's gone, you can do this!! Take all the you need to cry..even if it's a month (lol) just keep the memories you guys have now and keep looking back on it. It might make you sad, but no matter where he is you still have him to love you! But if you really think you need to stop crying over this just lay down and drink tea read or do one of your favorite things. You could take a nice bubble bath, just get something to calm you. Bake a cake! Hehe. That's always fun for me ( of course i get cake mix everywhere) but other than that just basically find something you love to do. If you feel like going out shopping might help! It's a hard thing to deal with and your friends can help you, they can be there for you and help you get through it. And if you ever need anything, or to talk more about this, have more questions..things like that you know where to find me! I'll try and help too! But you'll be okay!! Good luck with everything, hun! Love Always, Mandee

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i could get any guy i wanted last year and the year before that...i thought of myself as ugly but they didnt
now i think im finally beautiful and i cant get a guy at all...its not like i think too highly of myself...whats wrong?

I don't think that it's whether you're pretty or not in order to get a guy. You probably have more self confidence now, and you need to bring that out! All you need is a great personality and you're fine!! Maybe guys are just too afraid to come over and talk to you, so be the one to talk to them. They may suspect you already have a boyfriend, but make it clear that you don't. Anyways just act like you normally would around friends..funny, crazy, talkative..guys like that in a girl! Good luck!! Love you! -Mandee

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