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Hard Time
I have had a couple of boyfriends and i really liked all of them. but none of them last for a long time because when i really like someone just all of a sudden i wake up one morning saying, ok well i dont really like this person anymore or i like someone else. Do u think that i should wait to have a boyfriend for awhile? or if i start to like a guy i should be his friend for awhile and then see what happens?? please answer my question!! i need some advise!! thanks!
(Im 14)
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Okay. You need a brake. And all girls well most girls go through this..(they can't decide) well your probablly a beautiful girl and so they all like you and would love to be with you. Just say something to your self to control yourself lol! sorry i dont know anything else!!
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I would focus on having one main boyfriend. One that makes you happy to be around.. not a million that you know you forget and everything.. try to spend more time with one you think is "the one" and flirt..a LOT, lol. Just talk about things you think you have the same interests in, and make sure to make him laugh a lot. If you do this, and he makes you smile, then you wont get that feeling when you wake up, telling you that you might like someone else.
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u suld date all u want!! lol. have fun just try not to break too many hearts. after awhile tho i think u should just be a guys friend and see what happens. cuz if u date too many guys there might not be any left when u really want one.
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i think u should just likeee not have a boyfriend for awhile bc then youll mess things up for the guy if you only have a relationship for a couple of days or something
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This happends when you're around this age and everything i did the same thing when i was your age i went out with alot of guys but when i got to my freshman year and everything i found the perfect guy and i have been with him ever since things just take time your time will come just try and get to know them maybe a bit more before plunging in...
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Hiya! Look, you're young... It's normal to have feelings tward a number of guys... Maybe try dating? Not like being his gurlfriend... But friends, and dates. Untill you see the diffrence between like a hot guy and boyfriend material :)... Ya know? And make sure you get to know the guy before you guys get to be boyfriend and gurlfriend.... I think that might help? :)
-Britty-
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Yea, you probably need to wait a while. Your emotions are probably getting the best of you, so if you like a guy, wait a while and see if the feeling stays. After a few weeks or a month or so, then go for it. Not only is it bad for you, but it's bad for the guy as well if you go out with him then one day just not like him anymore. Not too healthy.
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ok you should definitly wait awhile before you have a boyfriend and if you do start liking someone i think you should be friends first, i have the same problem sometimes...its hard but you'll start liking people longer in no time! :) xoxo
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try to get to know them more before you rush into things cuz maybe your jsut rushing into things to fast ...wait at lesat liek 2/3 weeks to see if you really like them before you get involved with them
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It's okay, a lot of people do the same thing. They lose interest in a guy easily. I personally would go with the whole liking-a-guy-so-get-to-know-him-as-a-friend because then you know information about him and you can build up your relationship if you wanted to, or if you suddenly think you wouldn't wanna date the guy you could still be friends. It's good to have a lot of guy friends, they don't get all crazed out if they don't look just right, and they are so easily going, less tense. So if you ever needed anything you'll always have him for a friend with you. The thing about trying for a boyfriend relationship with him is the chance that it may break up the friendship. So I strongly recommend that you give it A LOT of thought. But if you think you need time away from guys until you feel that you are ready to stay with one, waiting is okay too. You can just be single for awhile and be talkative, get to know personalities of guys and then hopefully when you find someone you like, you'll stick to it. Good luck babe! Love Always, Mandee
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It just seems like you'Re not Ready to have a boyfRiend. I guess you just haven't figuRe'd out what it takes. It will pRobably do you some good to give it a Rest foR a while! I wish you the best!
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