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Nervous with a friend
One of my guy friends i have i met last year and i didn't like him as more than a frend last year so i wasn't nervous around him but now i think i like him and i think it is starting to tear at our friendship. I don't want to be in a relationship with him. I want to be frends with him but he just makes me nervous now. what do i do?
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Boy, I can relate to that. Just definently don't start a relationship just because he wants to. It'll never work, trust me. What I did, when this happened to me, I just kept acting the same way, as if he was just a friend. He didn't seem to mind.
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Just tell him how you feel im sure he will b suprised...
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If he makes you nervous you need to tell him. If you ever worry about something in a relationship or friendship it's a really good thing to tell the person because then you get an answer instead of worrying. So what I would do is nicely say how you are concerned with the relationship, and things are becoming different for the both of you. Does he know you like him? If so you could calm things by saying how you don't want to be in a relationship, you just want to stay friends because you need him here for you as a friend. If you start to like hime and can't help that ( which you probably can't lol) you will start to feel different chemistry between you two. It's normal when this happens. It's really hard to try and make it on just a frienship level when you like him more than that. But definitely open up and talk to him about things, you should get answers by doing that. Good luck hunnie! Love Always, Mandee
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