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friends and love
my BEST friend knows that i like this guy even though ik he probably doesnt like me and that he is a grade younger than me, but to me that doesnt matter. just a couple of days ago the guy i like i think is starting to liek my BEST friend and i think she likes him too and she knows that i like him alot! and he said that he wants to go out with her and she wants to go out with him, what should i do or tell her?
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i have had that experience before.. yeah it sucks.. i know you are thinking you should be a good friend and you wanna see her happy and let her go out with himm.. but you know what.. you have feelings too. you either need to tell her that you like that boy too and you would like it if she didnt go out with him .. or she should just know that .. if she doesnt.. she isnt a good friend and you shouldnt waste your time.
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hey,i understand how you feel...if i were you i would talk to ur beztfreind and tell her that she knew you liked him and if she likez diz guy alot too just let da guy ask her out there are way too much guyz 4 you to like...bye lyl
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This is your bestfriend...and it kinda goes both ways...if yall are trully bestfriends you should let her choose and if she really likes him..maybe they will work out...but she should also respect your feelings and thoughts...i think you need to ask her if she likes him and juss figure itout on your own..if yall are "bestfriends" it will all work out
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i know that what shes doing is wrong, but you shouldnt get upset about it. because first of all, thats not a true friend if she decides to go out with the guy that she knows you like. and you shouldnt stress over someone who cant even respect you. secondly, if they do decide to go with each other, you know that there are plenty of other guys out there who can make you happy. you dont need him.
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just tell her that you rly like the guy and if she was rly ur best friend she will understand and not go out with him but if you dont tell her then youare gonna be unhappy so u jus needa tell her how u feel..hope u hepled..<3
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You both like this guy, so this is a problem. Think of her feelings too. If you finally got the chance to go out with a guy that you liked, would you? Probably yes. And if your friend liked him too wouldn't that mean you still deserve to go out with him, or would that matter to you? Talk to her about. Tell her that you like this guy a lot and if you got more of a chance to know him and started dating him you'd be really happy. The only thing is that she may feel the same way. You both should consider each side and figure out what to do. Ask her is she really likes him...and remind her that you like him also. It could mean fighting over him. But figure out if you really think he's worth the risk of your friendship. Just keep in mind that you friend may like him too. If she doesn't then tell her to back down a little bit while you get to know him. Good luck!! Love Always, Mandee
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hi i think that u should tell her that u dont feel comfortable with her liking him when she knows u like him and if she doest listen then she really isnt a friend at all. If she doesnt care what u think or say that not a friend!! write me back and tell me how it went!!
jasmine
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tell her how you feel. you can't change the way they feel. just be honest wid her and let them be. it's ashame that she does that tho. so just be honest wid her.
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It is kinda messed up that your friend would do that to, and know that you like him so much. Maybe you should talk to her and let her know that bothers you. But if she still gets with him, don't ruin your friendship over a guy. Just put it besides yourself and try to be happy for her. After all that guy is not the only guy in the world.
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I think that you should talk to your friend and let her know how you feel. Tell her that it would make you feel really bad and you really wouldn't want it to happen. <3 Steph
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