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the past & present
i could get any guy i wanted last year and the year before that...i thought of myself as ugly but they didnt
now i think im finally beautiful and i cant get a guy at all...its not like i think too highly of myself...whats wrong?
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Guys can be just as shy as women. When a guy sees a pretty girl, he is afraid to approach her in fear of rejection. They think the same way we do. So he is probably thinking to himself, "Wow, shes hot, but if i try to talk to her, most likely shes got a boyfriend, or she might not talk to me because they are better looking guys here" When women are beutiful, they are considered unapproachable. Try approaching them. If you have, and they still arent taking the bait, then just gain a friendship first. Its how your true colors appear. First impressions shouldnt be dreadful, but they can be, for girls and guys. If all else fails...remember that being single can be fun!
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I know a girl kind of like you. She's so beautiful that boys are too intimadated to go out with her. She's like runway model beautiful and has a very wonderful personality.
The downfall is that no one thinks theyre good enough or are afraid she won't like them because she's "better".
I'm just guessing that's your problem as well.
I don't have any advice to give you on how to get guys though. The problem is that guys will probably always be too shy to confront you because of your good looks. All I can suggest is you be the persuer instead.
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*You're probably intimidating the guys now since you have confidence. Instead of all the guys coming to you, go to them for a change.*
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I don't think that it's whether you're pretty or not in order to get a guy. You probably have more self confidence now, and you need to bring that out! All you need is a great personality and you're fine!! Maybe guys are just too afraid to come over and talk to you, so be the one to talk to them. They may suspect you already have a boyfriend, but make it clear that you don't. Anyways just act like you normally would around friends..funny, crazy, talkative..guys like that in a girl! Good luck!! Love you! -Mandee
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