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Waiting for him
Alright, my ex boyfriend "Jim" and I haven't talked since he's broken up with me about 2 months ago. We've dated a couple of times before, but he was always the one to break up with me, even though we loved eachother very much. Well, after 2 months of me not talking to him, he's started calling me again, and wanting to see me. I know his intentions are good, and I know that he loves me, because he actually cries over me, and writes songs about me and such. But I'm just not sure if I should try it with him again, because I don't want him to break my heart again, but I do want to be with him. So much, I would take a bullet for this guy. Also, my best friend hates him, because he's broken up with me so many times before. And she doesn't hate a lot of people. I know it would be wrong to date him if my best friend hated him, but you have no idea how much I want to be with this guy. I don't want to fuck up mine and my best friend's relationship, but I'm also terribly in love with this guy, and vise versa. Can you help me please?
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well since you seem to really love this guy i really think you should go back out wiht him, you know you love him! if you best friends really seems to hate him than ask her why shes hates him and tell her that you really do still love him, if she's a real friend she would understand, and as for him talk to him about how he needs to stop hurting you in the way of breaking up and that he needs to think things over before he ever makes any desicions like for example breaking up with you! hope i helped :) xoxo
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I've been there sweetie...But see for me things went different im still with the guy that totaly broke my heart but sweetie if this is a thing that just keeps happening you to what makes you think that it wont again i mean yeah the guy will still have feelings for you and everything but i mean is it worth a broken heart time and time again is it worth it? Cause that just means if you go back to him what if he does this again to you can your heart really take it? You need to think about this one sweete!
-Cass-
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My answer... Guys want what they cant have... Simple as that... I think I need to know the situation better... But he wants you because he cant have you.. Then when he has you... Well you catch my drift... I think you should say 'Honey, Im through with the heartbreak... But I want to be your friend?'. Because I mean... Do you honestly think its going to change... The breaking up? I've seen this so many times before... Just saying... Maybe you should get with him... But I say look for a guy that will treat you 110% right!!! *lol* Good-Luck! Hope all goes well! :)
-Britt-
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if you care about him and love him than maybe you should try to be friends with him and take things slower going abck into a relationship. It shouldnt matter what your friend thinks about him ebcause shes not the one thats goin thru it and she probaly doesnt knwo waht its like to love somone and not have them...try talkign to him again and see where it leads you ...times the only thing that can heal a broken heart so amybe you guys need some time apart to figure out what you really want or time together to heal your hearts together
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You want to be with this guy more than anything, and he is obviously showing his emotions for you, right? Now I understand that he has broken up with you a lot, but you need to tell him honestly of what needs to happen if you two start dating again. Saying things such as : " I love you, really I do..and I want to be with you but there are a few things I want to make clear. You have broken my heart before, and I just can't let that happen anymore, so if we are going to date again I want you to be honest with me about everything, and I want you to be there for me. Which does not mean that you can break up with me about small things, because if you do love me you'll have to try and make this work and I will too." Make him understand exactly what you want, but please keep in mind that if you're going to tell him things like that, say it nicely. You only want whats best for you and him. About your friend...you love this guy, don't let anyone stop you. Talk to her and tell her that you love him and she needs to support your ideas, maybe she can spend time with him and you. Once she gets to know the reasons why you love this guy, she'll respect him more. If you decide to go out with him again stay close with your friend. Maybe she could be upset because you spend more time with him than her. So always make time for your friends. She doesn't have to like him if she doesn't want to, but she can try. No matter what, if she really wants your friendship to work she'll stick by you for this. Good luck with everything hun! Best wishes! Love Always, Mandee
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I think that you should go back out with him, only because if he writes songs about you and stuff like that then he really cares about you. But if you do end up going back out with him and he breaks your heart again then you dont diserve to be with a guy like that. *Hope that helps alittle*
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